You know, I’m a cradle Catholic, been through the ‘rebellious’ times, been through the ‘questioning’ times, been through a lot of ‘secular’ type things that have been hard on the faith, etc., now at 53 seeing with gladness that a lot of the good once ‘lost’ is being restored and that the good (yes, there has been some) of the ‘new’ is being retained.
This is just my opinion but I simply cannot understand how
any person can stubbornly insist on being a part of a group (
any group) whose teachings that person does not believe in.
It’s like demanding to be called, and considered, a vegan while insisting that eating meat is wonderful, and that those who abstain from meat are totally and egregiously wrong–and claiming that obviously since you’re a vegan your point of view is the correct one, and that anyone saying that he/she is a vegan and vegans do not consume meat is **wrong.
**I mean, if you start out as a vegan (people have), decide that hey, you really prefer eating meat, what on earth is the matter with saying, “I was a vegan once but I decided I don’t believe as they do. I like meat and I’ll eat it. I’m no longer a vegan.”
Can you imagine though standing there and saying, “I was a vegan starting in 1980. I think it is perfectly fine to eat meat. And how dare you tell me I’m not following vegan beliefs! Didn’t I just finish telling you I’ve been a vegan all these years? Don’t you think I know what a vegan is? I AM a vegan and I will always BE a vegan and I insist that you call me a vegan and now I’m going off to eat a 16 ounce rare steak because as a vegan that is what I am entitled and called to do.”
It just doesn’t make sense to me. . .