Christianity "based on fear"?

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I need some good responses to a nominal Catholic who has begun to insist that religion is only “based on fear” – i.e., that religions (and specifically Christianity) are primarily seeking to control behavior through fear of hell.

I really need to be better at defending the faith in this kind of scenario…
 
I need some good responses to a nominal Catholic who has begun to insist that religion is only “based on fear” – i.e., that religions (and specifically Christianity) are primarily seeking to control behavior through fear of hell.

I really need to be better at defending the faith in this kind of scenario…
I like the explanation that religion is the human response to a transcendent experience of faith. People feel compelled to express their experience of faith, especially at momentous times of their lives, such as when someone dies. It is not normal to stand around a grave and say, “Well, he’s dead. That was that. Oh, well.” It isn’t normal to experience the awesomeness of creation and say, “random chance sure generates some interesting patterns. Oh, well. What can you say?” It isn’t healthy when someone looks at life and says, “It is random, it means nothing in particular, it nothing to praise, nothing to be thankful for, nothing profound.” Even religions that do not believe in a deity as such at least rise to attempt to meet the human need to express how obviously profound our lives are, how profound life itself is.

Religion is, first and last, an expression of the human heart. I’d buy that it is based on awe, but that is not the same as being based on fear.
 
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Eternal salvation is the ultimate goal of every Christian. The fear of eternal condemnation to hell is therefore natural and essential. We are only on earth temporarily, many martyrs and saints gave up there life willingly knowing that the reward God has for them in heaven is far greater then what they would ever be able to amass here on earth. The idea that “Christianity is seeking to control behaviour through fear of hell” is one that is more likely to affect someone who is living a worldly life for that individual the thought of a life after this one is unimaginable.

If we look at the story of the Rich man and Lazarus we quickly understand that the rich man lived for himself he didn’t think once about his neighbour. If the rich man had some fear of hell he would have quickly changed his lifestyle, cared more about the ‘lesser one’ in society followed the laws and commandments of God etc.

What must be really emphasised is that the only time we have to gain eternal salvation is the time we have on earth. Once we die everything is out of our hand and we have no control over what happens. Even if before death or on the death bed an individual is able to believe, they can be saved.
 
The fear of hell is like splashing a bucket of ice water on a drunk person. It is a primer.

It will have less and less and less of any meaningful role in the life of a Christian as they deepen their relationship with God.
 
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I think where fear is present there is no faith or love. Because in the real sense GOD is the symbol of love, faith, humanity and respect. There is no space for fear in the relationship of GOD and Human being.
 
I think fear of what others think (related to pride), can keep us from believing.
 
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Funny, I thought it was based on love. See John 3:16.
 
I need some good responses to a nominal Catholic who has begun to insist that religion is only “based on fear” – i.e., that religions (and specifically Christianity) are primarily seeking to control behavior through fear of hell.

I really need to be better at defending the faith in this kind of scenario…
The ideal is to be like God for ever, so there may be fear of not attaining that.

Catechism on being like God for ever and Perfect Contrition and Attrition (contrition of fear):
1023 Those who die in God’s grace and friendship and are perfectly purified live for ever with Christ. They are like God for ever, for they “see him as he is,” face to face:598

1452 When it arises from a love by which God is loved above all else, contrition is called “perfect” (contrition of charity). Such contrition remits venial sins; it also obtains forgiveness of mortal sins if it includes the firm resolution to have recourse to sacramental confession as soon as possible.[51]

1453 The contrition called “imperfect” (or “attrition”) is also a gift of God, a prompting of the Holy Spirit. It is born of the consideration of sin’s ugliness or the fear of eternal damnation and the other penalties threatening the sinner (contrition of fear). Such a stirring of conscience can initiate an interior process which, under the prompting of grace, will be brought to completion by sacramental absolution. By itself however, imperfect contrition cannot obtain the forgiveness of grave sins, but it disposes one to obtain forgiveness in the sacrament of Penance.[52]
 
religion is only “based on fear” –
I’m more inclined to think that religion is based on “why?”
Why am I here?
Why is there a universe?
Why does death happen?
OTOH, why does beauty happen?
Why do we understand some things and not others?
Why do the people who do good sometimes do evil at other times?
 
a nominal Catholic who has begun to insist that religion is only “based on fear” – i.e., that religions (and specifically Christianity) are primarily seeking to control behavior through fear of hell.
If there was no hell, then that would be true. The problem is that hell is real; and wicked spirits, evil, and damnation are as real as the nose on your nominal Catholic friend’s face.
 
Christianity is based on love and life, and is a source of hope. “For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him might not perish but might have eternal life.” (John 3:16)

Jesus asks very little of us beyond love. Love God and love one another. Sometimes this means giving up things which are non-love, but that leads us to a better life and freedom.
 
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Has your friend been going to Sunday Mass lately? If so, that might explain it. It’s true, in the last several weeks there have been some fearsome Gospel readings, but mostly because Jesus is warning us not to be selfish and not to worship money and other things of this world.

What does the world tell us? The world (culture, politics, our economic system, and most media) promise that wealth, pleasure, prestige, and pride are the good life. Christianity says that these are traps, like drugs that entertain and anesthetize and addict us. That is what we should fear. Christianity offers a better life here on earth, a life of love, joy, and peace, not to mention life in union with our loving and good God.
 
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I need some good responses to a nominal Catholic who has begun to insist that religion is only “based on fear” – i.e., that religions (and specifically Christianity) are primarily seeking to control behavior through fear of hell.
So, his implicit “argument” is this:
  1. Religion is based on fear. (premise)
  2. Whatever is based on fear is bad. (premise)
  3. Religion is bad. (from 1, 2)
And it is easy to see why it was not stated explicitly: neither of two premises is obviously true - in fact, both seem to be more likely to be false, if one takes any time to think about them.

You can attack either of them. For example, you can attack the first by simply asking if he can actually prove (and not just assert) that religion - every single one! - is based on fear. Or you can attack the second premise by asking “Let’s say that it is so. And…?”.
 
Can you ask ‘are things based on fear a bad thing?’

If a kid says no to something because ‘my parents would kill me’, is this a bad thing?
If you’ve been drinking and make the decision not to drive because you might kill yourself and others, is that a bad thing?
Maybe you’re in a store and realize how easy it would be to put an item in your pocket and leave without paying. You think about getting caught, being arrested, then decide to pay for it after all.

Fear is often looking at risk and making a different decision. Sounds like a smart thing.
 
I need some good responses to a nominal Catholic who has begun to insist that religion is only “based on fear” -- i.e., that religions (and specifically Christianity) are primarily seeking to control behavior through fear of hell.

I really need to be better at defending the faith in this kind of scenario…

No control over behavior?​

= anarchy

Religiously speaking​

Why did we need a savior? Saved from what? … HELL

As for personal behavior, religiously or secularly​

Do we live in a consequence free existence? NO.

therefore,

Consequences for Right behavior vs bad behavior, is not just in scripture, but our entire secular system, and legal system. In various ways, Do this or else… is reality for us. Consequences (good or bad) is a reality for behavior

Besides,​

No rules for behavior of society is a ridiculous untenable situation anyway, with no good ending either…
 
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And doesn’t the Bible say that “Fear of God is the beginning of wisdom”?
 
Is your friend insinuating that people only believe in religion because of fear of death or Hell or something?
 
It is based on love, not fear.
‘He who loves God with all his heart does not fear death or punishment or judgment or hell,
because perfect love assures access to God.’ - The Imitation of Christ
 
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