Now comes the fun part: all the believers unanimously assert that God wants to be loved, freely and without coercion. (After all an enforced, coerced love is not worth anything). Then they take a full turn and say that God commands us to love him, otherwise the “reward” is eternal punishment.
How is this not a monstruous contradicton? God wants to be loved, freely, and then commands us to love him. Are you guys serious?
Let us assume that Christianity is correct that human beings are presently in a “fallen state.” In other words our “state of being” is one of being caught between two “realities.” On the one hand is a state of being enslaved by our “fallen nature” through distorted passions and incapacitated mind to choices coerced by them. On the other is God, our only chance at absolute freedom because of His omnipotence. In Him we can do all things. So God can only
be loved freely and without coercion if we make the one choice that we are
commanded to make - to love God with “our whole being.” When we make that choice, God’s grace and power provides the means to our freedom and power to love Him and all humanity.
Hence, He actually “frees our wills” if we choose to allow Him to do so. In fact we are commanded to do so because only then will we
“be free” to actually
“love Him.” This is the one choice in our power and one we are commanded to make. We are free to “become free.”
We are commanded to love because
only by doing so can we extract ourselves from our enslavement to our fallen nature. We are commanded by God to love Him because only by doing so can His omnipotence “free” us to “love” and therefore become truly free. Love being defined here as the “power” to choose Truth and Goodness above illusion and evil.
God is Love and anyone who lives in love lives in God and God lives in him - 1 John 4:16
This is our opportunity, by the one choice available to us, to allow
absolute love and freedom to “take hold” within us – God living in us.
We have free will in the sense that we can make the
one truly free and, yet, obligatory choice available to us - to love God. We are commanded to do so because only by doing so are we enabled by the grace and power of God to be restored to the absolute freedom which is written into our “pristine” nature when we “live in God.”
If we fail to make that one choice available to us - to love God fully, then we remain trapped within our fallen state of “slavery” to passions and inherent incapacities. At the end of time when “all is resolved” our love of God (and hence our freedom) will be the final test.
If we have chosen to live in God, by the power of His grace, we will be “free” of all encumbrances to survive the “purifying” fire. If we have never made the choice to “use” God’s grace to become “fully free” we will be burned up in the same purifying fire. Our hell will be the result of our own inability to give up the things which “coerce” and enslave us - the apparent “riches” that are being railed against in the Scriptures.
Think of it as a rope extended “from Heaven.” We are free to grab the rope and if we do so, the power of God (grace) lifts us out of the predicament we are in. But if we refuse to do so because of the “hold” that fallen nature has on us then we never become free.
I do not believe this is a one time option. Every choice we make in life is tied into this option. By each choice we make we either affirm the grip “sin” has on us or we move by choosing the promptings of God (through our conscience, reason, grace, the Church) towards greater and greater freedom. This process of extracting ourselves to greater and greater freedom is the command of God, and made possible by His power, because He wants our love only when it is “truly free.”
This is all very consistent with the Gospel message.
*I tell you most solemnly everyone who commits sin is a slave. Now the slave’s place in the house is not assured, but the son’s place is assured. So if the Son makes you free you will be free indeed." John 8:34-38
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If we define “love” as “the
power to know and choose truth and goodness,” then there is no contradiction. We are obliged to use the power of love by God’s command and can only “freely” do so when we actually have obtained that power “from Him” as a “gift.” The gift is freely given, is an immensely important one, one that we have a grave responsibility to use and one that leads to disasterous consequences if we neglect or ignore.
It is the gift of your very “being” fully alive and free.