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BSHoop96
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Gloria, I might just add to FrDavid96’s response what my pastor told me.I find this conversation very confusing. I am a Catholic who is seeking an annulment from a previous marriage, so I can not receive communion. Previous to my husband attending mass with me, I took my two children every week. My husband is a former Baptist and is currently an RCIA candidate who will become a member of the church soon. It was encouraged, by the parish priest, that we take our children up for a blessing in preparation for the first communion of our daughter as well as my husband. Our parish priest explained that we must set an example for our children, participate, and come forth and bow to the Body of Christ. Although the blessing is a bonus, I bring my children forward for their benefit, but also so I may show my love and respect for the Lord.
Why is this so offensive to some Eucharistic ministers on this site? Are they not prepared to say “God bless you” as well as administer communion. We say it to strangers when they sneeze. Why is it so uncomfortable to say it to a brother or sister in faith?
I don’t understand the push by some Eucharist ministers on this site to exclude transitioning Catholics, those in the process of becoming full members of the church, or those choosing to be an example for their children. It’s hard enough to feel a “belonging” by people in these situations. Does this exclusion need to be perpetuated by those who handle “Our Lord” during mass? Why are these Eucharistic ministers complaining about say, “God bless you”?
Any clarification would be appreciated.
LGloria
He said “it’s a communion line, not a blessing line” and he added that he thought the practice caused confusion and added there is no comparison between receiving a blessing instead of communion. His suggestion was to say a “spiritual communion” or a prayer for unity or something while in the pew until one can receive communion.
I believe it’s a rather misguided attempt to make people feel included. Also, you should not feel awkward about not going up when everyone else is. There are many reasons, at any given time, why one would not receive. It does not make you “not belong”.
Rather than feeling that the people on here are being uncharitable maybe you could see it as their attempt to help you and your family get “in line” with the Church.
I was in your position while waiting for an annulment and my husband is also in RCIA. I didn’t feel right about the blessings so I asked my pastor. Apparently he’s a bit more traditional than yours.