Church Guidelines for Marital Separation

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That’s ok. I am reformed

My wife, now has a relationship with a man. That won’t work for her justification.
 
She was entitled to a separation. From there, she revealed her insincerity.
 
Then why are you saying someone has the right to divorce? Very wrong
 
Other factors must be considered.

I’m not hear to seek advice in my case. That is reserved for ecclesiastical authorities.
 
So do all these Catholic filing for divorce have their Bishop’s (or deligets) approval???

If my wife, or myself received this approval, I certainly will respect. Until then, I will demand justice.
 
Post number 12…

"Take note that the Church makes a distinction between separation of spouses and civil divorce.

Separation (with terms provided by the Church) is NOT the same thing as civil divorce.

The permitted reasons for separation are much wider than those of civil divorce."
 
Not trying to force. Just asking the Church leaders to uphold Church law.

If she wants to be in good standing with the Church, and receive Communion in a state of grace (like I do because I actually love her and am going to give my life for this purpose) then she must seek the Church’s approval to file.

No priest who knows our situation has told me they approve. Actually, they have implied the opposite!
 
Thank God she has not filed. Its the Holy Spirit
 
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No, she is my wife and being deceived by evil spirits. I will attack them all for her sake

I can see how they are infuriated that I am turning to God for this strength

And they come through even my loved ones
 
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She’s your wife, yes, but you can’t keep nagging her about her faith. You can voice your objection once, but you can’t go on and on about it.
 
I have children to consider too. A relationship with another man, while receiving Holy Communion is her own perpetual hurt against me and our family, and of course Jesus.

You see why you should not be giving advice, while I’m not asking for it? You dont know the details. And details I dont want to share with anyone but those who’s judgment matters! And thats not all of it!
 
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It’s a shame you all are making personal attacks and criticism.

You dont know my situation. You all just judge.

I’m asking about Canon law to boastful Catholics, and you ignore it.

And instead resort to accusations.

No problem. I’m not here for confirmation from you. I’m asking if Catholics actually support Church teaching when it’s actually a challenge.

I dont think I will stick around CAF any longer.

Thank you @tafan2 you have shown strength in the Spirit. I know genuine friends like you in my parish. They are few.

I will not give up hope and proclaiming Christ’s glory in overcoming the world! Peace to all who suffer with Him!
 
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I agree it’s not the best for your kids. But again, she is an adult. You can’t choose her life for her.

My husband was in a similar situation. His ex left him and took up with another man. He hated it. But all he could do was pray for her and teach his daughter that what her mom was doing is wrong.

You CANNOT treat your wife as a child. What she’s doing is wrong. But that is between her conscience and God. You don’t have the right to dictate what she does. You can teach your children that their mom is making a bad choice. You can tell them it’s not okay to go to Communion in a state of mortal sin. But you CANNOT dictate what your wife does.
 
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