then there are a lot of men out there with a serious problem. I’m sure the readers of Playboy and other porno material are seeing the ‘person’ in the naked photos. I bet they are thinking what a lovely young lady. Bet she’d make a wonderful wife and mother and her parents must be really proud.
Oh, I know exactly what slutwalks are about.
Many ugly things in life like not taking responsibility for one’s own faults and playing the blame game.
So, by your reasoning, a woman raped while not dressed modestly according to you, shares the guilt of her rapist?
So knowing how they started, you come up with with this rot. It was not just an insensitive cop btw.
That’s what the CAF “Ignore” feature is for. I’ve found, in the past 25 years or so of participating in online discussions that it’s generally better if you simply “ignore” somebody rather than say that you’re going to ignore. When you tell somebody that you are going to disregard anything in the future, it’s like sticking your fingers in your ears and saying “nah, nah, nah…I can’t hear you!” – I say this not to denigrate you, but, rather, as a general piece of advice from somebody who’s been doing this for a long, long, time
Who suggested this? I have seen no one suggest this in the way you present. In fact, I would agree and suggest you use this advice regarding the role women play in creating a situation which causes another to stumble.
Your repeating this over again shows you are not understanding the point I am presenting.
No, and you should know better than to attempt to make that connection to what I said. You should be ashamed of yourself and your dishonest approach to what is supposed to be an academic interaction instead of an emotionally blind hissy fit.
This is deeply, deeply offensive to me. I’m a bit in shock that someone would type this in a public forum. Rape is not about sex, its about power over one’s victim. Women get raped when they are fully covered, just like they do when they are dressed in shorts because its 97 degrees outside. There is ZERO reason that makes rape okay. There is zero reason that being inappropriate, threatening and leering at someone is okay. It is NOT okay period. A woman is not “asking” a man to treat her any particular way because of how she dresses EVER.
If you can point to where I said rape was justified, I’d appreciate it.
All of those say, in effect, “Don’t present a near occasion of sin to someone” but that does not force the person to commit a sin. It may offer the opportunity, but it doesn’t force them. They do that on their own accord.
Can’t make an arguement or discuss properly, fall back on insults.
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The problem with making a sweeping generalization and presenting it as a universal truth is that it is usually wrong.
What they say, in effect, is if what you do causes another to fall, don’t do it.
Is that what you were doing? Well, its wrong and you should not do that again.