Pardon my boldness, but we must know their motives and rationale if we are to provide a convincing rebuttal. I do not believe for a moment that any of the pro-choice people woke up one day and say, “Hey, I think I’m gonna be evil today!” They believe that they have a moral imperative to be pro-choice. They believe that they are on the side of righteousness. So, by understanding the premise on which that assertion was drawn, pro-life people can effectively counter the conclusion.
I believe the Bible says not one among you is righteous. The group is evil. The people are just people like you and me who have been led away. Should we “sugarcoat” it? No. Should we condemn abortion? yes. Should we condemn THEM? I don’t believe so. I know of just one baby’s life God used me to save through discussion with a mom who was going to have an abortion. I did NOT convince her to keep her baby by telling her what a sinner she was or how she would go to hell for killing her baby.
Her mind was changed through compassion and understanding. And some direct but not condemning talk.
Great story, Hazmae. We are all sinners looking for holiness (some more than others). I believe that one does not condemn any sinner. Rather, we should all work together to bring all to the light of Christ. As a community of believers, we need each other. We need support, encouragement and understanding, not condemnation.
I am not saying that we should roll over and accept their argument as truth. I am saying that we should speak the truth with conviction and love.
All this talk about division…well to the best of my recollection there has been nothing but division since '73. Maybe it’s time to show others what being Christian is really all about!
I was there in 1972 when a woman appeared on TV and begged everyone to have compassion on young women who would die at the hands of back-alley abortionists. How could we, meaning Catholics, turn our backs on them? You know what? In 1972 we still respected authority, we still believed what we heard on TV. And this same woman said, “Abortion is likely the most difficult decision a woman will ever have to make and is between her and her God.” We did not realize we were being lied to. We thought Abortion Was Only To Be Used In Cases of Rape, Incest and to Save the Life of the Mother. But shortly after, God disappeared from the equation as well.
When standing in front of an abortion clinic, I don’t tell the women going in what to do. I hold a sign with the Blessed Virgin. I pray along with the people with me. Sometimes, being a witness is enough. There are no arguments. One day, a man in a van pulled up and thanked us for what we were doing. Most of the time, cars would drive by and people would yell something or give an obscene gesture.
Recently, the new Bishop of Detroit led a group in prayer in front of an abortion clinic. For Catholics, the only choice is life.
And to this day, there are people who believe, or want to believe, the “baby” is just a blob of tissue, that it’s not a human being. Everyone reading this began life as a human embryo.
Peace,
Ed