Look at this thread. A number of people joined this site so they could have their say and their ‘say’ is one that promotes abortion in this case. Astounding - like vultures to a bloodbath.
I am not sure this is fair…this is a discussion forum, so why not welcome discussion? Including, and especially, from those who do not agree with us – otherwise, who will learn anything?
If many new people joined this forum, it’s probably because this case opened a lot of questions in people’s heads, and we Catholics need to be understanding of that. As I see it, those of us who agree with the bishop’s decision have a choice: we can welcome people who come here in an honest attempt to ask difficult questions and talk about issues that may be keeping them from the Church, or we can call them names and tell them to go away and leave us alone with our narrow ideas and resistance to conversation.
Here’s one of the things I liked most in Archbishop Fisichella’s explanation of why he disagreed with the Brazilian bishop’s actions: they caused scandal to the Catholic Church. Of course we should not fold to popular opinion, and the Archbishop is not saying that the abortion was acceptable; but all he was saying was that in his opinion, a little more prudence could have been used, since there was such a great opportunity for scandal. His point was that the bishop should have been pastoral as well as dogmatic – for instance, saying the abortion was wrong, but going out of his way to empathize with the family’s pain and to emphasize the proximity of their salvation if they’d only call out to Christ for help. I think that we can do this, too: we can affirm the Church’s non-negotiable teaching on abortion on this forum, while still doing so patiently and with love.
I follow the Church.
I don’t attempt to lead it or to second-guess it.
All that is asked of us is love and obedience.
But if the dissenting voices on this forum have been “second-guessing” the Church, then Archbishop Fisichella is also doing that. I just don’t think there is a single acceptable pastoral solution to a case like this, and so “second-guessing” is not the right word. Honest, open conversation is vitally necessary for us…we can follow the Church even as we ask tough questions of it, and even as we disagree sometimes with some actions of some bishops. Saying that a bishop could have been gentler, or asking honestly whether all abortions are as bad as others, is not the equivalent of rejecting the Church.
Please be kind to yourself.
Don’t let this change disturb your peace.
In everything, blessed be God.
Agreed! I think this is a very important thing to say. This may be a difficult case for some people to accept, but this alone should not disturb our peace, and our trust in God’s Church.
Peace,
+AMDG+