Can you pray for suffering to be reduced in Hell?

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ReformedCatholic:
Well, as an Ecumenical Christian, I can pretty much believe as I wish. This Church is inclusive and places an emphasis on Christ’s teachings, particularly “love God above all else,” and “love one another as I have loved you” and the Sacraments.

There is more of a “do good” rather than a “dont’ do bad or else” approach. More emphasis on the big picture rather than details, since so much of the detail is subject to interpretation.

I think they adhere to about 80% (just a guess) of the CCC, and the remainder they either have an alternative teaching or it’s subject for interpretation. I’m still getting to know it, but I’m just as scrutinizing with them (or anyone else) as I am here.
Do you believe in mortal sin and Hell?
 
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Nicene:
Typical perpective of a man. Personally I come from one of those evil big families. My mother had her last one, by choice at 48, after having lost one at 47 in the 8th month. Oh how those babies destroy ones life. What ****. Typical feminist antifamily bull. I work with mostly women, 90-10, ratio in my job, guess what, they wish they didn’t have to work so they could be with their families and I don’t blame them a bit.
Other women perhaps want to make a different choice, but cannot within the Catholic structure unless they have “just reasons” whatever that means.

I don’t think babies destroy life. Babies are wonderful and essential to our survival. Without babies life would be destroyed, literally.

BUT, too many babies can destroy life. Too much of anything can destroy life.
Showing your ignorance and prejudice again, projecting that which you believe onto others. Clergy is all male? Darn nuns, I guess they are viewed as worthless under your philosophy as well? All the teachings are made by men? Again ignorant of the church, go look up the doctors of the church.
Only 2 women have been doctors of the Church. Which is great, but this is still a tiny proportion.

As far as I know nuns are not a part of the clergy, they do not hear confessions, do not administer sacraments, do not become bishops, do not become cardinals, do not elect new popes, do not make “infallible” doctrine. They’re really organizations of holy women who take the same vows and live in a community trying to serve God by prayer or good works or whatever it is that they do.
They are? It appears you are very eager, as is todays society, to take men out of the picture of family life. Thanks for the sperm, if I need you again I’ll call you. Under catholic teaching men and women submit to each other within marriage. I love how you have marginalized men, women and children, all in one post. The family is evil and needs to be done away with. Welcome to secular society that places value on the “me” factor, with no responsibility.
Not at all. Men and women are equally important in marriage and all other aspects of life. The family is not evil and should not be done away with. Talk about projecting your views onto me!

Families are great. I think families do far better without a hierarchy of celibate men watching their every move.

As far as submitting to each other, maybe that’s what the liberal theologians say now. But I advise you to read Paul, there is no mutual submission there. Women should submit, obey, and be quiet, men should love their wives on the other hand. All the power to Paul, by the way, I am not going to criticize him for being a part of the very sexist culture he grew up in and lived in. That he told men to love their wives is a great thing.
By the way, heard all this before. It’s the dronish party line of the feminists, parroting off what others tell them without thought.
Peace and God Bless
Nicene
You have heard, but have you listened? Feminists aren’t evil. They’re the ones who fought for women to have the vote, to participate in society, to be treated equally under the law. What’s so bad about that idea?

Maybe an insane fringe wants to destroy the family. Most women are feminists nowadays, and most of them want to have a family with a man and raise children. Many men are also feminists and want the same thing.
 
They are? It appears you are very eager, as is todays society, to take men out of the picture of family life. Thanks for the sperm, if I need you again I’ll call you. Under catholic teaching men and women submit to each other within marriage. I love how you have marginalized men, women and children, all in one post. The family is evil and needs to be done away with. Welcome to secular society that places value on the “me” factor, with no responsibility.
By the way, heard all this before. It’s the dronish party line of the feminists, parroting off what others tell them without thought.
Did we read the same post? Do you notice that the reaction to a criticism that women do not share an equal role or importance in the church is met with a label such as “feminist?” It’s a fact. No women priests, bishops, popes. No leaders, or decision-makers. No policy-makers or doctrine-drivers. A few doctors, some nuns (subordinate to the priests). It’s patriarchal, no doubt. No getting around it.
 
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Nicene:
I said governing body, not religious philosophy. Traditional paganism (mainly pantheism) and athiesm have been around a lot longer than those.

Peace and God Bless
Nicene
That a governing body has survived and that its past happens to be filled with censorship, persecution of “heretics” (i.e. those who disagree), control of lands and the people living in them. Didn’t the pope use to have his own army?

Didn’t Constantine make Catholicism the official religion of Rome? Didn’t Roman emperors enforce orthodoxy with force? Is it really so surprising that it has survived for so long?

The number of Catholics in places where the Church has lost its power is declining, and those who are Catholics aren’t exactly “orthodox.”

Plus, have you noticed how the Orthodox, the Protestants, and countless others throughout history left the Church? Maybe Roman power and Inquistion helped them to enforce orthodoxy, but no longer.

I’ve read that if things continue at present rates the majority of Americans will be secular by mid 21st century.
 
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thistle:
Do you believe in mortal sin and Hell?
I do, but my conceptualization of it is different from what I understand to be more traditional teachings.
 
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solarwind23:
Plus, have you noticed how the Orthodox… left the Church?
According to the Orthodox, the Orthodox did not leave the Church – Orthodoxy is the Church.
 
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ReformedCatholic:
Did we read the same post? Do you notice that the reaction to a criticism that women do not share an equal role or importance in the church is met with a label such as “feminist?” It’s a fact. No women priests, bishops, popes. No leaders, or decision-makers. No policy-makers or doctrine-drivers. A few doctors, some nuns (subordinate to the priests). It’s patriarchal, no doubt. No getting around it.
Exaclty, the original poster of that should analyze himself and his beliefs. This seems to be an almost instinctive response among Catholics to any suggestion that the Church excludes women. And it’s always the same one, with those same points, even if what I said had very little to do with them.

I want to destroy the family and exclude men from family?!

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That’s just crazy. I don’t think that at all.

But this type of reaction is a great way to prevent Catholics from actually considering the way their Church is built critically. Immediately identify a completely legitimate criticism of the almost total lack of participation of women in leadership, critical decision making positions etc. with people who allegedly want to destroy the family.

Sorry, but I don’t want to destroy the family and I don’t think men are unimportant. The role of men as involved fathers is critical to the development of children. The role of women as involved mothers is also criticial. Without children society will die. A good society depends on good families. Families are the fundamental units of society. That’s what I think.

I also think that women should be involved in leadership positions inside the Catholic Church. I think they should be bishops, cardinals, popes. I think they should publish encyclicals, call councils, develop doctrine. I think they should be able to speak infallibly and contribute to the Church’s teachings.

I think the Church will be all the better for it. As it stands it looks like a for-men-by-men “no girls allowed” boys club to me, and to many others as well.
 
Ahimsa said:
According to the Orthodox, the Orthodox did not leave the Church – Orthodoxy is the Church.

Curious, are you Orthodox by any chance?
 
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DreadVandal:
When you are in heaven, you will no longer see these from your own finite point of view, but from God’s point of view. The angels and saints in heaven look down upon the damned and they see the beauty in God’s justice at punishing evil and they see the beauty in God’s mercy insofar as they have been spared this fate. All things are done for God’s own glorification so that, in the end, there is nothing but God. Hell displays the beauty and glory of God just as heaven does, though in its own way. All things are beautiful and glorious.
lol How do you know this, have you ever been there?
 
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solarwind23:
So God creates people knowing in advance they’ll be enduring unbearable torture for an ETERNITY just so that he could show off is wrath toward sin?

This God cannot claim to be good or loving.

I mean, really, imagine human parents had some children who they knew in advance would be obedient and whom they’d love infinitely and treat well and some who they knew in advance would be disobedient (i.e. they knew such a child would result before they had sex but did it anyway) for the sole purpose of torturing in the most vile ways so they can demonstrate how wrathful they can be toward children who disobey them.

If such a God exists then we’re all screwed. It means he WANTS some of us to be in hell so that he could show off his wrath toward sin, and knowing in advance that some people will choose hell he deliberately creates them for that very purpose.

Hmmmmmmmmmm
Read Romans chapter 9. What I find interesting is that this is St. Paul’s view and he doesn’t try to defend God. He simply says: Who are you to question? That is the biblical view. God is Lord of heaven and earth, blessing and destruction, life and death. God says in Scripture, “I will have mercy on whom I will have mercy, and I will harden whom I will harden.”
 
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DreadVandal:
Read Romans chapter 9. What I find interesting is that this is St. Paul’s view and he doesn’t try to defend God. He simply says: Who are you to question? That is the biblical view. God is Lord of heaven and earth, blessing and destruction, life and death. God says in Scripture, “I will have mercy on whom I will have mercy, and I will harden whom I will harden.”
That St. Paul was obedient and uncritical of God doesn’t tell me much. Some Muslims who read the Quran literally and don’t question join Bin Laden. Some fundamentalist Mormon women obediently accept that polygamy is what God wants. Uncritical acceptance is what allows those sects to persevere. But you and I, being outside those sects, immediately see how unjust they are on a fundamental level and how if they have anything to do with God, then that God is not worthy of our time.

If God says “I am all powerful and will do whatever I want, it’s not your place to question” that’s all well and good, but he can’t at the same time claim to be good and loving and compassionate. More than anything, if people are tortured for an eternity for relatively small crimes such as remarriage after being left by spouse then this God cannot claim to be just.

If such a God exists he is all powerful and can do whatever he wants, but a God like this is not worthy of worship or love. He can only compel people to follow him through fear.

Not everyone will have the courage to reject such a God, but I see it far more noble and worthy to reject a ruthless, unjust dictator than obey him to avoid hell.

I can’t ever see myself respecting or loving such a God, fearing, yes, lacking the courage to oppose and obeying out of fear, yes, but loving, appreciating, being grateful etc. No way!
 
I kinda like to give God more credit for love and mercy than he usually gets.

It is my view that if God does not love Satan as much as anyone, the dual nature of Jesus included, then there is no God. To believe in an omnipotent and omnicient God who does not, necessarily and logically leads to a belief that God created beings for the very purpose of torturing them. I utterly reject that.

God created all because as Gen 1:25 says “… God saw it was good.” (KJV yes but I prefer to quote it if I can because it is more commonly known and is superior as a piece of literature to other translations.) Anyway, since I do not presume to critique his creation with my imperfect understanding, I simply take his word for it that what he created is good, including the fallen angels. I don’t understand why this would be so, but I wasn’t foreman on that job and had no part in the planning.

Heaven, Hell and Purgatory exist. I take it for granted. What purposes they serve are beyond me. That people go to those places is also a given but can we be really sure what happens after they get there? We all heard about fire. Jesus also implies ice “weeping and wailing and gnashing of teeth.” When someone gets burned his teeth don’t chatter. Imagery always a possibility, what do we really know? We know eternal separation from God. That is all we can really say for certain.

We are taught that from some sins and some conditions like being in Hell that there is no repentance. That means that there will be some stubborn evil diehards down in Hell. What it does not mean and what scripture never says is that there is no mercy. God, to be God as we understand him, will have mercy on them. No, I do not call an everlasting, invitation only, barbeque a form of mercy as some on this thread have tried to do. There are only two possibilities worthy of a merciful God, eventual extinction of the soul or eventual salvation of the soul. I hope for the latter. Somehow, I just can’t get my head around the idea that having a hotdog on Good Friday, no matter how deliberate, merits excrutiating pain and suffering beyond time itself.

Eternal torment? Eternal Separation from God? Maybe, but what happens when eternity is over? Eternity WILL in fact end you know. I Cor. 15 tells us about that. God will be all in all. There will be no more hell, no more heaven, no more Jesus either. God will be all that exists. I am comfortable with that. It does not explain the why of creation, but it does get God off the hook for being a sadistic monster.
 
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DreadVandal:
Read Romans chapter 9. What I find interesting is that this is St. Paul’s view and he doesn’t try to defend God. He simply says: Who are you to question? That is the biblical view. God is Lord of heaven and earth, blessing and destruction, life and death. God says in Scripture, “I will have mercy on whom I will have mercy, and I will harden whom I will harden.”
Sounds like Paul dodged the question!
 
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DreadVandal:
If there could be any pain or sadness in heaven then it wouldn’t be heaven. Here is Aquinas on the issue:

Do the blessed rejoice in the sufferings of the damned?

newadvent.org/summa/509403.htm
Okay, so which is his position? The replies sound like double-talk and non-sense to me. Perhaps they could be “interpreted?”
 
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solarwind23:
God doesn’t have to forgive. Without repentance there can be no forgiveness, right? And people who don’t wnat God and heaven shouldn’t be forced to go there. But why would a LOVING, GOOD God create a hell of suffering? Why not let those who reject him to live the way people who reject him live on earth?

If he just wants to be glorified at the sake of the suffering of so many, then how can he say he’s good?
Life on earth for those who reject God includes a certain degree of graces and blessings by virtue of the fact that they share an environment with people who love God. A complete absence of God is exactly what hell is. Given that fact, it is going to be a much different environment and experience than life on earth. I’ve heard the saying that this earth is the only hell Christians will ever see, and the only heaven non-Christians will ever see.
 
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ReformedCatholic:
Okay, so which is his position? The replies sound like double-talk and non-sense to me. Perhaps they could be “interpreted?”
Aquinas’ position begins with “I answer that…” The replies to objections are also his position.

Aquinas first gives the contrary position in a series of objections; then cites an oppositing position to that “On the Contrary,” then he gives his own position which is usually that of the “on the contrary” though not always precisely the same.
 
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ReformedCatholic:
Sounds like Paul dodged the question!
Paul didn’t dodge the question. Paul asserted the absolute sovereignty of God. Such is the Jewish view.
 
If Hitler came to me I’d be like “I am very angry and upset with you, you did some gravely evil things when you were on earth. In the name of justice you are going to live the life of every person you’ve ever hurt with the hope that you’ll understand the evil you did and your heart will change (this could take thousands of years!) If it changes and you repent and truly become a different man, you can consent to being purified and hang out with me and the average Joe over there. But if you don’t repent and still stand by what you did, I’m still going to sustain you and let you live a plain life like you did on earth because despite all the evil you’ve done you don’t deserve infnite punishment.”
That would be quite a nice way of handling sin, would it?
The fact is that that is not what the human soul is made for. We were made to be in Heaven. Our individual choices in this life and this life alone determines the permanent state of our souls for eternity. Heaven is not a rehabilitation center for the morally evil. Earth is. What you’re describing is what can potentially happen in the heart of evil people NOW while they are here. The closest thing after death that can be akin to what you described here is purgatory, and even that is for the saved only. Scripture is clear: there is no second chance after death. (Hebrews 9:27). The Hell that awaits the unsaved is the Hell they have chosen in this life. A willful rejection of Love and all that Love is (God) is the essence of damnation. Death removes the last contact to change that, for the soul is in a permanent state after death. The state of salvation or damnation. Our choices are now. Our looking at what we’ve done are now (and perhaps in purgatory). But to think that a Hitler or a Stalin can be changed after they die…nope.
 
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