I wrote the following to a TV host who was trying to get the Church to “Compromize” and allow the parents of the disabled boy to continue “Receiving” Communion as they had been allowed to do before in a different Diocese:
*I just saw your segment on the Child who was trying to “Receive” our Lord’s Body and Blood by having the EMHE place the host in the autistic boys mouth and then having his father consume the host. I don’t care what the Diocese of Pittsburgh allowed. THIS IS NEITHER LICIT NOR VALID, and may be a sacrilege! It is against the Teachings of the Catholic Church, and NO Bishop may change this for any reason whatsoever.
If you really want to help these people people, you need to ask these questions: How does this young man eat? Are they providing him with some sort of assistance eating? or, is he eating through a feeding tube? If He isn’t being fed through a tube, maybe he can receive in the Style of Eastern Catholics, but with the same assistance he eats the rest of his food.
You also need to remember the case of Teresa Schindler Schiavo, who because she was so dehydrated was unable to produce saliva, was unable to masticate or swallow the Christ’s Body. NO one “Swallowed the Host for her”. Terri was only able to receive under the species of the Sacred Blood, and that’s what she was given. Please, suggest to the parents that the Priest, Deacon or EMHE give the boy the Blood of Christ after the rest of the congregation has communed (or near the end), and that one of them give the same assistance then as he or she does when he’s eating. Per St. Paul’s Epistle and the Council of Trent, he’ll be receiving the full benefit if he can receive the cup.
That gives them 2 LICIT AND VALID ways he can receive our Lord’s Body and Blood. That’s a lot better than what they’re trying to do now, which is neither licit nor valid, and may even be a sacrilege.
…, you really should know better than this. So, please stop counseling this poor couple that you can help them to “Have it their way”, even though their way is against 19 Centuries of Church Teaching, and there are other more compassionate ways to deal with this.
It just is not compassionate to tell people they should go ahead and break the rules of the Church when the Graces can be obtained in other ways.*
I hope this explains the Teaching of the Church and what the family needs to do in a compassionate fashion. At one time, I developed the technique of “Mechnically Softening” food to assist Severely Disabled Adults in eating their food.
The parents need to stop trying to get the Church to allow them to commit sacrilege and should look at how they feed their son normally. You can bet he doesn’t have some food stuck in his mouth and then watch as his dad chews and swallows it.
In Christ, Michael