Blue Bloods disappointment again

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I really like the show Blue Bloods, except when it goes into specifically Catholic themes about which the writers seem to know nothing. They found it necessary to go into homosexuality last night and totally misrepresented the Catholic viewpoint. Then by way of dismissal they had the bishop dismissing Chief Reagan by the bishop holding out his ring for Reagan to kiss, implying some sort of humiliation of Reagan. Anybody else bothered by this episode?
 
I agree with you. It bothered me when I saw it originally and again last night.
 
I really like the show Blue Bloods, except when it goes into specifically Catholic themes about which the writers seem to know nothing. They found it necessary to go into homosexuality last night and totally misrepresented the Catholic viewpoint. Then by way of dismissal they had the bishop dismissing Chief Reagan by the bishop holding out his ring for Reagan to kiss, implying some sort of humiliation of Reagan. Anybody else bothered by this episode?
The Commissioner is a Catholic, and kissing a Bishop’s ring is customary. Any Catholic who has any sense of etiquette would know to kiss his Bishop’s ring.

There was nothing humiliating for the Commissioner in that scene.
 
The Commissioner is a Catholic, and kissing a Bishop’s ring is customary. Any Catholic who has any sense of etiquette would know to kiss his Bishop’s ring.

There was nothing humiliating for the Commissioner in that scene.
Yes, I thought that there was no reason for the commissioner to have to make a point that he disagreed with the Catholic church, didn’t see a reason for that to be in the scene other than the show wanting to make a statement.
 
Yes, I thought that there was no reason for the commissioner to have to make a point that he disagreed with the Catholic church, didn’t see a reason for that to be in the scene other than the show wanting to make a statement.
Well, yes, the dissent part I get. But there’s nothing objectionable about the ring-kissing. That’s a very Catholic thing.
 
Oh that rerun episode, because there wasn’t a new one last night.
 
I think that the episode under discussion effectively dramatized how many Catholics feel that it is not their individual responsibility to pass judgement on the sexual orientation of others and don’t want to be put in the position of having routinely to condemn homosexuality - even the Catholics who have a “reserved pew up front.”
 
I think that the episode under discussion effectively dramatized how many Catholics feel that it is not their individual responsibility to pass judgement on the sexual orientation of others and don’t want to be put in the position of having routinely to condemn homosexuality - even the Catholics who have a “reserved pew up front.”
He didn’t say anything about passing judgement, he said that the Church was behind the times and implied the Church was wrong.
 
He didn’t say anything about passing judgement, he said that the Church was behind the times and implied the Church was wrong.
Yes, but they showed a very common attitude by many people that are Catholic. Sadly.
 
Yes, but they showed a very common attitude by many people that are Catholic. Sadly.
Yes and that attitude is that they themselves are more of an authority on morals than the Church.
 
He didn’t say anything about passing judgement, he said that the Church was behind the times and implied the Church was wrong.
As I recall, the Commissioner was asked by a reporter to pass judgement, as a Catholic, generally on police officers who are gay. I think his comment about the Church being behind times was in regard to the judgement by some in the Church that people who are gay are somehow more unworthy of “the promises of Christ” than are other sinners. I think the point was brought home by the nun commenting that when she left home in response to being called to Holy Orders by Lord Jesus Christ, she kissed her girl friend goodbye.
 
As I recall, the Commissioner was asked by a reporter to pass judgement, as a Catholic, generally on police officers who are gay. I think his comment about the Church being behind times was in regard to the judgement by some in the Church that people who are gay are somehow more unworthy of “the promises of Christ” than are other sinners. I think the point was brought home by the nun commenting that when she left home in response to being called to Holy Orders by Lord Jesus Christ, she kissed her girl friend goodbye.
I saw it twice, hoping to see that is what it was, but it was not.
 
A nun does not receive Holy Orders!
Yes, that show bothered me the first time I saw it and I did not see it again. (Some
reruns I do watch, not that one.)
 
Yes, I thought that there was no reason for the commissioner to have to make a point that he disagreed with the Catholic church, didn’t see a reason for that to be in the scene other than the show wanting to make a statement.
Exactly
The Commissioner is a Catholic, and kissing a Bishop’s ring is customary. Any Catholic who has any sense of etiquette would know to kiss his Bishop’s ring.

There was nothing humiliating for the Commissioner in that scene.
To try to clarify, it wasn’t kissing the bishop’s ring, it was how the gesture was presented. First there was a foreshadowing closeup of the bishop’s ring as bishop and commissioner did some back and forth, then the clear extension of bishop’s hand with ring as (to me) the closing of the discussion with a clear implication of who was boss and a nod to the idea of the Catholic church trying to run Catholics who have political office. I recognize some anti-Catholic symbolic hot buttons here and I’m thinking they were not accidental.
Also, the sister remarked that she didn’t regret anything from her former life. Presumably that would include a lesbian lifestyle with her girlfriend.
So, the only person having a problem with same sex…sex is the mean, haughty bishop.
 
We should write the producers of the show. Sometimes the Reagan s are portrayed as good Catholics and other times they do something wrong. Didn’t Erin sleep with a boyfriend once?
I like the show, I just want them to be consistently good Catholics. If they have to do something wrong/sinful on the show I wish they could admit it and repent. That way they are e not portrayed as nominal,lukewarm Catholics.
 
Maybe I’m just lacking in etiquette. I’ve met and talked with several bishops on some social occasions and never had occasion to kiss the bishop’s ring. Never noticed anyone else dong it either. I think the bishop might have been startled and pulled back his hand if someone had attempted it.
 
Maybe I’m just lacking in etiquette. I’ve met and talked with several bishops on some social occasions and never had occasion to kiss the bishop’s ring. Never noticed anyone else dong it either. I think the bishop might have been startled and pulled back his hand if someone had attempted it.
I have little or no opportunity to meet bishops, but that is what I’d have thought looking at news clips. He certainly wouldn’t be shoving iti
it in the commissioner’ s face.
 
Not long ago I was at a reception for seminarians. After the vespers service, people were milling around and talking with one another at the reception, including the bishop, who was engaging in conversation with many people. Had everyone attempted to kiss his ring before speaking, he wouldn’t have made much progress.

Back when I was a teen, I used to go to daily Mass in the bishop’s chapel adjoining his residence with my mother and sometimes my brothers, because it was closer than our parish church. Once, we had entered and were kneeling when mom said, “Oh, I forgot to wake up your brother–we have to go.” We got up to leave just as the bishop was entering. He thought we were leaving because he was late getting started. He stopped to say a few words to my mother. Putting her arm around him, she said, “Oh, it’s okay honey, I have to go wake up my son.”

When we got outside, she said to me. “Oh! Maybe I shouldn’t have called the bishop ‘honey.’” “That’s okay mom,” I said, “you call everyone honey.”

But she never kissed his ring either.
 
Exactly

To try to clarify, it wasn’t kissing the bishop’s ring, it was how the gesture was presented. First there was a foreshadowing closeup of the bishop’s ring as bishop and commissioner did some back and forth, then the clear extension of bishop’s hand with ring as (to me) the closing of the discussion with a clear implication of who was boss and a nod to the idea of the Catholic church trying to run Catholics who have political office. I recognize some anti-Catholic symbolic hot buttons here and I’m thinking they were not accidental.
Also, the sister remarked that she didn’t regret anything from her former life. Presumably that would include a lesbian lifestyle with her girlfriend.
So, the only person having a problem with same sex…sex is the mean, haughty bishop.
The ring kissing scene was not the least favorable portrayal of the bishop. The bishop’s considerations when contrasted with the nun’s concerns were not very ministerial. The bishop was focused only on the real estate value of the school that the nun was trying to keep open. The nun was concerned about educating the next generation of Catholics, and she had data-based evidence for keeping the school open. When the commissioner advised the bishop that he had brought documentation to inform the bishop’s decision about the school, the bishop became very transactional offering to reconsider closing the school if the commissioner did X and Y for the bishop. The commission agreed to X but could not do Y which involved accepting an award because he felt that would be inappropriate. The ring kissing scene was the culmination of a very unflattering portrayal of a bishop who had his priories out of whack - in my opinion.
 
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