Birth Control

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mosher:
But you see my point was not even coming from a theological vein but from just basic moral principles. The condemnation of birth control does not require Scripture for proof. It is an issue of Natural Moral Law which is written on the hearts of man.
This is circular. Essentially you are arguing that birth control is immoral because it violates natural moral law (i.e. it is immoral because it is immoral). You cannot assume its immorality inorder to prove it ito be immoral.
 
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Vincent1560:
This is circular. Essentially you are arguing that birth control is immoral because it violates natural moral law (i.e. it is immoral because it is immoral). You cannot assume its immorality inorder to prove it ito be immoral.
This does not characterize the resoning process of why contraception is immoral. Rather, it is immoral because it does not allow for the good associated with sex to be excercised. Thus, if in marriage the sex act is primarily for the procreation of the species then to make null that purpose would be to cause disorder in the sex act itself. Thus, the use of contraception is an act that violates the natural good of sex.
 
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mosher:
This does not characterize the resoning process of why contraception is immoral. Rather, it is immoral because it does not allow for the good associated with sex to be excercised. Thus, if in marriage the sex act is primarily for the procreation of the species then to make null that purpose would be to cause disorder in the sex act itself. Thus, the use of contraception is an act that violates the natural good of sex.
One of my previous posts dealt with why having lots of children might no longer be a biblicle imperative. I also think that the importance of sex can change throughout a marriage. Especially for a couple who has already had children the focus could be on giving to each other. Furthermore by your logic if a couple is not capable of having children they should not have sex, which not even the Catholic Church supports. For instance I have read on previous posts that if before becoming a Catholic one of the partners had been sterilized, it would not be immoral to engage in marital relations.
 
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Vincent1560:
One of my previous posts dealt with why having lots of children might no longer be a biblicle imperative. I also think that the importance of sex can change throughout a marriage. Especially for a couple who has already had children the focus could be on giving to each other. Furthermore by your logic if a couple is not capable of having children they should not have sex, which not even the Catholic Church supports. For instance I have read on previous posts that if before becoming a Catholic one of the partners had been sterilized, it would not be immoral to engage in marital relations.
Biblical imperative aside the nature of sex is procreative the spiritual aspect of sex is unitive. All sex acts must have both of these aspects because there is no seperation in our person between body and soul.

In a sterile situation that person may not be culpable.

As a couple ages the natural process of the body eventually end the procreative aspect of sex but again here we are talking about what nature has built into the system.

And while some persons who are sterile may enter into matrimony others cannot. An exasmple is a person who cannot complete natuarally the consumation of the marriage cannot enter into marriage.
 
Why have I been ignored, … again? 😦

I made a valid point, and it should at least be addressed.

If you don’t believe that the Bible says birth control is wrong, then listen to those who were taught by the Apostles, who were taught by Jesus, who was told the fullness of truth by God the Father (and no, I don’t mean that Jesus wasn’t fully God while on earth).
 
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FdeS2:
Why have I been ignored, … again? 😦

I made a valid point, and it should at least be addressed.

If you don’t believe that the Bible says birth control is wrong, then listen to those who were taught by the Apostles, who were taught by Jesus, who was told the fullness of truth by God the Father (and no, I don’t mean that Jesus wasn’t fully God while on earth).
Sorry, I didn’t mean to ignore you. I haven’t looked at the link you provided yet, but I should let you know that as a non-Catholic I do not acknowledge the infallibility of Sacred Tradition. Scriptural infallibility is the only ultimate authority on doctrine I believe in, and in reading the letters of Paul you can see how important it is not to confuse the wisdom of even the holiest of men with that of God. Paul for example at certain points in his letters clarifies that certain of his teachings originatd from within himself and were not given by the Lord. This humility reflects that even though he is probably one of the most qualified moral teachers ever, he does not consider himself infallible except when inspired by God. And also in Paul’s writings, the importance of not placing unnecessary burdens on believers is revealed as being extremely important. For example when the Jews relying on their own traditions thought it prudent to shackle gentiles with the same dietary restrictions they observed, Paul and the other early church fathers were quick to reject such an approach. That said, I do not believe Catholics are trying to burden people with their contraception restrictions, but are coming from a sincere and heart felt position that they believe will foster a closer and more meaningful relationship between a married couple and between married individuals with God, and I completley respect that. I happen to disagree with this position, and think that it may in some cases have the opposite effect, but I recognize that I may be wrong in my interpretation of the scriptures which is why I enjoy discussions such as this.

God bless, and sorry for not replying to you in a prompt manner.
 
"Don’t be ridiculous :tsktsk: You know I was not advocating pre-marital sex or adultery (my mom was almost destroyed by my father doing it and I wouldn’t wish anyone to have to go through what she did), and it is disengenuous to suggest I was. It would be like me saying that since you believe in more prolonged periods of abstaining during marriage that you believe all married couples should be celibate. "

You’re right, I do know, and should have added that I was using hyperbole to make the point that marriage doesn’t mean access to sex 24/7.

“And as for the life being a response to failure of medicine, I would respond that a child conceived from an NFP practicing couple would be a failure of technique.”

Well, no; it’s not the same thing. When NFP fails, it’s because an egg was present at a time in the cycle when it should have been absent - and can thus be seen as an act of God.

“And I have already established that I believe abortion is murder and most other evangelicals do despite many of them supporting birth control, so I don’t see one leading to the other.”

Oh, but I do.

I’m living proof. I turned 16 in 1968. I was not raised Catholic. The availability of the Pill meant that we women were now the sexual equals of men - we could now have sex without worrying about the consequences. I would have been a good deal less promiscuous if I had had to worry about getting pregnant.

(I’m starting RCIA soon - I’m gonna have to ask Father to set aside an hour or so for my first confession!)

Furthermore, now and then the doctor would tell me to go off the pill for 6 months or so, and I stayed celibate then. So, yes, birth control did lead to promiscuity in my case - and back then, I would not have hesitated to get an abortion if I “needed” one. (Thank You, Lord, for keeping me from that.)

And back then, sex ed was called “physical hygiene,” if I remember rightly. There was nothing there about condoms and “lifestyle choices.” Saving one’s self for marriage was encouraged. So that didn’t lead me astray.

I wasn’t alone in this, either. All my little friends were also fornicating. :cool: Dooit’n doo doo doo doo, feelin’ groovy.

“I do see encouraging sex and “safer” sex to children in public schools as being responsible for increasing the amount of pre-marital sex and promiscuity which does lead to increased abortion.”

I don’t exactly disagree with you. I do think that “sex ed” is less to blame than is the media, which beats us over the head several hundred times a day with ads and shows that tell us that “getting sex” is the most important thing in life.

But that comes from my background, where “physical hygiene” was taught at the age of pubescense - meaning that the culture of sexual promiscuity would already have taken its toll by then.

I’m saying the following in a quavery, fake, old lady voice: “What’s this world coming to?”
 
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Vincent1560:
I am an evangelical and am curious about the Catholic position on birth control. Where in scripture do you see a prohibition against (non-abortofacient) birth control? And please don’t cite Onan. The sins he committed were envy, pride, and disobedience to God’s command for him to provide his brother with an heir. The only way you can come up with a prohibition against birth control from that passage is by adding things to the text that aren’t there.
Onan’s death was directly related to the spilling of his seed - an act that took the pleasure of sexual relations, but contra-cepted it’s natural fruit and consequence, the conception of a child.
The Leverite penalty for not fullfilling the law in question - providing an heir for the wife of a brother who had died - can be found in Duet 25:5-10
"If brothers dwell together, and one of them dies and has no son, the wife of the dead shall not be married outside the family to a stranger; her husband’s brother shall go in to her, and take her as his wife, and perform the duty of a husband’s brother to her. And the first son whom she bears shall succeed to the name of his brother who is dead, that his name may not be blotted out of Israel. And if the man does not wish to take his brother’s wife, then his brother’s wife shall go up to the gate to the elders, and say, My husband's brother refuses to perpetuate his brother's name in Israel; he will not perform the duty of a husband's brother to me.' Then the elders of his city shall call him, and speak to him: and if he persists, saying, I do not wish to take her,’ then his brother’s wife shall go up to him in the presence of the elders, and pull his sandal off his foot, and spit in his face; and she shall answer and say, `So shall it be done to the man who does not build up his brother’s house.’ And the name of his house shall be called in Israel, The house of him that had his sandal pulled off.
So the penalty seems to be that you lose your shoe and get a spit in the eye…something less than the severity of DEATH. Thus the Church logically infers that something more important needs to be known about Onan’s behavior. BTW, this understanding of the sin of Onan was a universal Christian teaching until after 1930, when many Christian denominations had to deny this interpretation to start allowing contraception.
 
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Vincent1560:
My second question is I don’t see why Catholics allow NFP but not condoms, both when used correctly have similar rates of pregnancy prevention and condoms have the added bonus of preventing STDs. If the concern over condoms is not allowing your marriage to be open to children, how is NFP any different? If you say God can still enable the woman to get pregnant using NFP, then surely you would agree he can cause the condom to be ineffective as well. This is a real stumper for me because although I disagree with the no contraception whatsoever position, I can understand it. I can’t understand the yes NFP, but no condom position.
The use of a condom is a contraceptive act, the practice of NFP is the gathering of information to properly inform a decision as to when to have marital relations. You cannot judge NFP as “catholic contraception” because it is a NON-ACT, whereas all forms of contraception - whether chemical, barrier, or surgical - are direct acts against the natural form of marital relations. The Church regards this matter in two different ways. One is to look at the reason for postponing separately from the process that a couple may use to accomplish that goal. In other words, the Church judges both process and act separately. The Church recognizes that a couple may have a “grave” or “serious” reason to postpone trying for another child for a time, and to assist in that goal, the Church recommends that the couple know their fertility, and simply abstain from relations - a Non-Act.

Contraception is a delibert act against the “chance” of conceiving a child, and as such is a violation of God’s Plan for Life. The sterilization of the sexual act removes the fecundity so a couple may take the pleasure of the act. This “taking” is an intrinsically evil act, and is the equivalent of Judas’ kiss. An act of tenderness that hides the real meaning…“I want to have sex, but I don’t want your fertility”. If you can accept sterilized sex between a man and a woman, you don’t have much of a leg to stand on if you want to claim that sterile sex between a man and a man is wrong.

God made women infertile for a time each month, and the practice of NFP is simply keeping track of the cycle that God designed. The practice requires marital chastity - sexual self-sacrifice - when a couple has a serious reason to postpone pregnancy for now. This practice grooms a couple with the habits all marriages need to survive - mutual respect, full self-giving, constant communication and cooperation regarding the size of the family, and self-sacrifice. Contraception make a blanket decision, and blunts the sexual “oneness” of the marital act from the particpation of the Holy Spirit. {Nicene Creed: "…We believe in the Holy Spirit, the Lord and Giver of Life}.

Can any marriage do well without the aid and insight of the operation of the Holy Spirit in thier bedroom?
 
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johnnyjoe:
Onan’s death was directly related to the spilling of his seed - an act that took the pleasure of sexual relations, but contra-cepted it’s natural fruit and consequence, the conception of a child.
The Leverite penalty for not fullfilling the law in question - providing an heir for the wife of a brother who had died - can be found in Duet 25:5-10
"If brothers dwell together, and one of them dies and has no son, the wife of the dead shall not be married outside the family to a stranger; her husband’s brother shall go in to her, and take her as his wife, and perform the duty of a husband’s brother to her. And the first son whom she bears shall succeed to the name of his brother who is dead, that his name may not be blotted out of Israel. And if the man does not wish to take his brother’s wife, then his brother’s wife shall go up to the gate to the elders, and say, My husband's brother refuses to perpetuate his brother's name in Israel; he will not perform the duty of a husband's brother to me.' Then the elders of his city shall call him, and speak to him: and if he persists, saying, I do not wish to take her,’ then his brother’s wife shall go up to him in the presence of the elders, and pull his sandal off his foot, and spit in his face; and she shall answer and say, `So shall it be done to the man who does not build up his brother’s house.’ And the name of his house shall be called in Israel, The house of him that had his sandal pulled off.
So the penalty seems to be that you lose your shoe and get a spit in the eye…something less than the severity of DEATH. Thus the Church logically infers that something more important needs to be known about Onan’s behavior. BTW, this understanding of the sin of Onan was a universal Christian teaching until after 1930, when many Christian denominations had to deny this interpretation to start allowing contraception.
I’ve covered this point in previous posts (see post 28 in particular) if you care to look back. Nice to have you in on the discussion.
 
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Vincent1560:
…Abstaining inorder to comply with the requirements of NFP seems to be an unecessary burden, especially for a young couple; non-abortofacient birth control solves this issue. I agree that children are a gift to be embraced and that a married couple should be willing to be parents. However part of being good parents could include limiting their family to what they can provide for, protecting the mother if another pregnancy would harm or kill her (which would also make her incapable of fulfilling her obligation to care for already existing children) etc.
Abstaining is not a requirement of NFP, it is the consequence of deciding you have a “serious reason” to postpone a pregnancy. NFP is not the cause, only the process by which the decernment as to when to abstain may be made. Before modern methods of NFP, married couples routinely abstained, for the greater good decided upon. That is called the exercise of Christian Prudence, and a mature expression of sexual self-mastery. Again, NFP is not the “burden”, the circumstances of life that require prudence in hoping for another child are at play.
I also disagree with NFP being acceptable as opposed to other birth control because it is natural. God gaves us brains to subdue nature and master it (within certain constraints of course i.e. no human cloning) Modern medicine enables us to lead healthier, longer and happier lives by altering the natural course our bodies would otherwise take, so I don’t think unnatural equals intrinsically evil.
Yet modern chemical BC is both unnatural and unhealthy. Recently the WHO, of all people, listed the standard Multi-phasic birth control pill as a known carcinogen.

God also gave us the free will and brains to marshall our passions, exert our will, and gain mastery over our passions for the good of the other. It is part of treasuring the gift of fertility and not seeing it as a disease that needs to be manipulated so a couple can “enjoy” each other…
 
I read the article and again think its stretching scripture to accomodate a belief. There are other instances were God has seen fit to end life inorder to provide an example to his people, where death was not necessarily warranted according to Levitical law. Lot’s wife was transformed into a pillar of salt for looking back at the city (normally not an executable offense).
Yet her behavior was a direct act of disobedience - as was Onan’s
… and Ananias and Sapphira were struck down for saying they gave more than they actually had to the church.
Acts.5

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] But a man named Anani’as with his wife Sapphi’ra sold a piece of property,
2] and with his wife’s knowledge he kept back some of the proceeds, and brought only a part and laid it at the apostles’ feet.
3] But Peter said, “Anani’as, why has Satan filled your heart to lie to the Holy Spirit and to keep back part of the proceeds of the land?
4] While it remained unsold, did it not remain your own? And after it was sold, was it not at your disposal? How is it that you have contrived this deed in your heart? **You have not lied to men but to God.” **
5] When Anani’as heard these words, he fell down and died. And great fear came upon all who heard of it.
6] The young men rose and wrapped him up and carried him out and buried him.
7] After an interval of about three hours his wife came in, not knowing what had happened.
8] And Peter said to her, “Tell me whether you sold the land for so much.” And she said, “Yes, for so much.”
9] But Peter said to her, "How is it that you have agreed together to tempt the Spirit of the Lord? Hark, the feet of those that have buried your husband are at the door, and they will carry you out."
10] Immediately she fell down at his feet and died. When the young men came in they found her dead, and they carried her out and buried her beside her husband.
11] And great fear came upon the whole church, and upon all who heard of these things.

And in so doing, Ananias and Sapphira were lying to the Holy Spirit. They were struck down for disobedience. As I said above, we Christians who adhere to the Nicene Creed profess that the Holy Spirit is the Lord and Giver of Life. When we contracept, we willfully dis-invite the Holy Spirit from our bedrooms.
In other cases throughout the Old and New Testament God has chosen to show mercy to those who have committed sins waranting death according to Levitical law (David would be one example off hand seeing as how he committed murder, adultrey and envy all in one go). The point is that the penalties in the Levital laws were for men to enforce the law amongst each other, God is neither bound nor limited by the punishments prescribed in them.
And how does that change my point?
Was not the penalty for Onan’s refusal to grant his brother’s wife her rights a spit in the face and the loss of a shoe?
Did he not “take” from her the pleasure of the act, and spill the seed due her on the ground?
Did God do anything in the Old or New Testament capriciously?
Do not Onan and Ananias/Sapphira mirror the same kind of disobedience to God, with the same outcome?
 
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johnnyjoe:
Yet her behavior was a direct act of disobedience - as was Onan’s

Acts.5

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] But a man named Anani’as with his wife Sapphi’ra sold a piece of property,
2] and with his wife’s knowledge he kept back some of the proceeds, and brought only a part and laid it at the apostles’ feet.
3] But Peter said, “Anani’as, why has Satan filled your heart to lie to the Holy Spirit and to keep back part of the proceeds of the land?
4] While it remained unsold, did it not remain your own? And after it was sold, was it not at your disposal? How is it that you have contrived this deed in your heart? **You have not lied to men but to God.” **
5] When Anani’as heard these words, he fell down and died. And great fear came upon all who heard of it.
6] The young men rose and wrapped him up and carried him out and buried him.
7] After an interval of about three hours his wife came in, not knowing what had happened.
8] And Peter said to her, “Tell me whether you sold the land for so much.” And she said, “Yes, for so much.”
9] But Peter said to her, "How is it that you have agreed together to tempt the Spirit of the Lord? Hark, the feet of those that have buried your husband are at the door, and they will carry you out."
10] Immediately she fell down at his feet and died. When the young men came in they found her dead, and they carried her out and buried her beside her husband.
11] And great fear came upon the whole church, and upon all who heard of these things.

And in so doing, Ananias and Sapphira were lying to the Holy Spirit. They were struck down for disobedience. As I said above, we Christians who adhere to the Nicene Creed profess that the Holy Spirit is the Lord and Giver of Life. When we contracept, we willfully dis-invite the Holy Spirit from our bedrooms.

And how does that change my point?
Was not the penalty for Onan’s refusal to grant his brother’s wife her rights a spit in the face and the loss of a shoe?
Did he not “take” from her the pleasure of the act, and spill the seed due her on the ground?
Did God do anything in the Old or New Testament capriciously?
Do not Onan and Ananias/Sapphira mirror the same kind of disobedience to God, with the same outcome?
Yes, the penalty was for “Onan’s refusal to grant his brother’s wife her rights” The point was that the fact that he spilled his seed was merely the way in which he denied his brother’s wife, he would have been just as culpable if he refused sex with her period, and thus this passae does not inherently lead one to conclude birth control is immoral.
 
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Vincent1560:
Yes, the penalty was for “Onan’s refusal to grant his brother’s wife her rights” The point was that the fact that he spilled his seed was merely the way in which he denied his brother’s wife, he would have been just as culpable if he refused sex with her period, and thus this passae does not inherently lead one to conclude birth control is immoral.
Now now…if he had simply refused her - not entered in to her at all - all he would have gotten was a lost sandle and spittle on the face.

The lesson here is that he decided to **USE **her for his pleasure, and then deny her the natural consequence of the act that God imbued with such pleasure. Indeed, this passage only gives us the impression that spilling seed on the ground as a method of birth control is immoral.

There is no dispute from the Church that a couple should exercise some control sexually, but it seems to me that the withdrawal method is not much excercise of “control”…but I prefer G.K. Chesterton’s observation regarding the phrase “birth control”…He said “it seems there are no births, and there is no control.”
 
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johnnyjoe:
Now now…if he had simply refused her - not entered in to her at all - all he would have gotten was a lost sandle and spittle on the face.
I have already responded to this argument in my rebuttal to the article which makes the same point.
 
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ak29:
Some arguments he brought forth were, how can a Church continue to have a teaching that is not kept by the faithful, and only drives Catholics .
Hmm… It’s seems Jesus experienced this same problem.
    1. So Jesus said to them, "Truly, truly, I say to you, unless you eat the flesh of the Son of Man and drink His blood, you have no life in yourselves.
  1. "He who eats My flesh and drinks My blood has eternal life, and I will raise him up on the last day.
  2. "For My flesh is true food, and My blood is true drink.
  3. "He who eats My flesh and drinks My blood abides in Me, and I in him.
  4. "As the living Father sent Me, and I live because of the Father, so he who eats Me, he also will live because of Me.
  5. “This is the bread which came down out of heaven; not as the fathers ate and died; he who eats this bread will live forever.”
    Words to the Disciples
  6. These things He said in the synagogue as He taught in Capernaum.
    ****60. Therefore many of His disciples, when they heard {this} said, “This is a difficult statement; who can listen to it?”
  7. But Jesus, conscious that His disciples grumbled at this, said to them, "Does this cause you to stumble**?
  8. "{What} then if you see the Son of Man ascending to where He was before?
  9. "It is the Spirit who gives life; the flesh profits nothing; the words that I have spoken to you are spirit and are life.
  10. “But there are some of you who do not believe.” For Jesus knew from the beginning who they were who did not believe, and who it was that would betray Him.
  11. And He was saying, “For this reason I have said to you, that no one can come to Me unless it has been granted him from the Father.”
    Peter’s Confession of Faith
    66. As a result of this many of His disciples withdrew and were not walking with Him anymore.*
    John 6:53-66
 
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Vincent1560:
I have already responded to this argument in my rebuttal to the article which makes the same point.
I would not have written you if I thought your response clear enough, or adequate enough.

I this the equivalent of “I don’t want to talk about this anymore”?

Is not my logic above based on the scriptures cited?

Your insistance that Onan’s act was not a sin in the eyes of God, the act of the spilling of his seed, is an important linchpin in the general acceptance by non-catholic Christians of the worthiness of contraception.

That is why you are unmoved…
 
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johnnyjoe:
I would not have written you if I thought your response clear enough, or adequate enough.

I this the equivalent of “I don’t want to talk about this anymore”?

Is not my logic above based on the scriptures cited?

Your insistance that Onan’s act was not a sin in the eyes of God, the act of the spilling of his seed, is an important linchpin in the general acceptance by non-catholic Christians of the worthiness of contraception.

That is why you are unmoved…
I was not trying to end the discussion. I just thought you had not read my response to the issue because you did not address my point that God’s punishments do not always conform to Levitical prescriptions and that in some cases they are harsher and in some lighter and I cited scriptural evidence. This line of reasoning refutes the notion that because God’s punishment for Onan was death (not the Levitical punishment proscribed for not fulfilling his obligation to his sister in law) it means that Onan’s sin was not soley his failure to do his duty to his sister in law. While this analysis does not eliminate the logical possibility of your interpretation being correct it does require you to bring knoledge or bias from outside the scriptures to form that deduction. And I agree that this scripture is the linchpin of the Catholic Scriptural justification for its views on birth control, and since (for the reasons I have shown) I do not believe that its interpretaion follows logically from what is in the text I disagree with the Catholic position. You mentioned that my position lacked clarity; if this post did not clear up the confusion I would be happy to clear it up if you could tell me specifically what you had difficulty understanding. I am enjoying our discussion and God Bless 🙂
 
According to the following article in US Catholic

uscatholic.org/2005/09/featb0509.htm

“It is well-known that the overwhelming majority of U.S. Catholics do in fact use artificial contraception.”
“After much thought and prayer, they decided that contraception was the best solution for them. Freedom from fear of conception has had a very positive impact on their relationship and their family life as a whole.”

It looks like the Catholic theologian who wrote the article for the Catholic journal US Catholic is claiming that ABC has a positive impact on relationships and on family life???
 
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