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Hail Mary x3 for Brother JR
My dearest brother:
Thanks so much for posting for me in TC Forum. Let my brothers and sisters know that I need their prayers and they can count on my own. I’ll try to get back soon.
I had several commitments this week that I’m canceling. It’s probably the first time in years that I have ever canceled an entire week of commitments. However, I’ve discovered something during this event. Part of the grace that God gives us is the grace to TO BE, not just to do.
I’m taking this time to be:
- A dad, first. I want to watch my children for a few days. When I’m gone, the world will know that I was here because they’re here and they’re wonderful human beings. However, I have never stopped to watch them. I’ve spent my entire life doing something for them or with them. Now that they’re adults, thriving and moving on with their lives, I’d like to get a look at what the Lord helped me to plant. No one should leave this world without taking one last look at the gifts that God has bestowed on him. You can’t detach unless you know what it is that you’re leaving.
- Then I’m a brother (religious). Again, I want to be a brother for a few days, not a superior. I just want to be with my brothers. The guys are awesome. All of us got together for St. Patrick’s Day in the evening. Instead of me delivering a lesson, we just shared stories, like a real family as St. Francis used to do with the first generation Franciscans.
- Finally, I’m a living breathing human being who shares the world with some amazing creatures. Do you know that I have two dogs and two cats? I love them dearly; but I never stop to watch them, much less love them. They have always been pets. St. Francis praised God for Brother Sun and Sister Moon. He relished being part of God’s created world. I have not done enough of that. I’ve been too busy trying to save the world to notice it. I think it’s time to be part of it, at least for a few days.
I probably sound very silly and very selfish. I hope not. However, I feel at peace. I may be here for a day, a month, a year or a decade. Only God knows. Whatever time I’m down for, I want TO BE. I just want to let God be who he is and let him take care of the world. I want to take a last look around without feeling that I have to save the world. That’s God’s job, not mine.
I can’t explain it. The only way that I can describe it is God is the woodworker and I’m the little knife that he has used to carve some amazing pieces. There comes a time for the knife to rest in the hands of the artist. The artist loves his little knife. I want to allow myself to feel that love.
Finally, tell my friends that I am always their brother,
***Eternal God, in whom mercy is endless and the treasury of compassion inexhaustible, look kindly upon us and increase Your mercy in us, that in difficult moments we might not despair nor become despondent, but with great confidence submit ourselves to Your holy will, which is Love and Mercy itself.***Tell the folks to pray for us. We’re opening a new house. Someone gifted us a house. Now we have a problem. We Franciscans of Life own nothing. We’re working with the donor to see if she will continue to own it and allow us to use it. We’ll see what the Lord wants.
This week is our community’s Lenten retreat. It will be the first time that I miss a retreat. I’m a little sad about that. However, God always has a plan. Maybe he just wants me to spend some quality one-on-one with Him. I can certainly get into that.![]()
Pray for me. Temptations are attacking me from left and right. When one is idel it’s easy to think uncharitably, to feel sorry for oneself, to entertain impure thoughts, or to feel proud of how much one is suffering. Whatever the temptation, they are real. Pray to the Immaculate for me. I need her help to remain faithful
God bless all of you for your thoughtfulness.
Pater Noster…Please pray for Bro. JR. He’s in the hospital with double pneumonia.

My daughter is always posting funny animal videos. This is one of them
- Finally, I’m a living breathing human being who shares the world with some amazing creatures. Do you know that I have two dogs and two cats? I love them dearly; but I never stop to watch them, much less love them. They have always been pets. St. Francis praised God for Brother Sun and Sister Moon. He relished being part of God’s created world. I have not done enough of that. I’ve been too busy trying to save the world to notice it. I think it’s time to be part of it, at least for a few days.
Continued prayers for Brother’s intentions.Another update from Bro. JR: