This thread is intended bring awareness to those Catholics who profess the Catholic Faith, yet place their own desires, thoughts, opinions, or feelings, etc… above those of the Church.
I understand your concern and I think your concern for others is admirable. Your concern for the next person to inherit the promises of Christ appears very genuine. I think that’s very commendable.
But I think that in order for people to give up their own desires, thoughts, opinions or feels and hold the Church’s above their own, they have to trust the Church. I really think it boils down to trust. I know you wish that people would cast aside their better judgment and bite the bullet and just follow all the Church’s teaching. But that won’t happen until that trust is given. It’s through trust that one open themselves up and gives themselves over. If people don’t believe the Church is right, they have no reason to live against their conscience. They’re not going to surrender their obedience in favor of Church teachings if they don’t trust the Church.
The reason this is important is because the Church has it’s desires, thoughts, teachings, etc… from Christ Himself.
If dissenters believed that the Church always got it’s desires, thoughts and teachings from Christ Himself, I think they would be more compliant. The problem is, they don’t believe this to be always true. There’s a difference between 1) believing that the Holy Spirit will guide the Church, and 2) believing that the recipient of this guidance receive it without tainting it with their own thoughts, values, beliefs, biases, even fears.
The things that the Church teaches are intended to bring us toward Christ, toward salvation. When we reject one of those teachings, we are rejecting an aspect of salvation. (I’m talking about Doctrine, Dogmas of the Faith. )
I do think everyone believes that. At least I do. But the problem stems from the disbelief that the Church always has it right all the time.
There are many who know full well, and have studied in depth certain Doctrines (such as contraception…that being the most prevalent issue that I have seen in my life) yet still reject it for any number of reasons. They know the Church says it is grave matter, they know the Canon requires their assent to this Doctrine, they know the Catechism has been handed to us by the Pope as a work containing Doctrines to which Catholics must give assent, yet they persist in their rejection of the teaching.
Well you’re talking about something a bit different. It’s one thing to
know these things. It’s another matter when one has difficulty accepting these things as the truth. To be honest, I don’t know anyone in real life who
knows these things to be fact, yet still rejects the teachings. I don’t understand why they would. The problem is they don’t
know. They have doubts.
There are others who may not even know that its a sin. Yet the Church is clear that every Catholic has an obligation to seek Truth and know the Faith which they profess.
Right…but if they don’t know something, they don’t know to seek it out. For example, my mom went on for years and years about how contraception is a matter of conscience and is between a husband and wife…because her priest told her so. So she had no reason, in her mind, to go any further. She had her answer. Why would she seek out more answers when she already had one? People usually seek for answers when they have questions, not the reverse.
Things get further complicated when those who didn’t know run across a statement on a public forum by a Catholic that suggests to them that contraceptionis okay, is a matter for personal discernment. That now places them is a potential spot of accepting that statement as truth without further questioning it. Then it potentially becomes scandal.
Yes, but such a post is usually followed by a correction post and usually, on CAF, with reference material to back it up.
These are serious matters because we are talking about the difference between committing grave sin or not. And grave sin is not so very far from becoming a mortal sin. My concern is genuine. I have the deepest love for my brothers and sisters in Christ and it pains me to see a teaching of the Church being rejected outright. And it’s not just that a teaching is being rejected, dissented from; it’s the fact that that teaching is meant to keep us from possible damnation, and it is being dismissed at the possible detriment of souls.
But what do you do about people who lose their way along their way? My brother went to a high school seminary preparatory. On his own. It was his choice. Supported loosely by our father, but supported totally by our mother. The priests really liked him, and he liked them. He hates the Church and thinks it’s total bolognie. He said it was
because of what he learned about the Church in seminary. He says the history of the Church proves there is no God because if there was, He would have never let evils to be committed in his name. He
says he doesn’t believe in God, but in reality, I think it’s mad at God. He blames God for not having more control of His Church. He has completely lost faith in the Church and wants nothing to do with the Church. From bits and pieces gleaned from him, I think he leans toward Eastern Orthodox, but doesn’t want to separate himself with the family’s identification as Roman Catholic. So he just does nothing. Whatever happened to him in seminary ruined him. And it’s genuine. How does one fix that?
I really do believe you are genuine. It is MOHO that it may be your calling to educate people. I wonder if you have considered teaching Catechism to grammar, middle or high schoolers. Because they really need it…