So you’re saying that this is an expensive sport?
It’s all a matter of perspective. My daughters grew up figure skating. During their high school years, we were spending around $600.00 (six hundred dollars) a MONTH for each of them. That’s $1200.00 (twelve hundred dollars) a month. And that was in the 1990s and early 2000s. It’s even more expensive now, since there are less people involved with the sport, the new judging system (Points-based) costs a fortune for rinks to use during competitions, and the Safe Sport program requires way too much of local clubs.
Both of my daughters are still involved with figure skating, one as a coach, and one for fitness/exercise/joy of skating. My husband was involved for ten years (after they graduated from high school), but has not skated in several months due to a hip injury (probably aggravated by skating, so you could add in the medical costs to the costs of the actual sport).
So at $600.00/month, that comes to $20/day, which is a little less than golf, but most amateur/hobby golfers don’t golf every day. And as you pointed out, joining a club would bring the cost down per game for golfers.
We are far from rich. I was a stay-at-home mom while my daughters were young, but when they were both in school, my husband and I realized that the cost of figure skating at an advanced level and for team skating was going to be more than his income could handle, so I went back to work. For many years, virtually every penny of my paycheck (medical technologist) went towards two things–our church tithe (we were Protestant during those years) and our skating bills. We also used my check for all the eating out–it was very hard to eat at home during the skating years, as practices started at 6:00 a.m., and usually we were back at the rink after school until around 6:00 p.m. We also made trips into Chicago at least once during the week, and also on Saturdays and Sundays (didn’t get home til around 2:00 p.m. on weekends)–so we did a lot of eating out, usually at fast food places.
I’m not trying to one-up you here–I’m only pointing out that sports are not cheap, but they bring so much joy and positive things to our lives that I can’t criticize people who spend money and time on them. A golf game is more than just a game–it’s a chance for men and women to network and make business connections. When my husband was younger and still a newcomer to the Big Company that hired him out of college, he realized that he needed to learn to play golf so he wouldn’t be left out of the networking. So he learned, and he was terrible at it, but at least he was able to participate with the other people in his company.