Your wrong, I have a son with SSA and have been to the Courage Conference, a ministry of the Catholic church and we know why many of them have become homosexuals. It’ a process of many things, but the bottom line is the personality type that has many rejections in life and has not been affirmed by their gender, either by the father or peers, and some have been rejected by the way they look, with women and people in general and some have learning disabilities.
None of you on here really understand it, unless you have a child or love one who is suffering from the disordered sexual desire, you shouldn’t be giving false advice. To answer someone that all the temptation applies to all of us I agree, and I am not bashing gays. So telling the truth is what some people don’t want to hear. But the pathology with homosexual relationships are over forty percent higher in homosexual men than heterosexual, more problems with drugs, aids, diseases, emotional problems, and the like because that life is unhealthy, because it’s not a normal healthy life that they were made for.
Since we are talking mainly about homosexuality, I was only addressing those issues. Of course we all have temptations and trials. I didn’t say there wasn’t good in money or TV and such, but if they are the avenue which many people strive to live as one of their idols, it’s going to take you down the wrong path. I think you all as Catholics should know what is an idol. Anything that means more to you than God.
The reasons for homosexuality are many and as I have stated they were not born this way. It’s not their fault for the attraction, but like anything, if we felt like robbing someone, should we do it? I am tired of all the lame excuses for people to live that lifestyle. From the many testimonies at Courage they all knew as some point it was a dead end life. So people get your facts straight and learn your Catholic faith. We are still to love the homosexual, but we don’t lie to them, we also lead them to chastity. Unfortunately some don’t know this and become very hateful, because they have been treated so badly. Now if they want a chaste life the gay community is even more hateful to them, than the people they first were hurt from. I encourage anyone that wants to know about this to go to the
www.couragerc.net website to see for yourself.
God bless