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Regarding the evil of contraception, does it matter if I left out married or unmarried?I mean what I said, but not what you *quoted me as saying. *You left out the rest:
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Regarding the evil of contraception, does it matter if I left out married or unmarried?I mean what I said, but not what you *quoted me as saying. *You left out the rest:
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It doesnât need to.I really donât see where Humanw Vitae covers the sex that outside of marriage
Youâve been here for years and you never learn that the Church exists before the Bible or that the Church gave the world the Bible ??Iâm not preaching liberal ideas, and Iâve been here for years learning the whys and hows. I respect your opinions, and Iâm not saying I believe birth control is totally okay - Iâm just saying that itâs not explicitly clear whether or not it is allowed. Using the bible as the basis, that is. There are some teachings that by reading the Bible no one can deny, but I can see why people may interpret this one differently, is all. Thatâs not liberal, thatâs objective.
My guess is that Humanae Vitae didnât address contraception outside of marriage, because the Church takes it as a given that intercourse outside of marriage is a grave sin. If you are avoiding grave sin, contraception wouldnât even be a question. If you are committing the mortal sin of fornication or adultery, then why would you even bother yourself with the question of the gravity of contraception?I agree that the sexual acts outside of marriage undermines the institution of marriage and I also believe that premarital and extramarital sex are harmful to individuals who engage in it and in most cases all those around them, however this harm is caused by the act, the contraception is secondary this. The harm caused by premarital and extramarital sex would be the same whether they use contraception are not. I really donât see where Humanw Vitae covers the sex that outside of marriage
from the Telegraph (UK):
This is what I was wondering. I was struggling with a mortal sin at one point and confessed twice in three days. When I confessed the second time, I said something along the lines that âI know it is ridiculous for me to have to confess again this soonâŚâ, but the priest said it is never ridiculous! The fact that someone feels sorry for their sin and is confessing is a sign of contrition. If they donât confess, it is because they donât feel sorry and/or donât believe they have sinned. Certainly, there can be cases of scrupulosity, but that doesnât seem to be what the Bishop is saying.Well at least they were praying about thein sins and examining their conscience and assking forgiveness. Does he prefer that now people just donât believe in sin at all?
- Asked if frequent confession is a a good idea, he replies: âNo, because my own experience when we had Confession every day at St Chadâs Cathedral in Birmingham was that regular penitents came back with exactly the same words week after week. So there you would say, actually, there is no conversion taking place.â
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It looks like we are in agreement. To be honest I have problems with the churchâs teachings against barrier methods of contraception even in marriage but I accept it because it is the clear teaching of the Church. But as far as Humane Vitae my reading of it seems to indicate it is addressed only to married couples.estesbob,
Except that contraception facilitates pre-marital sex. That would be one of the evil effects of contraception outside of marriage, and one of the reasons why contraception outside of marriage would still be impermissible regardless whether it is an intrinsic evil or not.
Please let me know what you think, and if I can clarify my thoughts more.
VC
Humanae Vitae.and what does HV mean again?
Whoâs askinâ that?In the first place, sexual act is not allowed outside of marriage so asking if contracepition applies to it or not is like asking if an egg exists before a chicken.
Thatâs fine. But look, I sincerely hope that you wonât include me in the broad paint stroke as one of the folks trying to undermine the Churchâs teaching on contraception.But contraception is evil. period. There is no but, if or may and I donât care what moral theology says.
You are causing confusion is the way I see it.
They would bother with contraception to protect themselves from a veneral diseases and/or keep their partner from getting pregnanl. Neither of these reasons would be licit in a marriage but the circumstances of premarital or extramarital sex is quite different and I do not believe it was addressed in Humanae VitaMy guess is that Humanae Vitae didnât address contraception outside of marriage, because the Church takes it as a given that intercourse outside of marriage is a grave sin. If you are avoiding grave sin, contraception wouldnât even be a question. If you are committing the mortal sin of fornication or adultery, then why would you even bother yourself with the question of the gravity of contraception?![]()
Iâm glad you accept it, even in spite of difficulty understanding it All of us are called to that.To be honest I have problems with the churchâs teachings against barrier methods of contraception even in marriage but I accept it because it is the clear teaching of the Church.
Yes, possibly.But as far as Humane Vitae my reading of it seems to indicate it is addressed only to married couples.
Maybe on some things, but perhaps not on all. I think that contraception outside of marriage is also sinful (in addition to the sin of sex outside of marriage). It might also be the case that contraception outside of marriage is intrinsically evil.It looks like we are in agreement.
Bob,They would bother with contraception to protect themselves from a veneral diseases and/or keep their partner from getting pregnanl. Neither of these reasons would be licit in a marriage but the circumstances of premarital or extramarital sex is quite different and I do not believe it was addressed in Humanae Vita
If it is it would not be because of the reasons laid out in HV. Should we take any meaning from the fact that Pope Paul VI deliberately excluded non-married couples from his discussion?Hi estesbob,
Maybe on some things, but perhaps not on all. I think that contraception outside of marriage is also sinful (in addition to the sin of sex outside of marriage). It might also be the case that contraception outside of marriage is intrinsically evil.
VC
That seems like it is a stretchâŚas I posted, he may have just taken it for granted. Since the Church clearly teaches against sex outside of marriage, it seems superfluous to say âoh by the wayâŚif you are having sex outside of marriage, this goes for you too.â âŚnot that a Pope would phrase it that way.If it is it would not be because of the reasons laid out in HV. Should we take any meaning from the fact that Pope Paul VI **deliberately excluded **non-married couples from his discussion?
I know they wouldnât bother themselves with whether it was sinful or not.B ut I wonder if in the case of extramarital our premarital sexsometimes of contraception, like condoms, might actually be acceptable to the churchas lessening the evil?Bob,
I didnât ask why they would bother with contraception. That is pretty obvious.
What I asked is why they would concern themselves about the sinfulness of contraception when they could care less about the sinfulness of fornication/adultery? Itâs sort of like a gangbanger saying, âwell I shot the guy for no reason, but I wasnât about to pick his pocketsâŚthat would be stealing.â
Pax,
Robert
Would infrequent confession solve the problem?
Yes, in this context it did, because when you quoted me you seemed to think that I said that âartificial contraception might not be intrinsically evilâ (which wasnât my point at all) but I had added the qualifier âfor unmarried peopleâ. HV already established that artificial contraception is intrinsically evil for married people. I would never state the opposite.Regarding the evil of contraception, does it matter if I left out married or unmarried?
This is absolute nonsense. What gives you the right to insult another people?AhhâŚthere go the English thinking againâŚ
Coming from the country that founded its own religion on the sexual desires of their king - is it really surprising?![]()
Oh yes, because youâre so full of grace and charity on this thread.The bishop probably doesnât practice frequent confession. You can see lack of grace is working on him![]()