Boyfriend feeling agitated for lack of sex

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Yes self-control is costly.
Especially with men.
If you ignore the girl, she thinks you are gay.
It’s actually happened to me.
Self-control is costly but it’s between you and God.
You will pay for your self-control, you might loose the guy/girl.
Of course because the partner obviously does not want marriage, but only sex.
 
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CAF Friends, I think the question has been answered to the satisfaction of the original poster. After Post #8, she withdrew her original post, replacing it with a polite “Thank you for your responses.” Perhaps enough has been said.

@Rosie2, You’re welcome. God Bless.
 
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Nothing “costly” about dodging the bullet of marrying a manipulator.
 
I’m feeling agitated for lack of money , but nobody’s out there worried about getting me some 🙂
 
Well, I would advise - do not play with fire.
Just leave the guy/girl.
The longer you waste your time the worst for you.
Eventually you can fall, or you can fall in love.
Falling in live is not less virus, and possession. Can be very torturous.
You don’t need that
For your peace sake-just run away as from fire from these kind of partners.
 
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No, we’re in agreement, I said “dodging the bullet” of marrying a manipulator
 
Rosie2, may God bless you and keep you close to his heart. You are his beautiful precious daughter! You will be in our prayers.
 
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He’s blaming you for his bad behavior.
Is he going to apologize for his bad behavior?
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There’s a possibility he’s only trying to share his feelings and explain his mood and is not intending to be malicious about it. I didn’t see him blaming the OP in what the OP said, though I can see someone hearing it feeling like it’s their end that’s at issue even if the boyfriend means it’s his.

Edit: To be clear, I’m not saying his behavior should be ignored. If he can’t deal with his emotions and appetites in a way that doesn’t drag down the OP, the OP is better off breaking the relationship.
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This reflects my thoughts as well. As a woman, I know how hormones could affect my mood at different times. Some women have it so much harder to function than I did due to hormonal changes. It can help to understand what’s happening and acknowledge it, to go forward in resisting it.
 
NFP, sickness, work trips, post natal, it is not uncommon to have pelvic rest in pregnancy.
 
I wouldn’t trust him if he is using that as an excuse to get sex. I’d have a talk with him. If he wants sex so bad maybe he shouldn’t be dating you. Also maybe you should encourage him to do some physical activity or something to let go of tension. Wonder if he would listen to your advice though or just make up an excuse
 
My BS detector went off. If the boyfriend isn’t interested in living chastely, then there are other ways of taking care of his “testosterone” buildup, too. I am sure he knows about these. He doesn’t need to rely on you to do that.
 
Regarding marital abstinence, here is St. Paul’s Apostolic and scriptural counsel on the matter:

1st Corinthians 7:5 (RSV)
“Do not refuse one another except perhaps by agreement for a season, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, lest Satan tempt you through lack of self-control.”

So another reason to abstain during marriage is for prayer. iow (among other types of prayers), it’s OK to abstain so that you can go to Mass together. <3 😃
 
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