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While I struggle with how Amoris Laetitia is to be interpreted and applied, I very much appreciate your candid view and example. Very articulate post.My understanding is that I lack understanding. I guess I lean toward the law of gradualness. A great deal that Ginny said I actually agree with, but I perhaps prefer a greater, merciful time-table. Let us take the worse case scenario.
A person in a totally valid marriage, marginal Catholic married to marginal Catholic, becomes a classic prodigal son, running off with his mistress. Ten years later, a serious emotional events brings that person back to the Church, now married to this mistress with a couple of kids that need to be raised. His annulment is either denied, or he does not apply as it is obvious it should be denied. Through the counseling time, the priest understands the man earnestly desires communion with Christ (even more than receiving communion). He really wants the Sacrament of Reconcilliation for his adultery. Yet he just can’t wrap his head around the Church’s teaching that he is still committing adultery, as he still is intimately in love with his wife and family.
Yes, I think such a person should strive to live as brother and sister. However, I am still on the fence as to whether the law of gradualness might permit the desire to make this commitment because of a desire to put Christ above all, including family might allow the Sacrament of Reconcilliation and admittance to communion. I do believe some things are close enough to be humanly impossible to consider them so, Trent not withstanding, as that council had the caveat, “even for one that is justified and constituted in grace.” It mirrors the words of St. Paul, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”
I might be splitting hairs, which is why I hesitate to have an opinion. In any case, I do believe in this case continence needs to be where the goal, as that which God requires, as it is a clear case of continuing adultery. I equally being that the grace of God is necessary for such a life, and may be necessary even to reach the point of resolving to live such a life.
So clearly, if I believe that, I think most in similar situations, who simply do not put a priority on spiritual growth, should still not receive. As I said, I can see the Malta resolution being taken more broadly that is right.