So if a religion wants to practice polygamy or gay marriage, or somethng else they wish to practice, you’re fine with it I’ll presume. This is not a violation of the Constitution. The Constitution grants a freedom to exercise religion. But there are laws. And employers for instance are subject to a variety of laws. Minimum wage, work conditions, child labor laws, and so forth. If health coverage is the law, then it’s the law. There are states with similar mandates in place in which Catholics are thriving. There is an exemption for actual churches.
First, my answer was in answer to your question about why it is different to require the Church, as an employer, to be forced to purchase this kind of insurance.
Regarding the other states, there are other exemptions. For example, in some states it is enough to be able to self-insure. You are not forced to buy anything. But anywhere Catholics are forced to participate, it is wrong. It’s not about whether or not Catholics are thriving. You don’t know their spiritual health in any of these places. It’s about being forced to do what they consider evil.
Regarding laws and religion, the government’s laws are supposed to protect it’s vital interests. So no, if something like murder is part of a religion, the government sees an interest in protecting the lives of it’s people. Minimum wage, the government sees a vital interest in helping people to not live in poverty (and then have to have our taxpayers pay for it.) Until recently, the government has seen that polygamy and gay marriage are not in the best interests of children. These are vital interests. Even the government does realize distinctions. Otherwise we would not have any rights to religious freedom. And if the contraception mandate stands, in fact, then we do have no religious rights that can’t be taken away.
But having said that, though I would be morally opposed to some other religious practices, the difference between what you posted above and what the government is doing is about forcing us to take action in something that goes against our beliefs. So to use your gay marriage example, it would be like the government telling our priests they had to “marry” gay couples.
There is no overriding government interest in forcing the Church to provide contraception. People have the option to pay for it themselves (and it can be as cheap as condoms), not have sex, or go to one of the many places that offer contraception for little or nothing. Nobody is forced to work for a Catholic agency. There is no overriding government concern here.
We keep hearing that a huge number of Catholics themselves use contraception. This is proof that a government mandate is not needed to have contraception available. Even if it wasn’t as readily available, why should it be considered a “right” to have “free” contraception, and why should that “right” supersede the right of Catholics to not participate in what they see as as evil?