Great, does that mean any woman you happen to love mean she could be your “husband”? The issue is not that any man could be your husband but that any woman could never be your husband.
I am heterosexual, so no, it would be highly unlikely that I would seek out a woman to be my spouse, whether same sex marriage is legal or not. I really doubt that you will have hordes of people who are heterosexual clamoring to enter into same sex marriages just because such are legally available.
I have a marriage with a particular human being, my spouse. I have a marriage with the entire person, not just his external sexual organ. Sex is great and wonderful, but hardly the single most important thing in our relationship.
That particular human being is not randomly interchangable with any other human being, regardless of chromosones, genitalia, ability to function in any particular way sexually, etc. That relationship is not based on the ability to have biological children together and would continue without the ability to do so.
Based on the same sex couples that I know, their relationships are no different.
Do you think the nature of male and female are simply an accident of nature? You folks seem to minimize anatomy and chromosomes as if they are incidental and simply tools to use as you wish. Man is body and soul.
Yes, humans are body and soul and much more than only baby-making machines. That would be part of the reason that civil marriage is allowed between couples who have some sort of physical disability and are not able to insert tab A into slot B, even though the Church does not allow such. This does not minimize anatomy, it knocks it off of a pedestal as the be-all and end-all and puts it into perspective with all the other aspects of the person that lead toward marriage.
Only if you define complimentarity apart from gender. Two men can be different, but not different in the way a man and woman are different.
And you define complementarity solely based on gender characteristics, which, as the studies I cited showed, are highly influenced by culture. The core differences between men and women are that men can produce sperm and women can bear children.
Nope, it makes mine accept there genuine differences endowed by the creator. Your position makes us disembodied minds that see our physical natures as instruments to be used like tools.
I see it as acknowledging that our physical natures are not all identical and interchangeable. There is nothing “disembodied” about the love between a heterosexual couple or between a homosexual couple.
Raising children who are able to function independently as adults and be contributing members of society.
webmd.com/mental-health/news/20051012/study-same-sex-parents-raise-well-adjusted-kids
Adoption is great, but authentic adoption not some contrived union. Children have rights.
Please define “authentic adoption” and how it differs from legal adoption.