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Well, this is the point that I’m going to have to request some proof, most especially on the Canon Law saying that the mere fact that a couple hasn’t had sex yet is grounds for an annulment.
Because by your reasoning, if a couple got married, and on the way to their honeymoon to consumate their marriage they decided that it was a mistake and they haven’t consumated yet, that they can just go get an annulment because they changed their minds. But if there was no impediment to their consent freely given at the time that the Rite was performed, then the mere fact that they haven’t had sex does not seem sufficient to me to declare that marriage invalid. So I ask again for proof.
As far as going to his talks, yes, I have been to one of his talks, and the words “Sex is a sacrament” came out of his mouth. And no, it is not. Marriage does not equal sex, and sex does not equal marriage.
Quite frankly I don’t even really see a point in arguing over the man. His work is not a part of the deposit of faith, is not necessary for your or my salvation, and in a hundred years history will look back on theology of the body (and especially Chris West’s often sexually explicit illustrations of it) as just another odd theological trend.
A marriage which is not consummated can be dissolved by the Church
The Holy Father, for a just cause, at the request of one or both of the parties, will dissolve a valid, sacramental marriage that is not consummated (c. 1142). He will also dissolve a valid, non-sacramental marriage that is not consummated (c. 1142).
There are specific legal procedures to be followed in these cases (c. 1697-1706). Ultimately, the Apostolic See alone adjudicates the case. However, the local tribunal instructs the initial phases of the case at the request of the bishop. Everything is then forwarded to Rome.
The present procedures respect the personal dignity of both parties. These cases are processed with a great deal of discretion and tact. They are in fact rare.
When an allegation of non-consummation surfaces, efforts are made to determine the parties’ willingness to submit a petition of this nature to Rome. Given the sensitive nature of the case, parties may wish to exhaust another avenue first…
From the CCC
1640 Thus the marriage bond has been established by God himself in such a way that a marriage concluded and consummated between baptized persons can never be dissolved. This bond, which results from the free human act of the spouses and their consummation of the marriage, is a reality, henceforth irrevocable, and gives rise to a covenant guaranteed by God’s fidelity. The Church does not have the power to contravene this disposition of divine wisdom.[144]