Dear Frommi,
I took me about 3-5 minutes to google “first confession before first communion” and then follow two links to get the very accurate documents that addressed
your accusation that my information was WRONG (if I remember correctly?:
They may have made some of you uncomfortable…but they were not WRONG.
)
Now, once again, after you are
directly corrected in your misunderstandings of what is right and wrong, you revert back to vague, philosphical ponderings about what kind of “world you live in”
I do live in the world that says there is no reason for Catholics to harbor such hard feelings with each other over the posture for prayer…I do not live in one that prefers constant correction…it’s just not of my nature.
Regarding whether Catholics shouldn’t “harbor hard feelings over posture” I agree, which is why a priest should not have embarassed me so by interrupting the Mass to direct my children and I to stand. And “posture for prayer” was not the current subject (although it has been an issue, especially for me) rather it was clear cut examples of incorrect practices in the diocese, given because you want us to admit that bishops just “do things differently with different styles” and not that one bishop allowed abuses.
Regarding “constant correction” - if there is something wrong regarding the reception of sacraments, it needs to be corrected! If there is something wrong with the matter used for Eucharist, making the sacrament invalid - therefore nonexistent - IT NEEDS TO BE CORRECTED! People are there to receive Our Lord in the Blessed Sacrament, not what someone thinks might be the Lord, but what Jesus, through HIS CHURCH says is HIS BODY!
People are at Mass to have the Scripture broken open by the one whom HIS CHURCH says has the special powers of the Holy Spirit to explain that Word. Not my neighbor’ opinion of that Word, he may have spent lots of study and preparation, she, being a nun and having authority because of position (pastoral admin) is not the same as having the gifts of the Holy Spirit given in ordination - another Sacrament given to us by Jesus.
You don’t want to admit that there were abuses, and the fact that we hope they are corrected - which can then LOOK like a comparison between the two bishops - bugs you to no end.
Specific abuses have been listed, cited, discussed, defended and condemned on this forum and the other two or three that we’ve exchanged on, and we keep going around and around.
#1)An abuse is named,
#2)you try to say it is not an abuse,
#3)you are shown to be wrong by church documents,
#4)you then revert back to the vague philisophical posturing mentioned above.
#5)Then we start all over again.
Sometiems we’ve gotten ugly, other times (which I hope will continue) are civil and polite - but you must know that this constant “game” is tiring and frutrating.
Now if you are truly in search of truth: then accept it. And I should do the same. If shown evidence that Bishop Untener did good things, then I should applaud those things. If I show you, and (do not forget - painfully) describe how that has
hurt me and my family, you should be sad about that for us (If you are truly charitable) You should not want us to have to travel so far for Mass, to avoid the nun giving the homily and saying that “one day women too may be priests”, or to actually receive Jesus in the Eucharist and not just homemade bread, or to be allowed to kneel reverently in the presence of Our Lord, instead of being ordered to stand. Where is your charity, understanding, and desire for justice for me?
As for this:
I also appreciate Canon Law, and Liturgical Law, and happen to think I know a good deal about the latter, if very little about the former.
I don’t know what to say about
that. I would think, being the lowly self taught laity person that I am, (as compared to someone like yourself) that the two would go together, complement each other, certainly they would not contradict each other?!
I had to do some major cutting due to length so please see next post for my conclusion!