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Great discussion! Thank you all for the comments!!! This turned out longer than I thought.
I just realized I was asking more of a blanket question. Maybe it is more case by case, depending on the offense. It would make sense though about putting some sex offenders in a position of authority. I do think other (lesser offending) repentant sex offenders living for Christ, with accountability and spiritual direction, should be allowed in a position of authority. The religious orders, brothers or monks, might be better for others, since there is limited or no authority.
I more curious about the registered sexual offenders, but as for myself, as somewhat mentioned above by another poster, I had a similar experience. I was one of those people who was 21 or so who had a sexual situation with a young lady who said she was 17 or 18 (i forget), and I think she was 15. This was even after my friend told me her age… and after getting drunk, i either forgot, or never really paid attention to what he was saying in the first place, or just plain out didn’t care what he said. I cannot remember what took place, but I committed sexual sin with this young girl. Afterwards, my friend reminded my of her age. It sickens my soul now to think that i had committed such sexual sins. I know God has forgiven me, and for that reason I am able to share here and with others. I am free of sexual sin as I know it, but was am surely still a sinner who tries to live a life of repentance. Those who were caught doing sexual things with a minor and labeled as a sex offender aren’t less then myself, as I could have been caught myself.
I definitely understand the desire to protect children from potential harm, but there has to be a balance in surrender and trust in God verses trying to control every aspect of environment we place our children. It isn’t healthy for us or our kids to go to one extreme or the other.
It probably would be similar to not desire our kids to be with someone who attempted to murder someone and or who attempted to murder themselves (suicide), since these people also seem to have a low value of the dignity of human life. The latter, interestingly enough now that i think of it, doesn’t require prison time for the perpetration against themselves (maybe some psych ward time).
I think marginalizing all sexual offenders is not good for our or the offenders souls, especially if the offender has received Jesus Christ in their hearts and the fruits are evident in their Christian lives. Conversely, the offender needs to accept the responsibility for their actions, which may require them to be registered.
[SIGN]Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God. - 1 Corinthians 6:9-11[/SIGN]
I suppose I could go around feeling shame for having chosen bankruptcy, and also having been on the list for 10 years of my life. Or shame for the numerous other sins that i have committed. I need to remember that Jesus Christ has, is, and eventually, will redeem me.
“SOME OF YOU WERE”. Any sin label brings a stigma with it and the continue shaming of perpetrators makes it very difficult for them to really live, to learn to love and receive love. Forgiveness and prudence (as someone mentioned) needs to also be lived out. This is where the perpetrator really needs to grow in faith in Jesus Christ and be transformed by His love, so that he/she can do their best to learn to love unconditionally more perfectly, regardless if others choose to marginalize or shame them or if they are on “the list” for the rest of their lives. This would be part of the cross they personally chose to bear, and which God has allowed for their sanctification whether or not the perpetrator chooses to see it that way.
I just realized I was asking more of a blanket question. Maybe it is more case by case, depending on the offense. It would make sense though about putting some sex offenders in a position of authority. I do think other (lesser offending) repentant sex offenders living for Christ, with accountability and spiritual direction, should be allowed in a position of authority. The religious orders, brothers or monks, might be better for others, since there is limited or no authority.
I more curious about the registered sexual offenders, but as for myself, as somewhat mentioned above by another poster, I had a similar experience. I was one of those people who was 21 or so who had a sexual situation with a young lady who said she was 17 or 18 (i forget), and I think she was 15. This was even after my friend told me her age… and after getting drunk, i either forgot, or never really paid attention to what he was saying in the first place, or just plain out didn’t care what he said. I cannot remember what took place, but I committed sexual sin with this young girl. Afterwards, my friend reminded my of her age. It sickens my soul now to think that i had committed such sexual sins. I know God has forgiven me, and for that reason I am able to share here and with others. I am free of sexual sin as I know it, but was am surely still a sinner who tries to live a life of repentance. Those who were caught doing sexual things with a minor and labeled as a sex offender aren’t less then myself, as I could have been caught myself.
I definitely understand the desire to protect children from potential harm, but there has to be a balance in surrender and trust in God verses trying to control every aspect of environment we place our children. It isn’t healthy for us or our kids to go to one extreme or the other.
It probably would be similar to not desire our kids to be with someone who attempted to murder someone and or who attempted to murder themselves (suicide), since these people also seem to have a low value of the dignity of human life. The latter, interestingly enough now that i think of it, doesn’t require prison time for the perpetration against themselves (maybe some psych ward time).
I think marginalizing all sexual offenders is not good for our or the offenders souls, especially if the offender has received Jesus Christ in their hearts and the fruits are evident in their Christian lives. Conversely, the offender needs to accept the responsibility for their actions, which may require them to be registered.
[SIGN]Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God. - 1 Corinthians 6:9-11[/SIGN]
I suppose I could go around feeling shame for having chosen bankruptcy, and also having been on the list for 10 years of my life. Or shame for the numerous other sins that i have committed. I need to remember that Jesus Christ has, is, and eventually, will redeem me.
“SOME OF YOU WERE”. Any sin label brings a stigma with it and the continue shaming of perpetrators makes it very difficult for them to really live, to learn to love and receive love. Forgiveness and prudence (as someone mentioned) needs to also be lived out. This is where the perpetrator really needs to grow in faith in Jesus Christ and be transformed by His love, so that he/she can do their best to learn to love unconditionally more perfectly, regardless if others choose to marginalize or shame them or if they are on “the list” for the rest of their lives. This would be part of the cross they personally chose to bear, and which God has allowed for their sanctification whether or not the perpetrator chooses to see it that way.