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Dettingen
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“they sure have a bunch of rules to follow”
I guess legalism is a relative thing—to me, it looks like Catholics have an awful lot of rules to follow!
Check out the Ask An Apologist forum on this site: can I go to a gay wedding? Why did the priest call out someone for making the sign of the cross over the torso instead of the face? Can we celebrate Halloween? Can my bishop order me to vote? Can the priest force me to receive the Eucharist by intinction? What about reception in hand rather than on tongue? Kneeling or standing? What do I do when my small son spits out the Host? Should we thump our bosom when repenting of sin during the Mass, or was that rule eliminated by Vatican II? And so on. Maybe it just looks like a bunch of rules when you’re on the outside.
“the church will decide if they can even join.”
An important distinction: joining a congregation is akin to joining any voluntary organization. It’s not necessary to be a member of any specific congregation to be saved. Salvation is a one-to-One thing, and church membership is for support, worship, and carrying out one’s faith.
For what it is worth, I’ve never seen anyone rejected.
“they will be shunned by the entire congregation”
And this is different from excommunication how?
Shunning is only a formal practice among the Plain People such as the Amish and Mennonites. Informal ‘shunning’ or unfriendliness can happen in any group of people.
My mother divorced her first husband, my father, and remarried a nice man. My stepfather is (imo) a good-hearted man to tries heroically to live his faith. He served our congregation faithfully, giving his prayers, presence, and gifts informally. But when he wanted to serve our congregation in a more formal way, he was rejected on account of my mother’s divorce. He was badly hurt by this rejection and left the congregation of his own accord. But there was no formal shunning as you describe it–he would have been welcome to stay and contribute as he had previously.
IMO, churches ought to be hospitals for sinners, not museums for perfect people.
As for removal of elders–because church membership is completely separate from salvation, removing an elder doesn’t affect his status with God. Church membership and salvation are entirely different things! (Though often I have heard the two terms conflated in some circles.)
Who gives a congregation the authority to remove and elder (dismiss a Sunday School teacher, hire a pastor, etc.) No one. As each congregation is unitary, the people decide. The larger the congregation, the more likely there’s committees involved.
Perhaps an analogy will help:
To me, the Roman Catholic Church lookes like it has an emperor on top, with client kings who follow the emperor’s (Pope’s) directions. So power flows from the top down, God, Pope, bishops, and so on.
In contrast, Baptists resemble the political structure of the United States. Authority rests with the people, who prayerfully strive to carry out God’s directions. The people then delegate some decisions to representatives (Congress, committees). Individual congregations can, like independent nations, join mutual interest groups such as the Southern Baptist Convention or NATO.
About mocking–I’m really sorry about that. My co-religionists have done a great deal of harm over the years and I truly regret it. I think that the criticism/complaints/mocking arise out of ignorance and fear, and I hope you will be able to forgive it.
Have I cleared up some of your confusions?
Pax,
Dettingen
I guess legalism is a relative thing—to me, it looks like Catholics have an awful lot of rules to follow!
“the church will decide if they can even join.”
An important distinction: joining a congregation is akin to joining any voluntary organization. It’s not necessary to be a member of any specific congregation to be saved. Salvation is a one-to-One thing, and church membership is for support, worship, and carrying out one’s faith.
For what it is worth, I’ve never seen anyone rejected.
“they will be shunned by the entire congregation”
And this is different from excommunication how?
Shunning is only a formal practice among the Plain People such as the Amish and Mennonites. Informal ‘shunning’ or unfriendliness can happen in any group of people.
My mother divorced her first husband, my father, and remarried a nice man. My stepfather is (imo) a good-hearted man to tries heroically to live his faith. He served our congregation faithfully, giving his prayers, presence, and gifts informally. But when he wanted to serve our congregation in a more formal way, he was rejected on account of my mother’s divorce. He was badly hurt by this rejection and left the congregation of his own accord. But there was no formal shunning as you describe it–he would have been welcome to stay and contribute as he had previously.
IMO, churches ought to be hospitals for sinners, not museums for perfect people.
As for removal of elders–because church membership is completely separate from salvation, removing an elder doesn’t affect his status with God. Church membership and salvation are entirely different things! (Though often I have heard the two terms conflated in some circles.)
Who gives a congregation the authority to remove and elder (dismiss a Sunday School teacher, hire a pastor, etc.) No one. As each congregation is unitary, the people decide. The larger the congregation, the more likely there’s committees involved.
Perhaps an analogy will help:
To me, the Roman Catholic Church lookes like it has an emperor on top, with client kings who follow the emperor’s (Pope’s) directions. So power flows from the top down, God, Pope, bishops, and so on.
In contrast, Baptists resemble the political structure of the United States. Authority rests with the people, who prayerfully strive to carry out God’s directions. The people then delegate some decisions to representatives (Congress, committees). Individual congregations can, like independent nations, join mutual interest groups such as the Southern Baptist Convention or NATO.
About mocking–I’m really sorry about that. My co-religionists have done a great deal of harm over the years and I truly regret it. I think that the criticism/complaints/mocking arise out of ignorance and fear, and I hope you will be able to forgive it.
Have I cleared up some of your confusions?
Pax,
Dettingen