I have a serious question about how a Catholic should deal with Islam.
Hi Patrick, your question here seems to be about how to deal with Islam but in your post you mentioned only Muslims. There is a difference here.
(1) The difference between Islam and Muslims is very much similar to the difference between Christianity and Christians. As Gandhi once said ‘I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ.’ Just as we would not want the worst excesses of Christians to reflect on other’s view of Christ, neither should we reflect the excesses of Muslims onto Islam itself.
(2) You mentioned a strict reading of the Quran but then just as in Christianity where very few of us are Biblical literalists, most Muslims do not take a strict reading of the Quran. It is normally tempered with a dose of common sense but even this is dependent on the cultural norms. Most of the issues you mention are really issues of culture rather than theology. Yes, the cultural norms are justified using the Quran but then so were many of the excesses of Christians in the recent past - slavery, segregation, apartheid were all justified using the Bible.
(3) As in the Bible, the Quran also have many different verses, some of which seemingly are in opposition. For every Quranic quotation not to befriend Christians and Jews, there are another Quranic quote exalting Christians and Jews. So, I think it is futile for any Christian (or ISIS for that matter) to point to any Quranic verse in isolation and say this is what Islam is like. One can do the same with the Bible as well and be just as equally misleading.
(4) Much of the problems of Muslims stem from a lack of development and education among Muslims. One can of course point to this as evidence that this is the natural state of a backward religion. That would be to ignore the fact that the Islamic world was once far more progressive and richer than the Christian West. (of course there is many factors in play at that time as it is now) Muslims also contend that their ‘backwardness’ is a product of Western policies which enriched the West at the cost of Muslims. I am not stating who is right or wrong, but merely pointing out that the argument is much more complex than what many people think.
Ultimately, I think you have brought the right factors into consideration, much more than many of those who provided simplistic answers in their posts replying to you. I believe your analysis of the situation is in the right direction - that most Muslims reject ISIS; that the mess we are in today is also the fault of Western policies; that most Muslims in US and the West seek integration. So most of those who answered really did not advance your thinking at all.
I also believe that the Christian considerations have been correctly identified: Your quotation from Mt etc. No one ever said being a Christian is easy. We are all called to turn the other cheek (ie., after another bombing). We are all called to open our homes to strangers (ie., the refugee). Jesus made clear that we are to do the right thing in spite of the personal risks to ourselves (the Good Samaritan stopped and helped a Jew in a dangerous place - no stretch of imagination to think that he can be robbed himself; or got conned or got blamed by his hated Jews, etc etc).
Yet, it is only human to seek to protect oneself. Sometimes in our limitations, it would seem to be a either-or kind of balancing act. We all can’t be like Maximilian Kolbe, can we. Or can we? If I end up protecting myself at cost of compromising even one of Jesus’ many injunctions of ignoring my personal risks, then I have probably failed no matter how understandable it is. I have to lift up my failure to turn the other cheek to Jesus and ask for forgiveness. it is tough - which is why I often pray that if I were to be called to my martyrdom, I would go with a lot of courage than I can muster today.
So, Patrick, I think you are on the right track but it is a personal decision each one of us has to make in each situation where we are called to balance off self-preservation with the call of Jesus. At least you are aware of it.
As for the understanding of Islam itself, feel free if you wish to seek confirmation of your understanding. I live in a Muslim majority country subject to the edicts of some power-preserving Muslims leaders who use religion for their purposes. So we know Islam quite well and how it is abused by some Muslims but we also know the good of Islam in our good Muslim friends. I also belong to a Christian community here whose churches have been bombed and yet our leaders (Catholic and Protestants) have risen above it all and publicly forgave those who bombed us but still standing firm in our religious rights. Those public forgiveness made me so proud to be a Christian. So can I say that we have been a Church who have suffered more than the Church in America yet have preserved the love and compassion of Jesus in the eyes of the wider society.