Quite a few unproven assumptions here:
(a)…
I do too. If one is being coerced to do something and can’t change the behavior immediately, their culpability may be reduced or even completely mitigated.
Are you implying one can go to the Sacrament of Confession without having a firm purpose of amendment, and expect absolution? Our Lord told the woman “…go, and do not sin again.” (Jn. 8: 11) I’ve seen you quote from the Baltimore Catechism on a few occasions. Allow me to quote from Baltimore Catechism No. 2 as well:
410. How do these words of Christ (Jn. 20: 21-23) oblige us to confess our sins?
These words of Christ oblige us to confess our sins because the priest cannot know whether he should forgive or retain our sins unless we tell them to him.
Christ never asked men to confess their sins to Him as He could read their hearts. He could see both their sins and their sorrow. However, He rarely gives the power of reading hearts to priests.
384. What must we do to receive the sacrament of Penance worthily?
To receive the sacrament of Penance worthily, we must:
- examine our conscience;
- be sorry for our sins;
3. have the firm purpose of not sinning again;
- confess our sins to the priest;
- be willing to perform the penance the priest gives us.
388. What is contrition?
Contrition is sincere sorrow for having offended God, and hatred for the sins we have committed, with a firm purpose of sinning no more.
406. What is the firm purpose of sinning no more?
The firm purpose of sinning no more is the sincere resolve not only to avoid sin but to avoid as far as possible the near occasions of sin.
Suppose someone says, “God, I am sorry I have offended You, but I intend to do it again.” Is he really sorry? Of course not. Suppose someone says, “I promise not to steal again, but I will not stay away from my companions who steal.” Is he really sorry? Of course not. He is fooling himself if he thinks he can keep out of sin without giving up the occasions of sin."
From the Council of Trent Session 14, Chapter 4:
Contrition, which holds the first place amongst the aforesaid acts of the penitent, is a sorrow of mind, and a detestation for sin committed, with the purpose of not sinning for the future. This movement of contrition was at all times necessary for obtaining the pardon of sins; and, in one who has fallen after baptism, it then at length prepares for the remissions of sins, when it is united with confidence in the divine mercy, and with the desire of performing the other things which are required for rightly receiving this sacrament. Wherefore the holy Synod declares, that this contrition contains not only a cessation from sin, and the purpose and the beginning of a new life, but also a hatred of the old…
In your (b), you seem to be pitting the actions of Christ against the commands and doctrine of the Church. It’s as if you’re saying “Jesus didn’t ask for a firm purpose of amendment; the Church today does.” But there’s no way one could pit the words of Christ against the Church, and that’s because Jesus
IS the Church; He is the Head of the Church. Anything the Church commands or teaches through the authentic magisterium comes directly from Christ our God. "
I will not leave you desolate;
I will come to you. …the Counselor, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send
in my name, he will teach you all things, and bring to your remembrance all that I have said to you. (Jn. 14: 18, 25).
As I and others on this forum have mentioned, I believe you are wrong. Any sexual activity outside the marital embrace is fornication. Any sexual activity with someone who is not one’s spouse is a form of fornication known as adultery. The divine command reads “You shall not commit adultery”. Negative commandments admit of no exceptions. Therefore, there is no such thing as “permissible” adultery. "The negative precepts of the natural law are universally valid. They oblige each and every individual, always and in every circumstance. …[Man]can never be hindered from not doing certain actions, especially if he is prepared to die rather than to do evil. …Jesus himself reaffirms that these prohibitions allow no exceptions: ‘If you wish to enter into life, keep the commandments… You shall not murder, You shall not commit adultery…’ (
, 52Veritatis Splendor.)
You are still making a false equivalence between adultery and the killing that happens during combat. So you admit the activities of these irregulars are evil? CCC 1756 says the following about evil activities: “It is therefore an error to judge the morality of human acts by considering only the intention that inspires them or the circumstances (environment, social pressure, duress or emergency, etc.) which supply their context. There are acts which, in and of themselves, independently of circumstances and intentions, are always gravely illicit by reason of their object; such as blasphemy and perjury, murder and adultery. One may not do evil so that good may result from it.”
Perhaps. Only God knows who is in a state of grace. That doesn’t invalidate the teaching of the Church that, in the words of St. John Paul, “one may never choose kinds of behaviour prohibited by the moral commandments expressed in negative form in the Old and New Testaments”.
Because there is little scandal does not mean there is no scandal. Besides, this isn’t especially pertinent to the point I was trying to make in the previous post.