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they will do that based on the secular laws of the country , not based on the teaching of thier religionYou are simply wrong here. The Catholic Church would never marry a child to a middle aged man.
the same happens in muslims countries , if the the age of marriage was limited in the laws of the country then the mosque will not marry a child to a middle aged man
my point is the that this limitation isn’t religious , it wasn’t never religious issue , and wasn’t never decesion of the churchYou really think Catholics should be okay with sex with babies because Jesus never forbade it? You are wrong. There are limitations on marriage. Most states you have to be at least 16 without parental consent.
i will give you more than that , it was custom even within Byzantine emperors and nobility!Jews and Christians, since NT, have never been okay with child marriages, multiple marriages, multple wives, etc. It may be that marriages were arranged. Give me an example of the custom of children marrying in NT Judaism or Christianity.
roman-emperors.org/aggiefran.htm
According to William of Tyre, Agnes was only eight on her arrival at Constantinople, while Alexius was thirteen; in fact Alexius was born on 14 September 1169. Child brides, whether Byzantines or foreign princesses, were the norm rather than the exception, especially from the late twelfth century. Irene Ducaena, wife of Alexius I Comnenus, was twelve at her marriage, and empress before she was fifteen; the Byzantine princess Theodora, Manuel’s niece, was in her thirteenth year when she married Baldwin III of Jerusalem; and Margaret-Maria of Hungary married Isaac II Angelus at the age of nine.
Agnes’s age, then, was not unusual, **especially as it was customary for young engaged couples in Constantinople to be brought up together in the house of the socially **superior partner.
We hear little of Agnes during Alexius’ reign (24 September 1180 to prior to 24 September 1183). It is highly unlikely that the match was consummated, as it was customary to import imperial brides from overseas at a young age to enable them to become acquainted with Greek and with their future ceremonial duties; **certainly it was unusual under normal circumstances for Byzantine girls to marry before the age of twelve. **However, shortly before Alexius completed three years as emperor, Manuel’s first cousin Andronicus made himself co-emperor and then usurped Alexius’s position altogether, putting him out of the way by having him throttled. Nicetas Choniates then, with morbid relish, claims that Andronicus (who was born c. 1118 and was thus about 65 years of age) sexually exploited the eleven-year old princess.Despite the fact that his marriage to Anna, some fifty years his junior, may well have been made for political reasons – and Andronicus had portraits of Mary of Antioch in the capital replaced with ones of himself either alone or accompanied by his child-bride
Choniates makes the most of the opportunity to ridicule Andronicus, his age and the incongruity of the alliance (‘the overripe suitor embracing the unripe maiden, the dotard the damsel with pointed breasts, the shriveled and languid old man the rosy-fingered girl dripping with the dew of love’).[15]] According to Eustathius of Thessalonica as well, the match was repugnant to her, as she regretted Alexius’ death and loathed Andronicus:[16]] She was the young daughter of the king of France, and as everybody knew hated the union because she was full of intelligence; and after having experienced a different kind of gentle loving, she loathed the roughness of Andronicus. Sometimes, they say, she would imagine in her dreams that she saw the young Alexius, and would cry out his name, and she alone knew what she suffered.