I’ll admit that my familiarity with gays and lesbians is minimal, but of the handful I’ve met who have introduced me to their partners none of them understand their relationships as you describe them here.
In any case, Openminded77 is pointing out that buggery means anal intercourse. It doesn’t mean homosexuality per se.
I’ve worked with many gay people over the years - both men and women & got to know them…
…in a casual, open type of environment, if they trust or are not afraid to open up a bit.
…They will, like many others, speak of their “proclivities”.
I currently work with 4 gay women who happen to think of themselves “as the man” in their relationship…
…They all refer to their significant other as “my wife” & likewise.
…Their “wife” refers to them as their “husband”.
This is most evident in the butch culture where a woman does her best to look at act like a rather crude man…
…In hopes of attracting “a woman” who wants a woman but wants them to act, dress like a Harley Davidson Biker type “man”.
…It would seem this type of thing would be some type of mental illness.
I don’t understand it or agree with it - I’ve just accepted that’s the way some are…
On the other hand I’ve also known women who both look and act like one would traditionally expect that are same sex attracted and live with another woman who you would never know is gay - it would appear that THESE TYPES are actually wired that way from birth. I.e. they were born that way.
In the end I maintain that a gays sins are no worse than my own because people ( I know I do )…
Often contrast their own sins with someone else because it makes them feel they aren’t “that bad”.
…The reality is that all of us on this earth are lost except for Christ.
I’m thinking a gay COULD enter heaven, even a gay who struggles with buggery…
…It depends on their heart and how God works with them and how they react.
…I don’t want to judge to much about it.