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Actually, now that I think about it, one simple change is needed.

The Catholic Church does NOT teach that sex must be procreative.

It teaches that sex must be unitive, and you must climax in your partners vagina, with no barrier or chemical present.

I mean that honestly. Correct me if I am wrong, but my statement is far more accurate. As best I can tell, that is what the Church teaches, and it help immensely reduce confusion and conflict.
I agree with the bolded statement.
 
Actually, now that I think about it, one simple change is needed.

The Catholic Church does NOT teach that sex must be procreative.

It teaches that sex must be unitive, and you must climax in your partners vagina, with no barrier or chemical present.

I mean that honestly. Correct me if I am wrong, but my statement is far more accurate. As best I can tell, that is what the Church teaches, and it help immensely reduce confusion and conflict.
If that helps, then sure.

But, go ahead and do a CTRL-F on any of these pages and search for the word procreative and you’ll find it plenty of times… so the church DOES teach it.

vatican.va/holy_father/paul_vi/encyclicals/documents/hf_p-vi_enc_25071968_humanae-vitae_en.html
vatican.va/holy_father/paul_vi/encyclicals/documents/hf_p-vi_enc_25071968_humanae-vitae_en.html
usccb.org/catechism/text/pt3sect2chpt2art6.shtml
 
Whoa, whoa… I’m sorry if the English language is difficult to understand… but this isn’t rocket science.
You can just as easily take that “if fertility is present” out… that was simply to make a point.
The adjective form of the word still stands. I don’t care how many people on the street can understand the definition of a word (I’ve seen Leno, and it scares me!), it is what it is and the church isn’t contriving anything. It’s a descriptive adjective used on the word sex. This isn’t crazy church interpretation.
Take it to an English major for an analysis if you need to.

You can use the word to describe anything… it doesn’t have to be sex. The church simply uses the word to describe the morality of the marital act.
Your quote of a real definition:

(prō’krē-ā’tĭv) pronunciation
adj.
  1. Capable of reproducing; generative.
If I have sex only when my wife is veritably infertile, is that action capable of reproduction?

Please answer.
 
Your quote of a real definition:

(prō’krē-ā’tĭv) pronunciation
adj.
  1. Capable of reproducing; generative.
If I have sex only when my wife is veritably infertile, is that action capable of reproduction?

Please answer.
It’s describing the WORD SEX.

The SEX is procreative.
It says nothing about the PERSON.
 
I would like to argue that playing symantics is not productive here. The issue is moral behavior.
And I would argue that semantics is what is causing the argument.

Procreative means “capable of being fertile”. Procreation is the exact moment when two haploid cells become a unique diploid. It has nothing to do with describing the act of sex. So when the Catechism says that marriage is “unitive AND procreative”, that is an EGREGIOUS error, unless you are conceiving each and every time you have sex. This, based on observation and logic, is obviously not the case.

Do you see why semantics are important? Language is how we communicate and so there needs to be guidelines for each word. The Church has thrown away the guidelines to the word “procreate” and all its derivations.
 
If that helps, then sure.

But, go ahead and do a CTRL-F on any of these pages and search for the word procreative and you’ll find it plenty of times… so the church DOES teach it.

vatican.va/holy_father/paul_vi/encyclicals/documents/hf_p-vi_enc_25071968_humanae-vitae_en.html
vatican.va/holy_father/paul_vi/encyclicals/documents/hf_p-vi_enc_25071968_humanae-vitae_en.html
usccb.org/catechism/text/pt3sect2chpt2art6.shtml
When did I say the Church doesnt teach that? Please. Ill wait.

I specifically said the church is the ONLY place you will get such a definition. I specifically agreed with that point. What is your point?
 
Actually, now that I think about it, one simple change is needed.

The Catholic Church does NOT teach that sex must be procreative.

It teaches that sex must be unitive, and you must climax in your partners vagina, with no barrier or chemical present.

I mean that honestly. Correct me if I am wrong, but my statement is far more accurate. As best I can tell, that is what the Church teaches, and it help immensely reduce confusion and conflict.
Even the dictionary agrees that procreative means ordered toward procreation, look it up–it’s not some made up Church definition. The Church teaches that sex must be unitive and procreative–and procreative means that all things being equal, procreation could happen, which means what your wrote above and what everyone defending Church teaching has been saying for PAGES.
 
Can you diagram a sentence? I can help you if you can’t. Procreative applies to the act of sex. An act of having intercourse without the hindrance of chemicals is capable of generating new life. Whether or not a persons’s physiology can support that or whether there are natural deprivations that prevent that does not change whether or not that act was performed in a way that could be generative.

Does this make sense to you?
 
And I would argue that semantics is what is causing the argument.

Procreative means “capable of being fertile”. Procreation is the exact moment when two haploid cells become a unique diploid. It has nothing to do with describing the act of sex. So when the Catechism says that marriage is “unitive AND procreative”, that is an EGREGIOUS error, unless you are conceiving each and every time you have sex. This, based on observation and logic, is obviously not the case.

Do you see why semantics are important? Language is how we communicate and so there needs to be guidelines for each word. The Church has thrown away the guidelines to the word “procreate” and all its derivations.
No, procreative means ordered to procreation. Procreation is the act of procreating or reproducing.
 
It’s describing the WORD SEX.

The SEX is procreative.
It says nothing about the PERSON.
Ill replace “procreative” in your new assertion:

The sex is capable of reproducing.

It still is false.

I never said anything about the person.

As plinko just further defined, you are changing words, not I.
 
How can someone using ABC be open to pregnancy? The whole POINT is to avoid it. If a couple is using ABC and open to pregnancy, they are sabotaging themselves. Or very confused.

I agree with your point that if someone is unwilling to accept a pregnancy, they should not have sex. I do not see where someone on ABC could possibly be open to life.
aBC is not fail proof. The form I’ve used is about 85% effective, give or take. But in any case, abstaining while fertile is less open to life than using a barrier during said time. Maybe throughout the entire menstrual cycle NFP is more “open”, but during the fertile period it is less. Then there is the FAM NFP method. A FAM user would have to be more open to life than a NFP+ abstinence user so in that case it could be argued that it’s more moral, if being open to life is a distinguishing factor.
 
Ill replace “procreative” in your new assertion:

The sex is capable of reproducing.

It still is false.

I never said anything about the person.

As plinko just further defined, you are changing words, not I.
The SEX is capable of reproducing. The PEOPLE aren’t. The sex is done in a way where conception can take place.

Okay… that’s it, I’m drinking.
 
Ill replace “procreative” in your new assertion:

The sex is capable of reproducing.

It still is false.

I never said anything about the person.

As plinko just further defined, you are changing words, not I.
Ahh…no sex act can be capable of reproduction. My kids are not copies of my self or my husband. Wouldn’t the term “reproduce” be misused?

We procreated…(along with God)
 
It’s describing the WORD SEX.

The SEX is procreative.
It says nothing about the PERSON.
I sort of see what you’re saying. The sex is “capable of being fertile”. However, that is a HUGE slap in the face to every woman and every man who cannot have a kid. I am highly offended every time someone says “Well Plinko, maybe SOMEDAY with God’s grace, you will have a kid”. No. Just no. That sounds patronizing and makes a mockery out of my issue.

So I have to respectfully disagree that any sex I have is procreative. I am not “capable of being fertile”. The definition doesn’t fit; stop trying to put a square peg in a round hole.
 
aBC is not fail proof. The form I’ve used is about 85% effective, give or take. But in any case, abstaining while fertile is less open to life than using a barrier during said time. Maybe throughout the entire menstrual cycle NFP is more “open”, but during the fertile period it is less. Then there is the FAM NFP method. A FAM user would have to be more open to life than a NFP+ abstinence user so in that case it could be argued that it’s more moral, if being open to life is a distinguishing factor.
Open to life is a misnomer…it should be ordered to procreation. When the act is engaged in, it needs to be ordered properly. It’s not a percentage game, it’s the way the act is ordered.
 
Ill replace “procreative” in your new assertion:

The sex is capable of reproducing.

It still is false.

I never said anything about the person.

As plinko just further defined, you are changing words, not I.
That act of sex, if completed in a whole and undeformed, perfect couple, is capable of facilitating conception.
 
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