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Liturgy of Affirmation for making a difficult decision
Background: This liturgy affirms that a woman has made a good and holy decision. It provides strength and healing after making a difficult decision. It brings closure to an often intense and emotional process. It is intended to be celebrated with friends.
Gathering: The celebrant invites friends, and if appropriate the partner, to gather in a circle. She welcomes them and introduces the liturgy.
Song: A favorite, comforting song, one that the woman likes.
Prayer: Blessed are you, Holy One, for your presence with _____ (name of woman).
Praised be you, Mother and Father God, that you have given your people the power of choice. We are saddened that the life circumstances of _____ (woman’s name or, if appropriate, woman’s name and her partner’s name) are such that she has had to choose to terminate her pregnancy. Such a choice is never simple. It is filled with pain and hurt, with anger and questions, but also with integrity and strength. We rejoice in her attention to choice.
Our beloved sister has made a very hard choice. We affirm her and support her in her decision. We promise to stand with her in her ongoing life
Blessed are you, Holy One, for your presence with her.
Reading: Choose a poem, reading, or scripture verse that captures the message of the liturgy.
Sharing: The celebrant invites the woman (and her partner) to speak about her (their) decision to have an abortion. If there is a symbolic gesture that expresses her (their) feelings such as sprinkling flower petals, or sharing dried flowers invite her (them) to incorporate.
Blessing of ______ (name of woman):
_______ (name of woman), we love you very deeply. As a sign of our affirmation of you and of your choice, we give you this bowl and this oil. Oil soothes the bones that are weary from making a difficult decision. Oil strengthens and heals. Oil…(add sentences that reflect what the woman spoke in her story.)