misericordie:
Sorry, she should in fact be expelled as to send the message as well that the purpose of a catholic school is to be catholic. This is the ONLY reason Catholic Schools exist. Not to babysit.
I suggest she stay because she WANTS to be expelled.
The purpose of a Catholic school is to
teach Catholicism and all it embodies to children, even overgrown ones with raging hormones and underdeveloped thought processes. It would be the same if a girl in a Catholic high school got pregnant (or a boy was known to have gotten a girl pregnant), or obtained an abortion- she (he) could attend classes, but all the other great stuff of school is lost to her, including walking across the stage for graduation, sports, yearbook, all the fun stuff gone. It doesn’t
teach these kids anything if they are kicked out- and in most cases, they want to be kicked out. They know these actions are mortally sinful, but of course, they are teenagers, and so much more smarter than adults- until the reckoning comes.
My way is a lot more punitive than you think. It is easy to publically thumb one’s nose at convention by committing a mortal sin; nay, even a full-blown act of defiance and excommunication- and be able to shrug one’s little shoulders and walk away from it. Sure, go off to the new school, talk bad about the horrible, medieval Church, get a whole new set of avant-garde friends, and make your parents and family feel as if they don’t even know you. Better these children (and they ARE children in adult bodies) stay put, and face what they’ve done, make public ammends and penance, lose all privileges except the privilege to attend school, and see what happens in a year.
But I would not leave this one alone during Mass- which I am sure she wants to skip. In fact, I’ll ammend my last idea: Her parents should have to come to school Mass with her if she stays. If that’s five days a week (which I doubt), then fine. Each and every time there is Mass, Mom or Dad has to sign in at the office, escort her to Mass, and stay through the whole thing. Now, if Mom and/ or Dad can’t do that simple thing, then yes, she should be asked to leave, in fact told to pack it up- because Mom and Dad are not putting action to their professed faith. In that case, it would be like this::banghead: and not worth the administration’s trouble.