Perhaps because of the optics. I believe she criticizes his attending the Al Smith dinner where Obama the radical pro abortion president was also seated at the head table. Apparently she believed he was unwilling to attend an event with her sitting at the head table. Whether that conclusion is legitimate I don’t know.
Cardinal Dolan did defend his attendance at the Al Smith dinner as modeled upon Jesus who also dined with sinners. Also presumably he could have spoken again to Obama about his radical pro abortion stance. (I would perhaps suggest a gallon of Holy water and may an exorcism

would be appropriate as well).
In his defense Cardinal Dolan has publically criticized Obama, not only for his support of abortion and other pro death philosophies that he holds, but also pretty much called him a liar for his promise to provide a REAL accommodation to the HHS Mandate when it was clear he had no such intention. So he doesn’t really give Obama a pass even though he’s willing to sit in close proximity.
How’s that for sitting solidly on the fence? My personal opinion is that Cardinal Dolan should have used the Smith dinner to make a point by speaking out against abortion and the Obama administration’s zealous and frankly over reaching support for all things abortion related rather than appearing to be having a jolly old time with him. While we as Catholics understand the reasoning behind the decision, it simply gives the Leftist media a photo op to claim that Cardinal Dolan supports Obama…ugh.
Lisa