I would really love to see a source that verifies this is from either the Vatican or the USCCB, because I do not believe this to be the case. Nothing I’ve read supports this idea. Any ideas where you are getting this from?
The woman does have this right, provided she uses a natural form of birth prevention (let’s face it, it’s not really birth CONTROL, is it? but i digress

) The only method of birth prevention accepted by the Church is one of the Natural Family Planning (NFP), which is NOT the rythym method and is far more effective than any chemical birth control. NFP usually has the added benefit of enriching the marital relationship, and yes I speak from personal experience.
This method does not prevent fertilization or implantation, but reduces the likelihood of pregnancy by using the woman’s natural cycle as God designs it. It also defers ultimately by being always open to the possibility of Life, if that is what God’s Will is for us.
The only other situation that I know if is using BC for medical reasons, absolutely not to provide a women with “control” over her body, that is a purely secular concept, but to treat medical conditions like Endometreosis, which I had. When I took birth control, I was both single and celibate, so this wasn’t an issue. When I married, that changed, because part of the marriage covenant is to be open to Life. It can be a complicated issue. I eventually had to have a hysterectomy, but this was after years of struggling with a progressive illness and many discussions with priests during that time.
In cases of rape, bringing it back to the original topic, the Church never, ever supports killing an embryo or fetus, implanted or not and why should they? If God deemed that this Life was precious and should be brought into the world, how arrogant are we to end that life!
I am open, however, to new information and would love to read whatever source you might be referring to.
Thanks so much for contributing to a great discussion.