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mrld20
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I canāt stand slacks and dress shirts lol⦠Iām more into AE, A&F, and Aero⦠But I guess those are āname brandsā (for the younger people here lol)ā¦I guess that makes you even
Thereās plenty affirmation on line, but very little in real life.
So, going through the Ask an Apologist forum Iāve found a couple interesting ones
Some people on the forum didnāt get the memo
It can be done and has been done before
No one is born a porn addict or masturbator, OTOH some are born with same sex attraction (homosexuality) just like the vast majority are born with opposite sex attraction (heterosexuality). You said it became a part of you, in most cases heterosexuality or homosexuality is a part of you from the beginning. I would like to point out that even if it is an innate part of us it does not mean we think it is appropriate to act on it.
PS STOP SHOUTING, italics, bolding and underlining are better for emphasis
I also happen to run on the āeffeminateā side, for example I am a very neat person, I always look well-kempt, I sometimes slip into a very soft and kind of girl voice. I always dress stylish when Iām not forced to wear the schoolās ugly uniform, Iām a dress shirt and slacks kind of guy. Iām also not very aggressive.
But I wouldnāt be surprised if we get someone in a couple of posts who think weāre setting ourselves up as targets for the way we dress and act.
I guess if I wanted too I could dress more discretely; but thereās no way Iām going to change my voice (no matter how hard I try XD )
When I was in Catholic high school i thought the uniforms were down right atrocious (no offense to the hardcore Catholic School fans here)⦠They were very uncomfortable for me⦠But I like the clothes I wear⦠I like who I amā¦
Yeah I may have SSA/homosexual orientation which I guess in effect makes me a homosexual⦠But at this point no matter how hurt I get or no matter how many winy Catholic Momās and Dadās come at me; I donāt need to care what they think.
As long as I am following the Churchās teachings on sexuality (which Iām quite good at lol) no one has any right to tell me iām in the wrong.
And If I happen to be more of a target because of the way I dress or how my voice is then so be it. Iām celibate according to the Churchās teachings and thatās all that matters.