I am not looking for an exception. My position is that these issues have carried over into the second round of the Synod, and it appears that it is no a couple of bishops promoting the idea; it appears that there may be a majority doing so.
And before you go down the route, I am well aware that a majority can be wrong; - I was through college when Humanae Vitae came out and I know decisions such as these are not based on a nose count.
I see individuals hardening up on the issue in adamant disagreement - stating that absolutely nothing can change. They very well may be right; and they may not; I am trying to suggest that rather than digging deeper into the positions, we simply let the Church finish considering the matter.
And yes, I have heard that it has been decided repeatedly. Again those in these threads who take the position are not trained in these matters, have not sat through the prior discussions the Church has had, have not sat through these discussions, and I am not entirely sure they have the word “nuance” in their dictionaries. All I can say is that if the Church were to make a decision that under such and such limited circumstances, some in irregular marriages might be permitted to receive Communion, there are going to be some people who had dug a mighty deep hole, at least from an emotional standpoint. Sometimes it is better to not get so involved. Comments about leaving the Church are not ones I take lightly; perhaps those who have said or implied it are simply blowing off steam. Or perhaps they are serious. I would rather they let the matter alone, and let others work in it.
Do I think it is likely that there will be a change? Likely, no. Possible? That is not within my competence, and because it is not, I am not going to take the position that it is absolutely impossible. That is the Church’s responsibility, and I have enough to do taking care of what I am responsible for.
If the Church says there is no way that suits me just fine.
If the Church decides there is a way, I am not going to have a crisis of faith - as I suspect some may who are so adamant that it can’t. In either circumstance, I choose not to be an armchair expert.
And if the Church were to find an exception, I am not going to feel that nothing is certain, that truth is not knowable, and etc. as per Ender. What I will feel is that the Church, as it meditates on Christ and His revelation, knows a bit more tomorrow than it knew yesterday.