Catholic vs. Protestant Attire?

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Shinobu, if jeans, shirts and sneakers are what you have, and what you wear to work, or to other celebrations, that is perfectly fine. For us women, and considering what is available both size-wise and style-wise, a woman coming in clean, pressed jeans and shirt and nice sneakers would be more appropriate than a woman in a tight slit skirt, bra-less halter, etc.

But if jeans etc. are what you feel “comfortable” in, but you wear more “formal” attire to work, or to other celebrations (and I don’t mean formal in the sense of ballgown, semi-formal gown, white gloves etc., I mean formal as in dress, suit, skirt, dressy pantsuit), then I think that wearing the jeans instead of the other attire might not be so appropriate. Why would you dress with more outward attention, care, and formality to a job than to Church?

For somebody else, we’d have to consider what THEY had available. This is not the fashion police stating that “Thou shalt wear dresses or else”, and throwing into the darkness some poor women who don’t have dresses, as though it were* only* the dress that mattered.

This is, instead, a matter of respect toward God. Whatever you have that is most suitable (no pun intended) is best. If all you have are jeans and a halter dress, get a shawl for the dress and go with the dress. If all you have are jeans and your wedding gown, clean and press the jeans and wear them with dignity. If all you have is jeans and your wedding gown, but it’s because you really, really, really like jeans, and you have the money to buy at least a pair of dress pants instead of another pair of jeans, buy the dress pants though and wear them, not because the jeans aren’t in themselves “good enough”, but because it would be a sacrifice for you (please, again, I’m not saying you personally, just for this example) to wear something outside your “preferred outfit” of jeans, jeans, jeans. IOW, treat God with a little more formality than you do anything else.

We CAN worship God in anything. We SHOULD worship Him inwardly with our cleanest soul --confession of sin, repentence, good deeds–and outwardly with our cleanest clothes (just remember, are you dressing for God’s worship or your OWN worship?)
 
I’m curious about something. Back in say 1960, if one walked though almost any Catholic parish or Protestant church, everyone would have been dressed rather formally – suits, ties, hats for the women, etc. etc.

If we walk through the same parishes today, *most *Catholics seem to be dressed in an extremely leisurely manner while most Protestants continue to dress in a far more formal manner.

Why is this?
 
Who Cares? Why is it so bothersome to you? Ok, so personally it bugs you but keep it to you and yours don’t spread it to others, you’ve made your opinion Crystal Clear, I get how you feel Very Very Clearly and I’m Sure Anyone Who Reads This Post Will Get Your Thoughts, Opinions & Feelings Just As Clearly, You Made Your Point, Enough Already :banghead:
 
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Bill_A:
The best dressed people in Jesus and the apostles cynagos were the pharocies.
That’s #17.
 
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kamz:
Who Cares? Why is it so bothersome to you? Ok, so personally it bugs you but keep it to you and yours don’t spread it to others, you’ve made your opinion Crystal Clear, I get how you feel Very Very Clearly and I’m Sure Anyone Who Reads This Post Will Get Your Thoughts, Opinions & Feelings Just As Clearly, You Made Your Point, Enough Already :banghead:
Why not try to answer the question or remain silent? No one is holding a gun to your head and forcing you to either read or post on this topic.

Your little diatribe did nothing to add to the dialogue…
 
Oh, answer the question or remain silent, duh, has not everyone answered you, some feel dress one way some feel dress another way, there you have your opinions, I myself just feel like you have a right to your opinion and I have a right to mine, but I will not force it down your throat or tell you What Would Jesus Have You Wear? Maybe he would have me naked, I have no idea, I will not pretend that I know What Jesus Would Have Me Do.
All, I’m saying is can anyone just say this is my personal opinion for me and mine but it doesn’t mean it has to be for you and yours?? No one is willing to say that but I am 😃
 
I think we can all agree there are standards that should never be violated, yet are often. I am not speaking about the quality of clothes, such as a tie Vs. polo shirt. I am talking about immodest clothes that are frequently seen in Church, especially by teenage girls and some “older” ladies.
 
My opinion is that it is a personal opinion between me, my family and God and when I am at Mass if I’m looking around and not focusing on the Mass I better snap to it and get my mind back into focus, thats my problem and has nothing to do with what others are wearing.
I agree, its a very personal decision and for someone to say you should really dress like this or if you don’t your disrespecting God is really not true because none of us can know what God knows and only God knows us in and out and he knows our heart and soul.
Dress up if you want but because its what you want and not to impress those around you and don’t expect others to be just like you becuase God made us all different thats what is so cool, none of us are exactly alike and God loves us all and we are all his children.
 
And by men and teenage boys. Mesh shirts or muscle shirts, sweatshirts and Ts with tasteless, vulgar and downright indecent language/ graphics, not to mention the “plumber’s pants”. . .
 
The worst I have seen lately is a female usher/collector wearing a tube top…no straps or shirt covering her shoulders. I stopped breathing everytime she swept the collection basket down a pew. I was sure one or two parts of her body would fall out!:eek:

I pray that more people would be more respectful of what others have to view.

There is nothing wrong with setting a dresscode and establishing someone to enforce it.
 
I agree with #s 50 and 51. We can all agree that we know some forms of dress do offend God.
 
I am so new to the catholic faith I am not even an official catacumin (sp) yet. So feel free to ignore anything I say 🙂
I was raised in the lds church and there are many unwritten dress codes in effect for them. White shirts & ties and no beards for guys. Flowered dresses, and jumpers for ladies, you even get extra points if you and your daughters are dresses in identical dresses. Aren’t you so precious. Rebel want to be mormons wear colored shirts,eeeeck or once a sister wore a pant skirt. People still talk about it today. 🙂 I always wanted to come to church in a burlap sac and extra tuff’s to prove a point. And my point was that if that is the best that you can do then it is all the Lord requires. Unfortunately I would have had to make the ultimate sacrifice of giving up all of my clothing that would have been more appropriate to be in the right to wear my sack. And as much as I would have loved to tweek tails I love my nice clothes too much.
The MOST important thing is to be at church. So my call from the lds is bring your tube top mamas and teens with there weird fashion because this is where they need to be. If what you are wearing is the best you can do it is all God asks.
That being said we dress nicely for church. I still have my boys wear button up white shirts and ties, and I still wear a dress because it is the best I can do and I want to be the best for Christ. I am very releaved to see the lack of unofficial dress code however it is a wonderful break from the land of lds clones. 🙂
 
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Jodi:
IThe MOST important thing is to be at church. So my call from the lds is bring your tube top mamas and teens with there weird fashion because this is where they need to be.
Nope, I disagree. If one is going to mass, no matter the age, they need to dress modestly. They should be dressing modestly outside mass too. Being at mass is not enough. We need to work on a conversion of our heart. Not to mention we have an obligation to each other as well. We have an obligation not to be an occasion of sin for one another.
 
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sunnyday:
My opinion is that it is a personal opinion between me, my family and God and when I am at Mass if I’m looking around and not focusing on the Mass I better snap to it and get my mind back into focus, thats my problem and has nothing to do with what others are wearing.
I agree, its a very personal decision and for someone to say you should really dress like this or if you don’t your disrespecting God is really not true because none of us can know what God knows and only God knows us in and out and he knows our heart and soul.
Dress up if you want but because its what you want and not to impress those around you and don’t expect others to be just like you becuase God made us all different thats what is so cool, none of us are exactly alike and God loves us all and we are all his children.
It is not about being alike, it is about propriety. We tend to have an overly individualistic attitude in this society. Me first and to heck with everyone else.
 
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Jodi:
I am so new to the catholic faith I am not even an official catacumin (sp) yet. So feel free to ignore anything I say 🙂
I was raised in the lds church and there are many unwritten dress codes in effect for them. White shirts & ties and no beards for guys. Flowered dresses, and jumpers for ladies, you even get extra points if you and your daughters are dresses in identical dresses. Aren’t you so precious. Rebel want to be mormons wear colored shirts,eeeeck or once a sister wore a pant skirt. People still talk about it today. 🙂 I always wanted to come to church in a burlap sac and extra tuff’s to prove a point. And my point was that if that is the best that you can do then it is all the Lord requires. Unfortunately I would have had to make the ultimate sacrifice of giving up all of my clothing that would have been more appropriate to be in the right to wear my sack. And as much as I would have loved to tweek tails I love my nice clothes too much.
The MOST important thing is to be at church. So my call from the lds is bring your tube top mamas and teens with there weird fashion because this is where they need to be. If what you are wearing is the best you can do it is all God asks.
That being said we dress nicely for church. I still have my boys wear button up white shirts and ties, and I still wear a dress because it is the best I can do and I want to be the best for Christ. I am very releaved to see the lack of unofficial dress code however it is a wonderful break from the land of lds clones. 🙂
Your attempting to set-up a strawman argument – as if one needs to choose between being well dressed AND going to Mass. That’s false…
 
Jodi, wear whatever you feel God wants you to wear, not one anyone else tells you to wear. I wear either dress pants or black jeans, loafer shoes and a short sleeved tee in the summer and nice looking sweaters in winter, I go one Sunday dress pants one Sunday black jeans, I own one pair of dress pants and they fit great and I’m very tall so that was not easy. In the summer I wear shorts that look like a skirt, I think they are called a skort or I wear shorts that are made of pants material and go almost to the knee. I personally would not wear a tube top to church or anything that showed a ton of skin and personally I’ve never seen anyone at church dressed like this so I’m just plain lucky, but if someone came to church dressed like that I would just love them and pray for them and lead by example, I don’t want to tick them off so they won’t come back, they need to be there just as much as I do so I would dress like I do covering my body but very plain and I would just keep reaching out to them very carefully and praying for them at home and church, God would want us to pray for them and love them and accept them, lead by example, there is no need to tell someone as words are usually not needed, people will themselves start to feel silly dressed like that and if they don’t I guess they don’t.
 
Okay, I’ve got some opinions here I’d like to share - completely understnading that this is more of a gripe-fest than exchange so far. Maybe this will start a more friendly exchange???
"I see women or girls who come to dressed so provacatively that they become a distraction for the boys and men how spiritually productive is that? What happened to modesty?"
What bothers me most about these type of comments is 2 or 3 things:

**1. It is assumed that the female is TRYING to be “provocative” and although this may be true in some cases, for the most part I think they are just wearing what is the social norm in attire and believe they are presenting their best appearance. Especially in situations of younger, unmarried women. For those ladies, this is appropriate to the goal of attracting a marriagable man. Good luck to them finding one at church! I probably dressed in much the same manner, although I’d like to think not as boldly before marriage and the birth of our 1st child. **
2. It is not any womans fault that any man can’t keep his eyes focused or his head out of the gutter. Honestly do you really think it matters how any woman dresses to men like that?! They could be covered from head to toe and the poor fellow would be going crazy in the head over a bare ankle being exposed when she kneels. (in times past this was exactly the case) My own husband thinks the younger ladies need a long talking to from their parents and the parents need to put their foot down on what they buy for their daughter.
3. Mass is primarily for spirtiual growth, but this does not exclude relationships with those around us. Finding Jesus in those around us is also a requirement of spiritual growth. Difficult as that may be.


Now to continue, I don’t know what prot. churches you guys are seeing, but here in my section of the bible belt, they aren’t any better dressed than us Catholics. And frankly I don’t know why we would want to compare prot to catholic, it’s not productive to this thread as far as I can tell.

As for refusing ANYONE into church - this idea is horrible. Let the harlot on the corner come, let the construction worker come straight from work, let the business man come, let the frazzled mother with baby spit-up on her shirt come - let them all come! Are they dressed in “Sunday best”? Maybe, maybe not - you don’t really need to know. But if they are seeking God, you are risking your own soul if you turn them away.

We dress comfortable: clean in jeans, shirts, sneakers for all 9 of us in one pew!
 
Martha, thanks for sharing you opinions, they are good ones and I personally agree with you, so thanks so much 👍
 
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