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That’s true, and these people who were baptized Catholic as infants may not have chosen to be Catholic as adults. This would change the statistics dramatically. So while many practicing Catholics may complain about this poll, it’s the Catholic Church who institutes infant baptism and then obligates the person (who was not old enough to give consent) to be called Catholic…Well, according to the Church’s own laws anyone baptized Catholic is Catholic. They might not be good Catholics but they’re still Catholic.
The fact that there is a very big difference between the Sacrament of marriage and a civil marriage must also be acknowledged. Civil marriages have absolutely nothing to do with the Sacrament of Marriage. This may be why so many Catholics disagree with the call to fight same-sex marriage: it has nothing to do with the Church, and has no impact on the Sacrament of Marriage at all. Those who get married civily and not within the Church have separated themselves from the Church, and it’s not for us to impose Catholic rules on them. You can’t force people to be Catholic or to comply with Church teachings. That’s something that people have to choose to do on their own.Second, how far do we want to whittle down what is considered a “true” Catholic or acceptable enough to be called one. By the Church’s own laws simply being baptized Catholic is enough. And anyone who attends weekly is fulfilling their basic obligation as a Catholic. It might make people feel better to claim that poll results that don’t like aren’t “real” Cathoics, but we also need to face the facts that there are Catholics who meet all their obligations and still disagree with the Church on certain issues.
And besides that, you can disagree with the Church on certain issues, but you have to follow them. What I mean is, you cannot get married to a same sex individual, or help someone to do so, while still being in communion with the Church. As a Catholic, you are required to marry in the Catholic Church or stay single (a chaste single person). But disagreeing with the teaching is not a sin in itself that will separate you from the Church.