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Ginny89
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When I say public, I am not referring to how many people know of the reception or where the reception takes place. I am talking of the church’s position in terms of her ability to assess the true state of a soul beyond the established objective standards of grave matter, knowledge and willfulness. These are things that can only be judged within certain limits by anyone who is not God and this is absolutely the same for all sins, not just adultery.The reality of sins of grave matter does not seem to be in dispute [my personal reading of AL], but the extent of “wilfulness” [culpability] does seem to be front and centre, and is explicitly part of what the pastor is to judge. I think this is evidenced explicitly both in AL and in the Argentine Bishops guidelines.
It is not always public. Whether or not communion is received publically, privately, or not at all is part of what the priest is to determine.
Most of the time, the choice to receive communion is entirely in the hands of the parishioner, and s/he alone.
Where I agree with you is that the process if a big ask of a Priest.
More directly to your points, it is unclear why sheer difficulty in this case could be used by the church to permit communion without confession or conversion on the basis that there lacks willfulness simply because it is difficult to do what one knows he ought to do.
I have heard Cardinal Arinze ask the same question in a talk of December of 2015. I should post the link to the video once I find it. He asks, why cannot on the same basis the church tell a person in financial difficulties who commits fraud and corruption offences that they are not in mortal sin and ought to aporoach communion without ceasing the theft? Why can’t the church say the same of polygamists, persons who in good faith married two or more women in a society that believed this was ok? Why cant they continue for the sake of their families that they got before? Because the church has no basis of claiming that difficulty in obeying a divine law because the obedience will require sacrifices, is a valid basis for claiming that there is no “willfulness”. Instead, such a stance is an expression of doubt in the availability or efficacy of grace in conversion.
So if as you admit the matter is grave and they knew it to be so and were not forced to engage it, on what would the church base a judgment that there lacked “willfulness” without penetrating a soul with a divine eye and without doing the same for every call to obey God when it is difficult? If a confessor claimed to penetrate further he would be trying to play God who alone knows the absolute truth of any soul at any time.
It is unclear why the fact that it is this particular sin gives a confessor more knowledge than he usually has access to in determining willfulness to commit ANY grave sin. A poor woman might find it very difficult and perhaps “detrimental” to her emotional health and the practical needs of her family to keep her pregnancy. Would this difficulty destroy her ability to CHOOSE not to kill her unborn child? Your claim is that confessors can somehow tell that despite choosing to do something someone knows to be wrong, they are not in mortal sin.
My point in talking of a “public” vs a private place for the church is precisely the inability of the church to penetrate a soul to the level that would justify making the judgment call you are talking about. At that point, the church can only leave the matter to the God who knows all. She cannot do anything else. And this is the same for all sins, not just the ones we consider special (for a reason not yet made clear).