The resolution of this thread is that individuals cannot be judged by the religion they are raised in. Only God can judge their heart and their response to what light they have been given (as Paul affirms). The following is a slight de-rail from the topic at hand. I post it because I recently discovered this, and it goes against conventional wisdom concerning the affinity between the 3 major monolithic religions- particularly Judaism and Christianity.
I posted a thread asking a question related to the Jewish faith, and the ensuing discussion was quite enlightening. I have a very different understanding of the spiritual relationship between Judaism and Christianity now. If you are interested, here is the thread:
forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=291265
Judaism, rather than being most related to Christianity through means of a common Hebrew Scripture, is rather perhaps the most diametrically opposed to Christianity in terms of spiritual orientation.
The Jewish people believed that a brutal warlord 100 years after Christ was a better candidate for being the Messiah than Jesus had been. He tried to set up his own government. (And don’t miss the adjectives;
brutal warlord.) This is what they are looking for in a Messiah. The Jewish faith despises the cross.
It is very fascinating, because those faiths that appear to be closest to Christianity, (Jewish and Muslim) are carnal and worldly in their understanding of God. They value power rather than sacrifice.