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sandraladeda
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My 2 cents worth, fwiw…
I do not see how this promotes promiscuity. I cannot see anyone saying “now that I’m covered for HPV, I’m going to town!”, given that there is still HIV, Herpes, Chlamydia, Syphylis, Gonorhea, pregnancy…
I do not see how I, as a parent, have any control over my daughter’s future choice in spouse. Unless I plan to lock her in a room and screen prospective gentlemen callers, I have no say in who she meets, falls in love with, or marries, nor what his past might be.
Example - say my dear daughter goes away to university (she plans to next year), meets a nice young man, and they start to like one another. Say he’s not Catholic, but, upon meeting her, becomes interested in her strong Catholic faith, and begins to attend church with her. Their affection for one another grows. He converts. They get engaged. They marry.
Does his past have to have anything to do with their future? Do we tell our children to ask on the first date, “are you a virgin?”, and if the answer is “no”, end the contact with that person?
Not everyone comes to their Catholic faith in a neat and tidy way. We do not all come from homogeneously perfect Catholic backgrounds, and meet people from homogeneous perfect Catholic backgrounds, and marry perfectly. It’s nice, but it is not the story for everyone. I have numerous friends who are converts! They were brought to holiness through their conversion and marriage to Catholics who did not reject them on their first date.
How do we advance Christ’s kingdom if we never step outside of our own bubble? Who converts the unbelievers?
Editing to add -
Why vaccinate now and not wait until daughter is engaged -
Because it is within my ability to do so now. She is in my home, under my influence and care. I do not know where she will live, work, etc. when she gets engaged. What if she lives on the other side of the country? will I be calling her up and saying “remember that talk we had about Gardasil? go do it now!”
all imho
I do not see how this promotes promiscuity. I cannot see anyone saying “now that I’m covered for HPV, I’m going to town!”, given that there is still HIV, Herpes, Chlamydia, Syphylis, Gonorhea, pregnancy…
I do not see how I, as a parent, have any control over my daughter’s future choice in spouse. Unless I plan to lock her in a room and screen prospective gentlemen callers, I have no say in who she meets, falls in love with, or marries, nor what his past might be.
Example - say my dear daughter goes away to university (she plans to next year), meets a nice young man, and they start to like one another. Say he’s not Catholic, but, upon meeting her, becomes interested in her strong Catholic faith, and begins to attend church with her. Their affection for one another grows. He converts. They get engaged. They marry.
Does his past have to have anything to do with their future? Do we tell our children to ask on the first date, “are you a virgin?”, and if the answer is “no”, end the contact with that person?
Not everyone comes to their Catholic faith in a neat and tidy way. We do not all come from homogeneously perfect Catholic backgrounds, and meet people from homogeneous perfect Catholic backgrounds, and marry perfectly. It’s nice, but it is not the story for everyone. I have numerous friends who are converts! They were brought to holiness through their conversion and marriage to Catholics who did not reject them on their first date.
How do we advance Christ’s kingdom if we never step outside of our own bubble? Who converts the unbelievers?
Editing to add -
Why vaccinate now and not wait until daughter is engaged -
Because it is within my ability to do so now. She is in my home, under my influence and care. I do not know where she will live, work, etc. when she gets engaged. What if she lives on the other side of the country? will I be calling her up and saying “remember that talk we had about Gardasil? go do it now!”
all imho