"Don’t be ridiculous :tsktsk: You know I was not advocating pre-marital sex or adultery (my mom was almost destroyed by my father doing it and I wouldn’t wish anyone to have to go through what she did), and it is disengenuous to suggest I was. It would be like me saying that since you believe in more prolonged periods of abstaining during marriage that you believe all married couples should be celibate. "
You’re right, I do know, and should have added that I was using hyperbole to make the point that marriage doesn’t mean access to sex 24/7.
“And as for the life being a response to failure of medicine, I would respond that a child conceived from an NFP practicing couple would be a failure of technique.”
Well, no; it’s not the same thing. When NFP fails, it’s because an egg was present at a time in the cycle when it should have been absent - and can thus be seen as an act of God.
“And I have already established that I believe abortion is murder and most other evangelicals do despite many of them supporting birth control, so I don’t see one leading to the other.”
Oh, but I do.
I’m living proof. I turned 16 in 1968. I was not raised Catholic. The availability of the Pill meant that we women were now the sexual equals of men - we could now have sex without worrying about the consequences. I would have been a good deal less promiscuous if I had had to worry about getting pregnant.
(I’m starting RCIA soon - I’m gonna have to ask Father to set aside an hour or so for my first confession!)
Furthermore, now and then the doctor would tell me to go off the pill for 6 months or so, and I stayed celibate then. So, yes, birth control did lead to promiscuity in my case - and back then, I would not have hesitated to get an abortion if I “needed” one. (Thank You, Lord, for keeping me from that.)
And back then, sex ed was called “physical hygiene,” if I remember rightly. There was nothing there about condoms and “lifestyle choices.” Saving one’s self for marriage was encouraged. So that didn’t lead me astray.
I wasn’t alone in this, either. All my little friends were also fornicating.

Dooit’n doo doo doo doo, feelin’ groovy.
“I do see encouraging sex and “safer” sex to children in public schools as being responsible for increasing the amount of pre-marital sex and promiscuity which does lead to increased abortion.”
I don’t exactly disagree with you. I do think that “sex ed” is less to blame than is the media, which beats us over the head several hundred times a day with ads and shows that tell us that “getting sex” is the most important thing in life.
But that comes from my background, where “physical hygiene” was taught at the age of pubescense - meaning that the culture of sexual promiscuity would already have taken its toll by then.
I’m saying the following in a quavery, fake, old lady voice: “What’s this world coming to?”