Cardinal Muller says no to second marriage without annulment

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Cardinal Muller says no to second marriage without annulment

That is precisely the theme of the next synod on “the mission of the family in the Church and in the world.” Will a synthesis be possible between the very different views that divided the last assembly?

Card. G.L.M.: As prefect of the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith, I am responsible for unity in the faith. I cannot take sides. But things are clear: we have the words of Jesus regarding marriage and their authentic interpretation throughout the long history of the Church — the Councils of Florence and Trent, the synthesis made by Gaudium et spes and the whole magisterium that came after. From a theological standpoint, everything is quite clear: we are facing the secularization of marriage, with religious marriage separated from the civil pact.

Thus we have lost the elements that constitute marriage as a sacrament and a natural institution. The Church’s message regarding marriage goes against such secularization. We must recover the natural foundations of marriage and emphasize its sacramental nature for those who are baptized as a means for grace to permeate the spouses and the whole family.

Could the bishops’ conferences have greater latitude on these topics?

Card. G.L.M.: We have to distinguish two levels: the dogmatic level and the level of concrete organization. Jesus instituted the Apostles with Peter as the principle for unifying the faith of the Church and its sacramental communion. It is an institution that exists by divine right. Beyond that, we have canonical structures that change according to the circumstances. The episcopal conferences are an expression of the collegiality of the bishops at the level of a country, a culture or a language, but this is a practical organization. The Catholic Church exists as a universal Church, in the communion of all the bishops united under the pope. It also exists in the local churches. But the local church is not the Church of France or Germany: it is the Church of Paris, of Toulouse, etc. They are the dioceses. The idea of a national Church would be totally heretical. Autonomy in faith is impossible. Jesus Christ is the savior of all; He unifies all human beings.

Is it possible to make disciplinary changes without affecting doctrine?

Card. G.L.M.: Discipline and pastoral concerns must act in harmony with doctrine. Doctrine is not an ideal theory that would be corrected in practice, but the expression of the truth revealed in Jesus Christ.

With regard to divorced people who remarry, is it conceivable that, after following a path of penitence, a second union could be recognized that would not have a sacramental character?

Card. G.L.M.:** It is impossible to have two wives. If the first union is valid, it is not possible to enter into a second one at the same time. A path of penitence is possible, but not a second union. The only possibility is to return to the first, legitimate union, or to live in the second union as brother and sister: that is the Church’s position, in agreement with the will of Jesus. I would add that it is always possible to try and obtain an annulment from an ecclesiastical tribunal.**

In your view, does the solution lie in relaxing canonical rules?

Card. G.L.M.: That is what Benedict XVI had requested. Unfortunately, for a some Catholics, the celebration of marriage is no longer anything but a folk custom; for others, it has a sacramental meaning. It is up to the Church tribunal to prove its whether it is a true sacrament or not. Canon law can be adapted to concrete situations.
 
Interesting article. I do think that more Pastoral care could be extended to those trying to regularize their marriages or seeking an annulment (decree of nullity.).

Mary.
 
Yes, relaxing some of the rules, especially when one of the spouses was either mentally or most especially physically abused would be a great place to begin. It is still beyond my small intellect that remarried Catholics are in worse shape than a monster who has committed murder but has confessed and received absolution. The murderer may receive the greatest gift of the Holy Eucharist while the remarried Catholic cannot unless they jump through many hoops and shell out $$$$$$$. I know that I’m not alone in this feeling. No one expects the Church to condone divorce, but something has to change.🤷
 
Yes, relaxing some of the rules, especially when one of the spouses was either mentally or most especially physically abused would be a great place to begin. It is still beyond my small intellect that remarried Catholics are in worse shape than a monster who has committed murder but has confessed and received absolution. The murderer may receive the greatest gift of the Holy Eucharist while the remarried Catholic cannot unless they jump through many hoops and shell out $$$$$$$. I know that I’m not alone in this feeling. No one expects the Church to condone divorce, but something has to change.🤷
You’re misunderstanding what he is saying. His point is that this issue depends on whether there exists a valid first marriage. If there is, there cannot be a second marriage. If there is not, the annulment process is there to rectify the situation. The validity of a marriage is an objective fact, one way or the other. Validity cannot be relaxed or changed, regardless of the “circumstances” around it.

He’s talking about administrative changes within the annulment process, not changes to “the rules” about marriage or divorce, and he’s re-affirming the traditional Church teaching on marriage and divorce.
 

In your view, does the solution lie in relaxing canonical rules?

Card. G.L.M.: That is what Benedict XVI had requested. Unfortunately, for a some Catholics, the celebration of marriage is no longer anything but a folk custom; for others, it has a sacramental meaning. It is up to the Church tribunal to prove its whether it is a true sacrament or not. Canon law can be adapted to concrete situations.
I’m having trouble understanding what “request” the Cardinal is referring to here…

Dan
 
I’m having trouble understanding what “request” the Cardinal is referring to here…

Dan
Benedict discussed the role of faith in the validity of the sacrament of marriage, and said it should be studied. Unfortunately many Catholics today get married without faith, and this can potentially be one reason for the invalidity of a marriage. It would be up to the annulment tribunal to determine whether the necessary faith was present to have contracted a valid marriage.
 
You’re misunderstanding what he is saying. His point is that this issue depends on whether there exists a valid first marriage. If there is, there cannot be a second marriage. If there is not, the annulment process is there to rectify the situation. The validity of a marriage is an objective fact, one way or the other. Validity cannot be relaxed or changed, regardless of the “circumstances” around it.

He’s talking about administrative changes within the annulment process, not changes to “the rules” about marriage or divorce, and he’s re-affirming the traditional Church teaching on marriage and divorce.
I understand the intent, but the intent and the reality of the process are not even in the same universe. What is the percentage of requested annulments that are not granted? I bet the figures are facinating.:cool:
 
I understand the intent, but the intent and the reality of the process are not even in the same universe. What is the percentage of requested annulments that are not granted? I bet the figures are facinating.:cool:
Around here? Many are declined.
 
I understand the intent, but the intent and the reality of the process are not even in the same universe. What is the percentage of requested annulments that are not granted? I bet the figures are facinating.:cool:
The amount of annulments granted or not granted has nothing to do with anything.

An annulment tribunal isn’t subjectively deciding to approve some people and decline others. It just examines the objective facts of the case and reports on those facts one way or the other; the validity/invalidity of the first marriage is determined by these facts, the tribunal is just acknowledging what was already there.

If a bunch of people with valid first marriages apply, they will all get declarations of validity, and rightly so; a valid marriage is a valid marriage, as Card Muller says.

You’re really not understanding the concepts of validity and annulment 🤷
 
It is still beyond my small intellect that remarried Catholics are in worse shape than a monster who has committed murder but has confessed and received absolution. The murderer may receive the greatest gift of the Holy Eucharist while the remarried Catholic cannot unless they jump through many hoops and shell out $$$$$$$. I know that I’m not alone in this feeling. No one expects the Church to condone divorce, but something has to change.🤷
You are talking about a teaching of Jesus. Who also said that being angry with someone puts you in danger of the same judgement as that monster you speak of… These are also hard teachings that many walk away from just as they did when Jesus offered that Gift.

As far as the annulment process… it is my understanding that nobody is required to pay if they can’t afford it but if you can why not help support the Church in it’s ministry.
 
The amount of annulments granted or not granted has nothing to do with anything.

An annulment tribunal isn’t subjectively deciding to approve some people and decline others. It just examines the objective facts of the case and reports on those facts one way or the other; the validity/invalidity of the first marriage is determined by these facts, the tribunal is just acknowledging what was already there.

If people with valid first marriages apply, they will all get declarations of validity, and rightly so; a valid marriage is a valid marriage, as Card Muller says.

You’re really not understanding the concepts of validity and annulment 🤷
I guess I’ll have to turn my masters degree back into UC:D

I understand completely the difference, what I am asserting is that the whole idea is nonsensical and that if a person has enough $$$ and good friends for witnesses, then, at least here in Northern California, the annulments are pretty much rubber stamped. Is it any wonder that those who do not have the means to suffer the system in order to obtain an annulment are bitter and want NO ONE to be able to remarry and partake in the Holy Eucharist? Has the Church made an entire subclass of Catholics that are loving and live out the Gospels daily, but because they married the wrong person at age 25 they must suffer their entire lives? This is a PR nightmare for the Church, without a doubt. I will continue to pray that the progressives will find a way to lessen the pain of those divorced individuals who crave grace and peace.
 
I wouldn’t be surprised if we see a change in the annulment process recommended from the Synod.
 
I understand completely the difference, what I am asserting is that the whole idea is nonsensical and that if a person has enough $$$ and good friends for witnesses, then, at least here in Northern California, the annulments are pretty much rubber stamped. Is it any wonder that those who do not have the means to suffer the system in order to obtain an annulment are bitter and want NO ONE to be able to remarry and partake in the Holy Eucharist?
Apparently you don’t understand if you think something logical and simple is “nonsensical” 🤷

And no one is able to get re-married and receive communion. If they are allowed communion it is because there was never was a “first marriage” in the first place.
Has the Church made an entire subclass of Catholics that are loving and live out the Gospels daily, but because they married the wrong person at age 25 they must suffer their entire lives?
The Church hasn’t made anything. When people choose to leave their valid marriages, the Church simply acknowledges that fact.
This is a PR nightmare for the Church, without a doubt.
I missed the part where the Church is supposed to be concerned about PR, rather than Truth. Perhaps you could show me something in scripture or Church teaching to back that up…
I will continue to pray that the progressives will find a way to lessen the pain of those divorced individuals who crave grace and peace.
I will continue to pray that the whole Church will remain in the Truth of Christ and Tradition 👍
 
Yes, relaxing some of the rules, especially when one of the spouses was either mentally or most especially physically abused would be a great place to begin. It is still beyond my small intellect that remarried Catholics are in worse shape than a monster who has committed murder but has confessed and received absolution. The murderer may receive the greatest gift of the Holy Eucharist while the remarried Catholic cannot unless they jump through many hoops and shell out $$$$$$$. I know that I’m not alone in this feeling. No one expects the Church to condone divorce, but something has to change.🤷
Confession requires repentance.

One who plan to continually sin through adultery have no repentance, and therefore no valid confession. In the eyes of the Church, and Jesus, consummating a second marriage with no annulment is adultery.

Annulments are actually inexpensive, and free to the poor.
 
Has the Church made an entire subclass of Catholics that are loving and live out the Gospels daily, but because they married the wrong person at age 25 they must suffer their entire lives?
Some people do suffer their entire lives due to their choices. That’s life. And if you’re suffering for Christ, so much the better.
10 The disciples said to him, “If this is the situation between a husband and wife, it is better not to marry.”

11 Jesus replied, “Not everyone can accept this word, but only those to whom it has been given…
Nobody promised you or anybody else a rose garden. In fact, Jesus specifically says we will suffer. This is part of the whole “suffering is bad, everybody must be happy for themselves by their own definition all the time” issue we’ve got these days.

And, if you’re in a second marrige, you must ask, who’s more important? Your second husband or Christ? If the answer is your second husband, there’s an issue. Heck, if it’s your first husband that’s more important than there’s still an issue.
 
Some people do suffer their entire lives due to their choices. That’s life. And if you’re suffering for Christ, so much the better.

Nobody promised you or anybody else a rose garden. In fact, Jesus specifically says we will suffer. This is part of the whole “suffering is bad, everybody must be happy for themselves by their own definition all the time” issue we’ve got these days.

And, if you’re in a second marrige, you must ask, who’s more important? Your second husband or Christ? If the answer is your second husband, there’s an issue. Heck, if it’s your first husband that’s more important than there’s still an issue.
Good comment. Goes along with a recent answer from Fr. Serpa.

forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=953890
The sin of pride is the most numerous because it denies God’s supremacy and in doing so, it is also the sin of the lie. Every sin is a lie, produced by pride: ‘me first and God second.’
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:bigyikes: Didn’t know he was married the first time!

Nice to know he draws the line somewhere

Don’t you just LOVE imprecise headlines … and what they could mean?

On the serious side, a lot of Catholics do live that way. I did get an annulment, though never again married. And now my poor “ex” (or is that 'seemed to be a …") wife has passed away (rest her soul).

God knows whom He has joined together and whom He has not … but the Church is wise to insist upon the importance and permanence of marriage. Because Jesus did.

It was hard going through the annulment process. But I am on the Church’s side.

They didn’t scramble the egg. And they did “help me” as it were. Even though Scripture goes strongly against divorce. Annulment is another thing it seems … and the Church can and does examine what LOOKED like matrimony to see if it was “what God has joined together …” or a human mistake (by one or both partners, nullifying its unity from the start).
**Malachi 2:13 ** This also you do: the altar of the LORD you cover with tears, weeping and groaning, Because he no longer regards your sacrifice nor accepts it favorably from your hand;
14 And you say, “Why is it?” - Because the LORD is witness between you and the wife of your youth, With whom you have broken faith though she is your companion, your betrothed wife.
15 Did he not make one being, with flesh and spirit: and what does that one require but godly offspring? You must then safeguard life that is your own, and not break faith with the wife of your youth.
16 For I hate divorce, says the LORD, the God of Israel, And covering one’s garment with injustice, says the LORD of hosts; You must then safeguard life that is your own, and not break faith.
17 You have wearied the LORD with your words, yet you say, “How have we wearied him?” By your saying, “Every evildoer is good in the sight of the LORD, And he is pleased with him”; or else, “Where is the just God?”
And perhaps Cardinal Muller is guided by the spirit of this scripture in the matter as well.
Matt 19:8 He said to them, "Because of the hardness of your hearts Moses allowed you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so.
9 I say to you, whoever divorces his wife (unless the marriage is unlawful) and marries another commits adultery."
10 [His] disciples said to him, “If that is the case of a man with his wife, it is better not to marry.”
11 He answered, "Not all can accept [this] word, but only those to whom that is granted.
12 Some are incapable of marriage because they were born so; some, because they were made so by others; some, because they have renounced marriage for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. Whoever can accept this ought to accept it."
The Church can and does use its keys to bind and loose things on Earth; but in the case of divorces and annulments, it is under direction to take the sacrament very seriously.

Returning to the imprecise headline in a more serious way – with an annulment, a “second marriage” is really the first as far as the Church is concerned. AND while Cardinal Muller’s “no” is emphasized … “without an annulment” is the qualifier that indicates that he is being more of a careful steward than a careless one who’d say “yes” to marital carelessness and possibly sin. IOW, pursue the annulment, it will be granted if proper. If not … it was Jesus Himself who said “What GOD has joined together …” and even a Cardinal must be obedient to that.

Aside: The Church does try to make things right though. As it seems an out and out rake might merely (sincerely) go to confession after a premarital or extramarital tryst - and return to the sacraments (especially including matrimony with less impediments) … whereas the good/guy/girl who gets married and is abandoned has to go through and wait for an annulment process’ OK before getting married again.
 
If anything comes out of the Synod regarding divorced Catholics and communion, my hope and prayer is that they simply reaffirm the teachings of our Lord. It’s there in black and white.

However, there is much, much misunderstanding among Catholics when it comes to marriage and annulment. And if the Synod clarifies the teachings of the Church, it will be by the grace of God and of benefit to the faithful. If a 25-year old marries the “wrong” person, what makes that person the wrong one? Abuse? Mental illness? Lack of openness to life? Infidelity? Addiction that existed at marriage and unwillingness to seek treatment? All of these are things which MAY result in an approved annulment. If the now 35-year old has just found someone “better,” an annulment may not be granted. And if not, that person, who may be separated from their spouse, is called to chastity going forward because in the eyes of the Church, they are still married.

Our priest is in the midst of a campaign, if you will, to bring parishioners into his office to discuss these sorts of issues, and has had multiple seminars on divorce/annulment. God bless him. We are fortunate to have a Canon lawyer as a parishioner to help, but this is the type of pastoral care desperately needed in our parishes. That is the type of recommendation that could come out of the Synod. And our priest has said multiple times from the pulpit that $$$ is not an issue. The Church will work with those who cannot afford to contribute money to the annulment process.
 
I wouldn’t be surprised if we see a change in the annulment process recommended from the Synod.
I sure hope so, it shouldn’t take years upon years to get a response, one way or another.
His concerns speak more to “efficiency” of the Tribunals and not having people hanging for a decade or more.
People will deal with the answers, but they need a timely answer.
 
If anything comes out of the Synod regarding divorced Catholics and communion, my hope and prayer is that they simply reaffirm the teachings of our Lord. It’s there in black and white.

However, there is much, much misunderstanding among Catholics when it comes to marriage and annulment. And if the Synod clarifies the teachings of the Church, it will be by the grace of God and of benefit to the faithful. If a 25-year old marries the “wrong” person, what makes that person the wrong one? Abuse? Mental illness? Lack of openness to life? Infidelity? Addiction that existed at marriage and unwillingness to seek treatment? All of these are things which MAY result in an approved annulment. If the now 35-year old has just found someone “better,” an annulment may not be granted. And if not, that person, who may be separated from their spouse, is called to chastity going forward because in the eyes of the Church, they are still married.

Our priest is in the midst of a campaign, if you will, to bring parishioners into his office to discuss these sorts of issues, and has had multiple seminars on divorce/annulment. God bless him. We are fortunate to have a Canon lawyer as a parishioner to help, but this is the type of pastoral care desperately needed in our parishes. That is the type of recommendation that could come out of the Synod. And our priest has said multiple times from the pulpit that $$$ is not an issue. The Church will work with those who cannot afford to contribute money to the annulment process.
I often wonder why people think Pope Francis is going to throw the baby out with the bathwater? :confused:
He won’t change that which he cannot change.

Great that your pastor is giving good info.
 
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