Hi, I am new to this forum.
It is sad that you had to experience such, even when I joined this forum I was initially called a troll and all sorts, but all is forgiven.
I still disagree with the Shia beliefs and have responded to ur answers in other threads. I could type lots to explain the difference between Sunni and Shia beliefs but I instead I attach a few links for you to read.
answersforshiafriend.wordpress.com/about/
youpuncturedtheark.wordpress.com/
If you would like to come to
sunniforum.com or
islamic-forum.net to post your beliefs with evidence or even on here a new thread with evidence for ur beliefs, there are people that will always give answers.
However I ask you to look at the core beliefs of the faith rather than the people to represent the religion. Even I get a bit hot tempered at times, so mite say things out of anger, and guys full of testosterone thats a whole another scenario lolz
I have looked at the beliefs of Shias myself as I also went in search of answers and am not convinced, as a lot of the evidence given is weak or fabricated or with no chain of narrations so you cannot p(name removed by moderator)oint where it started these beliefs from shia hadiths.
I lost someone very close to me recently and I can’t expect anyone to understand it, as my friends Muslims and Christians all expect me to move on. With some people probably judging me for feeling the way I feel, but I don’t look at these people to represent the religion, I look at the faith. and I have found so much strength from ayah and hadiths such as:
‘Allah does not break a soul only bends it’
‘Allah does not burden a soul with more than it can bear’
'All forgives those who have transgressed against themselves
‘Allah knows what is good for you and what is not’
‘Allah does not deny love, as the Prophet(PBUH) even pleaded for a wife to take back her husband and she said no, she wasn’t forced to take him back and at the same time the sympathy the Prophet(PBUH) had for the mans heartache’-this was a 2 slaves freed and their marriage annulled but the husband still loved his wife dearly even tho she didnt.
BWT i paraphrasing all this from Quran and hadiths, so excuse me if they are not accurate.
So when I read things like these it gives me strength, and I understand Shias may seem strict, but I respect them for being strict so that the religion does not go astray and people start introducing their own beliefs and concepts and corrupting the religion. I don’t think religion needs to be apologetic, Religion is universal and should always apply throughout time.
Ie I am not Homophobic but my Religion tells me it is wrong, and if people choose to practice it that is their decision they need to face with God, but if Religion starts to accommodate that it is ok, else they will be seen as homophobic? People may accept it but will God.
So the heated Sunni Shia debates, happens both ways, I’ve read all the terrible cursing the Shias do, even Shia hadiths which are rascist.
Kafi hadiths hate ‘negroes’ but Muslims are from all race?
“Beware of marrying the Negroes (Zunj) for they are an ugly creation.” (al-Kafi, fil Furoo’: Book of Nikah, Chapter: Whom Are Disliked for Marriage, Narration 1)
“Do not [even] buy anyone who is a Negro…never marry anyone of the Kurdish (people) for they are part of the Jinn (demons)…” (al-Kafi, fil Furoo’: Book of Nikah, Chapter: Whom Are Disliked for Marriage, Narration 2)
Racism another reason I cannot accept Shia hadiths and evidence. When I posted this evidence on youtube, I was called all sorts by Shias, so it works both ways.
So I think normal people like you and me and other civilized people should have discussion with evidence and not resort to what the trolls says and also ignore them if they do. If you have a point make a point with evidence and if that is enough, they can choose to take it in or ignore it but what more can you do.
I hope you continue to post, would be interesting to hear with evidence why Shias believe what they believe.