But this is exactly what is being suggested: forgiveness without contrition. Contrition includes the intention not to repeat the sin, but what is being suggested is that communion be given even though the couple has every intention of continuing sexual relations. Without intending to change there can be no forgiveness.
23. The priest must take great pains to decide in which instances absolution should be given, denied, or deferred, lest he absolve such as are indisposed for this benefit–persons, for example, who give no indication of contrition, who refuse to put an end to hatred and enmity, to make restitution when they are able, to give up an approximate occasion of sin,* or in any other way refuse to forsake their sins and amend their life***. (Sancta Missa - Rituale Romanum, 1964)
You misunderstand the meaning of contrition.But the essential act of penance, on the part of the penitent, is contrition, a clear and decisive rejection of the sin committed, together with a resolution not to commit it again (JPII)
It really makes no difference at all since the barriers are the same regardless of who raises the issue.
These are not my words, they are the church’s.**1847 **"God created us without us: but he did not will to save us without us."To receive his mercy, we must admit our faults.
Ender