Eileen T: WHOA!! I hope no parents of gay children read your post! To blatantly say that gay people are going to Hell…who made you God?? How can you say that? And don’t even attempt to quote scripture, because it never says that. People may interpret it as that, but it truly doesn’t.
Yes, homosexuality isn’t what was created as “normal” and yes, people are afraid of it because of it’s abnormality. BUT, in the Old Testament where there is reference made to the “awfulness” of it, they were also still afraid of a lot of things that they didn’t understand. And if man has created more doctrine to condemn those that are homosexuals, than I certainly hope they are sitting up there with God, because in Scripture it does say “judge not, lest you be judged yourself.”
It has now been proven medically that there are brain and hormonal abnormalities in homosexual people. Something went wrong during development. There was a mistake. So now these people have an abnormality that can’t be corrected no matter how much praying and denying they do…or the Church does. And I don’t just mean the Catholic Church! Do you honestly think that a person would CHOOSE to be gay?? To be bashed, threatened, told they are going to Hell, denied what any human would want out of life, denied jobs, have to defend themselves in many settings because of the ABNORMAL fear of them!!! This isn’t a life choice, it’s a fact that something is abnormal in their genetics! IF praying for them will “cure” them, then please start praying for ALL abnormalities. My youngest brother has Down’s Syndrome, and he would love to drive car, and have a family. This too is a genetic abnormality and people used to fear them also. Their strange, almost “family-like” similarities in appearance used to make people run with fear, institutionalize them and even kill them. Fortunately, people finally listened to the medical world and quit this being so stupid.
Maybe, we should pray for understanding of the gay people. I have many gay friends, and I pray for them. Not for them to change, which they can’t, but for their safety, and just because I love them. This is “human hatred” all from fears of the unknown. There are no declarations from God that tell us to dislike and try to change what we can’t…(hmmm…accept the things we cannot change…a prayer from a Saint?)…these are from people who have decided what is right and wrong.
I know I won’t change anyone’s ideas on this, because people believe what they believe. But I want you to think about something. IF you are married, and your marriage is “valid” and blessed by the Church…whether Catholic, Protestant, whatever…and you have a loving relationship with your spouse, and only your spouse, HOW could anyone elses relationship affect yours. Does your neighbor’s affect yours? Does the abusive couple across town affect your marriage? Does the person who’s having the affair affect your marriage? Does the couple who has decided to not have children affect your marriage? How about the couple who has 10 children with another on the way affect your marriage? If none of these people affect your marriage or the sanctity of it, how could a loving gay couples relationship, wanting a marriage, affect it? It couldn’t…you’d just look the other way like you do with the other marriages.
Yes, I do have some very liberal views, and yes, I’m from Minnesota! But I’d like to think that I also have a loving heart, and where I don’t want to see 2 gay people making out, I also don’t want to see 2 straight people making out either! GROSS! Get a room!
