I partially agree with what you are saying regarding civil disobedience. Obviously the old cattle rustling laws that are still on the books are no longer relevant. But that is why an agent of the law wouldn’t attempt to enforce that law, and even if they did, a judge would not uphold it. Again, I will not issue an opinion regarding the morality of your current situation, but I think (given your comment that I have quoted in this post) it is important to ask the question of: Where do we draw the line on which laws apply to us and which ones don’t? If we reject laws that are in our best interest to reject, and follow the ones that we feel are in our best interest to follow, then they cease to be laws. We end up in a world where everyone does whatever they want, whenever they want regardless of laws.
This is admittedly an extreme example:
A debtor has failed to pay me back for a loan that I am not inclined to forgive. So I or my representatives break into the debtors house when no one is home and take cash from the residence. Nothing is vandalized (lock picks were used to gain entry) and no one was hurt. I only took what was mine.
Obviously, this action is unjustified even though no one was hurt, no property was damaged, and nothing was technically stolen since he owed me money. (The debtor’s privacy and right to property was violated.)
Again, this does not relate directly to your issue, but it addresses your comments that laws are ok to break as long as it does not directly affect anyone.
Also, as someone who loves debate, I should point out to you that you appear to be beginning to rant which will lose you credibility with many of these people you are debating against. Keep it cool!