Christians should apologize for helping to marginalize gays, pope says

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No. He should NOT be quiet.
Bad things happen because people are quiet.
He should speak out. We have to live the Gospel. If he doesn’t promote Gospel values, you can expect more of the same awful things happening in our world.
We don’t support evil acts. We support people. And we hope to lead them to holiness.
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Exactly. The Pope himself clarifies that he is not referring to an institutional apology from the Church, but individual acts by Her members who may have been guilty of behaving uncharitably.

This is, of course, consistent with:

“It is deplorable that homosexual persons have been and are the object of violent malice in speech or in action. Such treatment deserves condemnation from the Church’s pastors wherever it occurs. It reveals a kind of disregard for others which endangers the most fundamental principles of a healthy society. The intrinsic dignity of each person must always be respected in word, in action and in law.” - Document from the CDF (headed by the future Pope Benedict XVI), 1986.

with the caveat that

“But the proper reaction to crimes committed against homosexual persons should not be to claim that the homosexual condition is not disordered. When such a claim is made and when homosexual activity is consequently condoned, or when civil legislation is introduced to protect behavior to which no one has any conceivable right, neither the Church nor society at large should be surprised when other distorted notions and practices gain ground, and irrational and violent reactions increase.” - same document, and reiterated in 1992.
 
The Pope should just stop talking to the reporters. It seems that every time he does, he says something that’s able to be easily twisted to support evil. I think that we deserve an apology from the gays, not the other way around.
Do you also want an apology from adulterers, abortionists, men who abuse their wives and children, those who defraud others and pay unjust wages, and so on?

The difference between those listed above and homosexuals (though they are all sinning, and on the road to damnation if they do not repent) is that they generally get a tacit free pass from society. When is the last time you heard of someone targeting an adulterer, wife-beater or white-collar criminal for violent attack, despite the often public nature of those offences?

Abortion is a far deeper evil than homosexuality, and yet the secular, progessive state protects the former far more than the latter.

If we can’t be merciful to the worst sinners (to paraphrase Chesterton), then who will?
 
Here, here, Pope Francis! Spread love, and never stop.:grouphug:
 
Am I my brother’s keeper? I think so, for ALL our brothers and sisters. The Pope is not only right to speak out on this and other issues but he has an obligation to do so.
So if your next door neighbor has an affair youre just as sinful? Because a muslim walked into a gay bar and murdered 50 people, youre just as guilty?
 
Do you also want an apology from adulterers, abortionists, men who abuse their wives and children, those who defraud others and pay unjust wages, and so on?

The difference between those listed above and homosexuals (though they are all sinning, and on the road to damnation if they do not repent) is that they generally get a tacit free pass from society. When is the last time you heard of someone targeting an adulterer, wife-beater or white-collar criminal for violent attack, despite the often public nature of those offences?

Abortion is a far deeper evil than homosexuality, and yet the secular, progessive state protects the former far more than the latter.

If we can’t be merciful to the worst sinners (to paraphrase Chesterton), then who will?
This is an awesome post!
 
I guess someone is going to have to apologize posthumously to Harry Hay, American gay rights activist, communist, pro-pedophilia activist, sometime called “the father of gay liberation”.

But is anyone going to apologize to those florists and bakers who have been run out of business?
 
This is an awesome post!
Thanks. 😊

By the way, here’s a better link to what the Pope said:

ncregister.com/daily-news/pope-francis-church-must-accompany-gays-not-discriminate/

As usual, context is everything. He was asked a specific question, answered with reference to the Catechism, and then broadened his perspective to speak of marginalization in general, as well as mercy. 👍

And for those who want the full interview, which touched on a lot of other topics, here’s a transcript:

ncregister.com/daily-news/full-text-pope-francis-in-flight-press-conference-from-armenia/
 
To say that people struggling with homosexuality “must be accepted with respect, compassion, and sensitivity” when they have just been condemned as “intrinsically disordered” is very disingenuous and dishonest. To call it love and mercy makes the situation even worse. It is this very hypocrisy that pushes people away from the Church.
People misunderstand the definition of “disordered”. Men and women are “ordered” for each other; their bodies are complimentary. Men and Men or women and women, are not “ordered” for each other…their bodies are not complimentary, and are thus “disordered”. Perhaps there is a better way of phrasing it, but its still the truth.

Also, you say its “dishonest”…how? Is it a lie that men and women’s bodies are complimentary?
For cardinal Marx there is a very clear disconnect between what the Catechism of the Catholic Church says and what he sees in his archdiocese. The Church condemns homosexuality as a form of sin, while the cardinal sees that in reality it’s actually a form of love. This is not just a dilemma for the cardinal, but for many priests and lay catholics living in the West as well.
I would suspect that Marx would disagree with your interpretation of his statements. I doubt the Cardinal subscribes to heresy.
 
I thought that same-sex attraction/homosexuality was considered “disordered” as per church teaching.
And the *act *of having sex without marriage (which would include sex between two of the same gender) was the sin?

Gay people don’t usually base their entire identity as a human on their sexuality. I’ve never seen or met someone who only identifies by their sexuality.
Can you give an example of this?

Do you think women who decide their main vocation is to bear children and do so, one after another, for 20-25 years…are basing their identity mainly on their sexuality?
And if so…are they degrading themselves?

Do you think some devout Catholics base their identity on being Catholic?

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The Cathechism of the Catholic Church (2357) states that homosexual acts are disordered.

I exaggerated the point about people basing their identity on their sexuality (which I don’t think is limited to gay people, btw). But it certainly seems that people develop their identity around their sexuality and it can be increasingly seen in the development of a unique LGBT culture. Would you agree?

If a woman finds her vocation to marriage and raising a family, that’s fine. If she views her very identity and worth as a person solely on the ability to have children, then I would say yes, this is a problem.

Catholics should base their entire identity on being Catholic. If we really believe that God is the source of all good, then we should follow Him unceasingly and do everything for Him.

All other things such as sexuality, vocation, family, etc. each play a role in shaping our identity. But, we should not be solely identified by one of those things. That is the point I’m getting at.
 
Thanks. 😊

By the way, here’s a better link to what the Pope said:

ncregister.com/daily-news/pope-francis-church-must-accompany-gays-not-discriminate/

As usual, context is everything. He was asked a specific question, answered with reference to the Catechism, and then broadened his perspective to speak of marginalization in general, as well as mercy. 👍

And for those who want the full interview, which touched on a lot of other topics, here’s a transcript:

ncregister.com/daily-news/full-text-pope-francis-in-flight-press-conference-from-armenia/
Thanks for that link! Hope it’s ok to post the quote from the Pope in the first article:
“I repeat what the Catechism of the Catholic Church says: that they must not be discriminated against, that they must be respected and accompanied pastorally,” the Pope said June 26 on board his return flight from Armenia to Rome.
The problem is “a person that has a condition,” he said, but, echoing his comment on the way back from Rio de Janeiro in 2013, noted that that if the person “has good will and who seeks God, who are we to judge?”
“We must accompany them well…this is what the catechism says, a clear catechism.”
Unfortunately, I get the sense some Catholics essentially are arguing with the background assumption that “let’s be real, we know those sinful gays are all going to hell in the end, so there’s no point in being charitable or pastoral to them, all we need to do is oppose them and defeat their nefarious schemes”.

I get the feeling if they were living in Biblical times they might have had the same attitude toward the prostitutes and tax collectors Jesus spent time with. “Let’s be real, those people are horrible sinners with are obviously not gonna repent, so there’s no point in being pastoral”.

And while I agree that it can be problematic for someone to base their entire identity around sexuality – the problem is that it’s often the “traditional” minded people who discuss “the gays” as if all that matters about anyone who identifies as “gay” is that identity.

There also seems to be as assumption that “anyone who identifies as gay or homosexual MUST be marching in lockstep with the homosexual political agenda”. I think this is something the Pope would not agree with, considering that his initial reference to the person who has good will and seeks God, was in the context of a reporter asking if there was a “gay lobby” at the Vatican. The Pope did NOT praise “gay lobbies”, or indeed any “lobby”, indeed he seemed rather judgmental with his comment of “so many lobbies”. But he did not express the same attitude toward individuals who identify as gay.

Now, I have seen some who identify as “gay” speak as if they are speaking for all gay people, but that doesn’t mean we should take them at their word. The National Organization for Women claims to speak for all women, but I think most Catholics would not take that claim at face value, yet it seems many who oppose the “gay agenda” really do assume “all gay people are the same, they’re all enemies of the Church”.

They may express support for “those with SSA” but I get the feeling some Catholics think it is actually a sin to identify as “gay” or “homosexual”, that only those who identify as “having SSA” deserve charity.
 
To say that people struggling with homosexuality “must be accepted with respect, compassion, and sensitivity” when they have just been condemned as “intrinsically disordered” is very disingenuous and dishonest. To call it love and mercy makes the situation even worse. It is this very hypocrisy that pushes people away from the Church.

But I know where it comes from and I sympathize with cardinal Reinhard Marx. Cardinal Marx once said:

For cardinal Marx there is a very clear disconnect between what the Catechism of the Catholic Church says and what he sees in his archdiocese. The Church condemns homosexuality as a form of sin, while the cardinal sees that in reality it’s actually a form of love. This is not just a dilemma for the cardinal, but for many priests and lay catholics living in the West as well.

I also think cardinal Marx has often been dismissed too easily in conservative catholic media, without much regard for the struggle he faces in an increasingly secular Germany.
First, there are many ways to please oneself sexually, and the Church has defined boundaries on these. Traditionally, what so-called “gays” and “lesbians” are doing has been termed “sodomy.” I don’t see the need to make a special class of people based on sodomy, other than to call them sodomites. Unfortunately, the word “gay”, which simply means “happy”, and the island of Lesbos, which still exists and still has real people living on it - many of whom are not engaged in regular sodomy - have both been conscripted ino the service of sodomy. It’s an ugly word, isn’t it? There’s a reason for that.

If the cardinal thinks sodomy is a form of love, and that sodomites should be married, then he and all the other liberal cardinals had their chance to make a change in the last Synod of the Family. No change was made.

Therefore, to openly profess that sodomy is a form of love seems to be openly rebellious against church teaching.

Struggle? Is Cardinal Marx being tortured on the rack? Is he about to be burned at the stake? Fed to wild animals? Please. Do not excuse heresy because of social pressures that in no way approach those found in earlier times - when Christians remained faithful to the Church and her teachings.

In the past we were tempted to bow down to the gods of pagan Rome, not to mention the emperor. Now we are being coerced to bend the knee and pay homage to the idea of Lust in it ugliest forms.
 
Can’t wait to read the folks over at Rorate Coeli’s reaction to the Holy Father’s words. Will they finally accuse him of heresy outright? :rolleyes:
 
Can’t wait to read the folks over at Rorate Coeli’s reaction to the Holy Father’s words. Will they finally accuse him of heresy outright? :rolleyes:
Rorate is quite moderate these days. The real action is at AKA Catholic, The Remnant (who have a petition asking Francis to resign) and One Peter Five. 😛 If you really want to walk on the wild side, try TradCatKnight or Barnhardt.biz, but only on an empty stomach. 😃
 
Even though Pope Benedict made similar comments during his pontificate. 🤷
I do find it ironic how many of the “conservatives” who are happy to blame the “biased liberal media” for misquoting conservatives, also are quick to trust that same media when they see quotes from Pope Francis that “prove” their suspicions about him.

The idea that the Catholic Church transcends the “liberal” and “conservative” labels used in secular politics, really doesn’t seem to sink in for many people, on either “side” of the political ideological divide. I personally find that aspect of the Church to be one of the appealing ones.
 
I really do not understand this. How did Christians help marginalize homosexuals? Is it because Christians believe in sin and homosexuality is one of those sins? What about other types of sins? Should Christians apologize for marginalizing adulterers? The Christians I know do not hate homosexuals, they pray for their souls and for the souls of all sinners because they care about them and want their souls to go to heaven. I believe our focus should be on praying for their souls.

May Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior have mercy on us and on the whole world. Amen.
 
More actual context for these comments:

cnstopstories.com/2016/06/26/christians-should-apologize-for-helping-to-marginalize-gays-pope-says/
The pope said people have a right to complain about certain gay-pride demonstrations that purposefully offend the faith or sensitivities of others, but that is not what Cardinal Marx was talking about, he said.
Pope Francis said when he was growing up in Buenos Aires, Argentina, part of a “closed Catholic culture,” good Catholics would not even enter the house of a person who was divorced. “The culture has changed and thanks be to God!”
“We Christians have much to apologize for and not just in this area,” he said, referring again to its treatment of homosexual persons. “Ask forgiveness and not just say we’re sorry. Forgive us, Lord.”
I don’t think the Pope is suggesting Christians have some kind of specific guilt for actions against homosexuals, since he also mentions divorced persons, and his comments about “certain gay-pride demonstrations” indicate he is not giving the homosexual lobby a free pass, either. But I do think he draws a line between the “homosexual lobby” and “homosexual persons”. Not all who defend traditional values regarding homosexuality, seem able to do that.

As for what the Pope thinks Christians should apologize for. I think the Pope is referring to Christians who have done things such as kick kids out onto the street after they come out as gay, or completely shun family members who are homosexual and refuse to have anything to do with them. Or who endorse beating kids who are homosexual – I actually saw this happen on CAF, in response to a topic posing the hypothetical question “what would you do if one of your children came out as gay?” Although the poster who did so was roundly condemned by most others who replied, I think it’s folly to deny such “Christians” do exist.

I think that kind of behavior is quite different from refusing to attend a “same-sex wedding” or bake a cake celebrating such a union.
 
I really do not understand this. How did Christians help marginalize homosexuals? Is it because Christians believe in sin and homosexuality is one of those sins? What about other types of sins? Should Christians apologize for marginalizing adulterers? The Christians I know do not hate homosexuals, they pray for their souls and for the souls of all sinners because they care about them and want their souls to go to heaven. I believe our focus should be on praying for their souls.

May Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior have mercy on us and on the whole world. Amen.
You are being very sensible JosieN.

I would love to have heard my pope say such sensible things as you have outlined.
 
I’m just wondering when I get my apology. Seems like everyone is getting them these days. Where’s mine?
 
Right now I have just one thought in my head - make sure my parachute is strapped on tight.
 
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