Catholics only: Do you hate homosexual sex acts (as we are obliged to)?

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No, because I see same-gender preference love between two people is not a sin. It is on the same level as different-gender preference love between two people. It is not a defining characteristic in qualifying them as a “good” or “not-good” person.
 
No, because I see same-gender preference love between two people is not a sin. It is on the same level as different-gender preference love between two people. It is not a defining characteristic in qualifying them as a “good” or “not-good” person.
There is not a problem at all with love between people of the same sex. i love my brothers and loved my Father dearly before he passed on.The sin is the homosexual behavior.
 
There is not a problem at all with love between people of the same sex. i love my brothers and loved my Father dearly before he passed on.The sin is the homosexual behavior.
And what happens in the bedroom between two people of the same gender is no different than two people with different genders. “Homosexual behavior” is not “sinful” when you look at the entire person. They are no different than the rest of us and should be totally accepted into the fold of Catholicism as they are just as holy and sinful as everyone else.
 
Yes, I hate the sin of homosexual sex acts as I hate all grave sins.
 
And what happens in the bedroom between two people of the same gender is no different than two people with different genders.
Ha? You mean, a penis of the homosexual is also entering the vagina of another homosexual? If not, then there is no similarity in the bedroom between two homosexuals and two heterosexuals.
“Homosexual behavior” is not “sinful” when you look at the entire person. They are no different than the rest of us and should be totally accepted into the fold of Catholicism as they are just as holy and sinful as everyone else.
Yes, the person is no different from the rest of us. We all have free will and dignity. The question is: Do homosexuals believe that they have free will as regards homosexual behavior? If they don’t, then may be they are the ones who do not believe that “they are no different than the rest of us.”
 
Ha? You mean, a penis of the homosexual is also entering the vagina of another homosexual? If not, then there is no similarity in the bedroom between two homosexuals and two heterosexuals.

Yes, the person is no different from the rest of us. We all have free will and dignity. The question is: Do homosexuals believe that they have free will as regards homosexual behavior? If they don’t, then may be they are the ones who do not believe that “they are no different than the rest of us.”
The exact positions in the private of the bedroom do not matter. Their behavior is not sinful. It is a act of physical love and is not a defining factor of their overall character(s).
 
The exact positions in the private of the bedroom do not matter.
Why not? Do behaviors not matter?
Their behavior is not sinful.
How is that reconciled with the commandments?
It is a act of physical love and is not a defining factor of their overall character(s).
What factors are defining and are those factors the only basis for separation from our friendship with God?
 
The exact positions in the private of the bedroom do not matter. Their behavior is not sinful. It is a act of physical love and is not a defining factor of their overall character(s).
Sin can never be used to express love.
 
Why not? Do behaviors not matter?

How is that reconciled with the commandments?

What factors are defining and are those factors the only basis for separation from our friendship with God?
If it is showing love behind closed doors in a physical, sexual way, then the privacy of the bedroom comes in. Like everyone else, what goes on in the bedroom stays in the bedroom.

Where do the commandments speak about same-gender preference people?

Which factors define us? It varies by person of course. A deep spiritual connection (prayer, rosary) and using your gifts in the world (helping others) are high on the list. Sexual preference has no relation to these factors in a persons character.
 
If it is showing love behind closed doors in a physical, sexual way, then the privacy of the bedroom comes in. Like everyone else, what goes on in the bedroom stays in the bedroom.
So fornication is fine too? It’s in the privacy of a bedroom and between consenting adults.

I used to think like you express here. I thought sin and the effects of sin were private. They aren’t. Sin affects everyone. There are repercussions for acts done in complete privacy.
 
So fornication is fine too? It’s in the privacy of a bedroom and between consenting adults.

I used to think like you express here. I thought sin and the effects of sin were private. They aren’t. Sin affects everyone. There are repercussions for acts done in complete privacy.
What would you define as “fornication” in this case and how does it differ from normal same-gender sexual relations?
 
Well, I do not see it as a sin, so love is possible between people of the same-gender preference.
So you have created your own church and your own theology. I guess it is impossble to sin when one makes up morality as they go along
 
So you have created your own church and your own theology. I guess it is impossble to sin when one makes up morality as they go along
I disagree, this is not an “infallible” teaching (ex cathadra) and under much discussion by many parts at all levels of the Church. To view what is seen as an act of human love towards one another is being used here as a way to divide and exclude.
 
I disagree, this is not an “infallible” teaching (ex cathadra) and under much discussion by many parts at all levels of the Church. To view what is seen as an act of human love towards one another is being used here as a way to divide and exclude.
That homosexual activity is sinful is a doctrine and this simple truth was always preserved by the Church. Just because liberal christians try to go around the facts will not make the true Church of Christ change it as well. The argument that it’s not ex cathedra is ridiculous considering that the number of actual number of ex cathedra pronouncements.
 
“hate the sin, and love the sinner.” Call homosexuals to live lives of chastity and celibacy, just as us good Catholic single heterosexuals do, right? Not to mention our dedicated Priests
 
Let’s put an end to this folks. We should hate homosexual acts but no more and no less than we hate all sexual acts outside of marriage. And for that matter I hate the specific acts even when they are committed by a married couple in foreplay. I just can’t see how a specific act can be intrinsically evil in one case and be okay in another.
 
Let’s put an end to this folks. We should hate homosexual acts but no more and no less than we hate all sexual acts outside of marriage. And for that matter I hate the specific acts even when they are committed by a married couple in foreplay. I just can’t see how a specific act can be intrinsically evil in one case and be okay in another.
I would prefer to have it acceptable only in the bonds of marriage (at least civil marriage), but since that option is not available in many places at the present a few things need to happen to make that compromise a real world option.
 
I disagree, this is not an “infallible” teaching (ex cathadra) and under much discussion by many parts at all levels of the Church. To view what is seen as an act of human love towards one another is being used here as a way to divide and exclude.
The Church could not be clearer on this than they have been. Becuase you find specualtion that some catholics want to change it doesnt mean anything. how can the Church possibly rule that sin is no lnger sin???
 
Let’s put an end to this folks. We should hate homosexual acts but no more and no less than we hate all sexual acts outside of marriage. And for that matter I hate the specific acts even when they are committed by a married couple in foreplay. I just can’t see how a specific act can be intrinsically evil in one case and be okay in another.
I do agree with you on this goofyjim, as I hope is apparent in the other thread on “oral sex as foreplay.”

This reason is why I struggle with the words “hate the act” as the OP presented it. To hate the act I must objectively hate the act no matter who is performing it. If defined clearly I do in fact “hate the act.” Our late Holy Father in Theology of the Body speaks of intrinsically evil acts meeting a few criteria. Although in his amazing wisdom he speaks in the positive rather than the negative voice.

He speaks of understanding the design and that all acts must be within the design of the body. Our bodies did not change with The Fall, only our misuse of them through sinful practice. Also he speaks of the Fall and what Satan tried to do in the temptation was to “imitate” or “mimic” the good and holy found in the design and the acts of the body.

In other words: intrinsically evil acts degrade and violate the design, and they mimic or imitate a good and holy act. The acts which meet those criteria I do in fact objectively hate no matter who is performing them.

So the only ones I really struggle with are the “acts of affection” I mentioned earlier. Is a kiss between two men a beautiful cultural expression or is it a homosexual act? It doesn’t violate the design, but it may or may not mimic a holy act.
 
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