Indeed. This is why I left the Episcopal church. My conversion story is too long to post here, but I grew up nothing (any religion was heavily discouraged by my father), attended an Assembly of God in high school, and on/off AoG and others until about 2001. I then searched again (the Catholic church never even crossed my mind), and fell in love with the liturgy at the Episcopal church.
But what drove me away from the Episcopal church wasn’t the service, the people, etc. It was their wishy-washy stance on everything. I remember in my pre-confirmation classes the instructor saying “We Anglicans define ourselves by the liturgy and fellowship. It is the center of everything, and we don’t get caught up in differences of opinion on political issues.” When I asked for clarification, he indicated that issues such as abortion, euthanasia, etc were “personal choices” and the church wouldn’t take a stance.
This position bothered me. I went to the rector, and she handed me a book called the Social Teachings in the Episcopal Church (see
this link). In it, I found much more clarity. When I returned it to the rector, she told me not to get too caught up in it. I asked about the 39 articles at back of the Book of Common Prayer. Again, I was told not to put too much stock into them. What mattered was that we all participated in the liturgy.
I knew then the Episcopal church wasn’t for me. And the ordination of Eugene Robinson cemented the deal.
Now, if the Catholic leadership makes the same mistake as my rector, there will be no place for Catholics of conscience to find refuge. I am praying that the Bishops and all the clergy find the moral strength to stand up for the Truth regardless of any potential backlash.