Breaking the cylce!

[utunumsint]

I don’t have anything to add, but I’m following this thread with much interest. My one and only pregnancy was horrible because my husband did not take it well (it was too soon, I guess). After a long talk recently, he said that it is not that he never wanted children, but that he had imagined that we would have a house, two cars and a secured permanent job before becoming pregnant. But I made him think that if he would have married a person of his age, by the time they accomplish that thought/expectation, she would have been unable to conceive. Still, the thought of getting pregnant again scares him a lot. Currently, we are applying for his permanent residence because he is a foreigner who works for the government, we live rented and we have one car (a gift).

I hope my husband does not read your post or he will panic!

Praying for you!

PS. I’m breastfeeding, so I can relate with the point #7.

Oh I was just venting! There is so much joy and life and fun from having kids, and seeing them go through all their antics. They all have such different characters, almost built into them from conception!

I pray that you get settled soon so things are not so anxious for you both.

God bless,
Ut

 

[E_7]

Oh I was just venting! There is so much joy and life and fun from having kids, and seeing them go through all their antics. They all have such different characters, almost built into them from conception!

I pray that you get settled soon so things are not so anxious for you both.

God bless,
Ut

Thank you! I bet there is, and he is actually looking forward for when our son gets older. He already calls him “Game Partner, you are my game partner, oh yes, you are.” he repeats that and our son just laughs. He loves our son very much and have said a few times that he has brought too much joy in his life. I felt relieved to hear that, to be honest.